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Have YOU dated an asshole/bitch?

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Been there done that. And since the guy lurks here, I won't post about it. But I have learned my lesson. If there are red flags going up, run. Run very fast, do not stop at go and collect the money. Just get away.



I couldn't have said it better myself...;)
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But generally I prefer a man who treats me like the princess that I am.



So you only like to be tied to a Throne in the tower of a Castle? You're confusing. Tell Rich he's a brave man.

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Many guys claim that you have to be an asshole to get a woman. Many women claim they'd never date an asshole.

Many women think you have to be super attractive to get a guy. Many guys claim that looks don't matter that much.

So, an honesty thread! Have you fallen into the traps and have dated a stereotype? Did you learn and never repeat the mistake?




We all make the rare mstake when it comes to relationships. When the past few partners turn out to be assholes, it's time to look inward and ask ourselves what unhealthy things we have inside ourselves that make us seek out unhealthy relationships.

Attractive women? Hmmm, depends on the definition. Except for the well filled out tight jumpsuit that gets my attention, bodies don't impress me much. A good degree of physical health and hygiene combined with an intelligent and lively mind ...oh baby!

If I see someone in a casual social setting (including the DZ) with an excellent (by current societal standards) body, fake tits, elaborate hair style, lots of makeup, immaculate nails ...they'll get a glance (or two) but that's it.

Basically, we end up with the type of person we sought out. If there is something inside us that demands the abuse of co-dependent relationships, we will walk over 50 good people to get to the alcoholic, abusive character disorder that makes our hearts sing.

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Have you fallen into the traps and have dated a stereotype?



Yep, went for the glamor girl, turned out she was a total bitch, everything was about her.

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Did you learn and never repeat the mistake?



Of course not!:D:D



Excuse me? This needs a bit of clarification................:P

I have dated many an asshole in my time, in fact I think almost all of them were, I finally learned my lesson
"Well behaved women rarely make history"

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Actually I'm way over him because he is not worth my time if he behaves like that. Do I think he is a jerk and has no respect, well, yeah.

Val just asked a question and I answered it...honestly and with feeling. Sorry

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A story that goes along with the general theme here. :D

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A Russian woman who hired a hitman to kill a male friend, has ended up marrying her intended target.

Former beauty queen Anastasia Nasinovskaya contacted a hitman to kill businessman Igor Lantsov after a furious row.

It's reported Lantsov had demanded she return a luxury car he had bought her.

Nasinovskaya, who had been seeing Lantsov since 2002, decided to get her own back - and even stole the money from him to pay for the hit.

But the hit never happened because the hitman got cold feet and turned himself in to police.

Police staged a sting operation to trap the Russian beauty, but dropped the charges after Lantsov refused to help them prosecute her. Lantsov even hired one of the country's best lawyers to defend her.

"Apparently his feelings were stronger than the distress of having a contract put on his life," a police spokesman told local media.



See? Romance ain't dead. ;) She stole money from him to pay for a hitman to kill him. In five years, she'll just be the homely chick who keeps trying to kill him. :D

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But generally I prefer a man who treats me like the princess that I am.



So you only like to be tied to a Throne in the tower of a Castle?



Umm... that'll work. :)
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You're confusing.



I know... maybe that is because I AM confused.

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Tell Rich he's a brave man.



And now he is a confused man too (from living with me). :D

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I once dated the biggest asshole known to man. Now I'm dating a total sweetheart. So, I guess I lived and learned. Right? :P



Aw.........honey I'm blushing!!! :$:$

You're the best. :)

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Yes I've dated bitches for sure. I've dated girls who have cheated on me, toyed with my emotions, and even punched me in the face just because they had a bad day.

I'm just glad that now I have my Liz. :)

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The wiser wolf prevails.

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I dated a really nice guy who turned into an asshole about a year into our marriage....and I stuck it out for waaaay too long.

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I've dated girls who have cheated on me, toyed with my emotions, and even punched me in the face just because they had a bad day.



Holy Crap!!!! ... you had some real losers!!!
Good thing for normal Liz!! :S
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Yes I've dated bitches for sure. I've dated girls who have cheated on me, toyed with my emotions, and even punched me in the face just because they had a bad day.



And this is where karma comes in. These idiotic people usually never change and get everything coming to them in the end. They can't and won't ever have a happy and healthy relationship. The only issue is why do good people end up dating these men and women? Are they that hell bent on being unhappy or love being in something destructive and co-dependent? The sad part is watching them trying to make it work and making endless excuses for the idiot's "faults" when you know they deserve so much better.

I guess you could always rely on that excuse that women feel they are special enough for the guy to want to change. But I don't think I have ever heard a reason or excuse a guy gives for it.

Have I ever dated a bitch? Yup, but then I grew out of my teens and haven't looked back at that type of girl.
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Been there done that. And since the guy lurks here, I won't post about it. But I have learned my lesson. If there are red flags going up, run. Run very fast, do not stop at go and collect the money. Just get away.



Don't worry Mary, I'll invite him on one of my skydives, then taunt him until he cries. I can do that.

He didn't know when he was lucky, that's for sure.

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