Vallerina 2 #1 September 9, 2004 Many guys claim that you have to be an asshole to get a woman. Many women claim they'd never date an asshole. Many women think you have to be super attractive to get a guy. Many guys claim that looks don't matter that much. So, an honesty thread! Have you fallen into the traps and have dated a stereotype? Did you learn and never repeat the mistake?There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dougiefresh 0 #2 September 9, 2004 Yes. Lasted axactly two weeks, and I dumped her on the fourth of july. My own little declaration of independence. She kept acting like we were supposed to be in competition or something. Not a good basis for a relationship.Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so. --Douglas Adams Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #3 September 9, 2004 I dated myself once - does that count? You look good in that hat... I have this fantasy where... mmm.. nevermind. it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #4 September 9, 2004 Quote Have you fallen into the traps and have dated a stereotype? Yep, went for the glamor girl, turned out she was a total bitch, everything was about her. Quote Did you learn and never repeat the mistake? Of course not! Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #5 September 9, 2004 I dated a sorority girl once. Yup, the sterotypes were right, she turned out to be a self-centered bitch.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyangel2 2 #6 September 9, 2004 Been there done that. And since the guy lurks here, I won't post about it. But I have learned my lesson. If there are red flags going up, run. Run very fast, do not stop at go and collect the money. Just get away.May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds. - Edward Abbey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Girlfalldown 0 #7 September 9, 2004 Yes, I have dated an asshole. My friends thought he was an asshole, his friends thought he was an asshole. Funny thing was he wasn't an asshole to me (or so I kept telling everyone) til we broke up and I found out all the shit he really did behind my back. What an asshole. -------------- (Do not, I repeat DO NOT, take my posts seriously.) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
catfishhunter 2 #8 September 9, 2004 The one time I decided to date out side of my Normal "Blonde,big boobs and PBH (pyscho bitch from hell)" I ended up finally getting married and instead got a "Black Hair,little boobs and PBH" I have just given in and accepted my lot in life, if I want to get laid I just need to accept that I am going to have to put up with pyscho bitches from hell but it isn't all bad cuz the sex ROCKS! Not sure why but the meaner they are the more kinky the sex Then again if there is a Lady out there that would like to show me different....................... MAKE EVERY DAY COUNT Life is Short and we never know how long we are going to have. We must live life to the fullest EVERY DAY. Everything we do should have a greater purpose. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Acensky 0 #9 September 9, 2004 Been there done that. Asshole alcoholic. Lasted a little over 2 months. I look back now and say "what was I thinking??" Live and learn I guess. Living much better now. militiae species amor est Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheAnvil 0 #10 September 9, 2004 Yep! Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slug 1 #11 September 9, 2004 Quote Quote Have you fallen into the traps and have dated a stereotype? Yep, went for the glamor girl, turned out she was a total bitch, everything was about her. Quote Did you learn and never repeat the mistake? Of course not! Hi Brains Since we're talking about Bitch's Whats going to make you happy? A show dog or a go dog.? I married a go dog and been a happy camper for 30+ years. Folks come over to the house and say damn you did all this? Nope the wife did Doesn't your wife do this stuff also? Hell no Different strokes for different folks. Did buy the wife a nice riding lawn tractor to mow the lawn. The push mower took to long. R.I.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #12 September 9, 2004 Yes, I've dated assholes. Those realtionships end quickly. I don't stand for being treated like shit, and no woman should. Did I learn? No, nothing I didn't already know... which is to not date assholes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #13 September 9, 2004 Quote I dated myself once - does that count? I don't need to hear about what you do while in your car or shower! Quote You look good in that hat... I have this fantasy where... mmm.. nevermind. Thanks! Hehehehe...I bet your fantasy includes lots of people! As for myself, well, many people think WB's an asshole, but besides him, no, I haven't dated an asshole.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #14 September 9, 2004 Quote Many guys claim that you have to be an asshole to get a woman. Confident, Self Assured, Outgoing and Decisive Men are attractive to many women. However over exposure to these traits can lead to them being seen as Arrogant, Self Righteous, Overbearing and Controlling (An Asshole). The exact same analogy can be applied to women. They very traits that attract you to them soon becomes too much to handle. Quote Many women think you have to be super attractive to get a guy. Many guys claim that looks don't matter that much. Looks always matter for both sexes. If you are not physically attracted to them, you will have a tough time making things work no matter how Great they are. Quote Have you fallen into the traps and have dated a stereotype? Did you learn and never repeat the mistake? I have dated a few Barbie Dolls. Never lasted long. Too much hassle. I now only date REAL Women (preferably with a few Curves). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #15 September 9, 2004 Quote Been there done that. And since the guy lurks here, I won't post about it. But I have learned my lesson. If there are red flags going up, run. Run very fast, do not stop at go and collect the money. Just get away. Amen, Sister! I couldn't have said it better myself. _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiver30960 0 #16 September 9, 2004 My girlfriend is dating an asshole right now! Elvisio "yes I meant me" Rodriguez Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EricaH 0 #17 September 9, 2004 I've never DATED an asshole - I've slept w/ a bunch of them though. it was fun - then I'd tell them to f-off. Funny thing is that after sleeping w/ & dumping them; they turned into nice guys. In college 2 of them ended up being my best friends. No one else could stand them - but they were nice to me. And - no - I never slept w/ them more than 1 time. So, does it take an asshole to get along w/ assholes? I dunno; but I've been called a bitch before. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #18 September 9, 2004 Quote I don't stand for being treated like shit, and no woman should. Me neither. I am emotionally and mentally healthy. I actually have good self-esteem...go figure. I cannot understand why people would put up with that kind of BS and drama in their life... If a guy treats me like shit, he gets cut out of my life. There is no second chance. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 3,073 #19 September 9, 2004 I've dated a lot of crazy women, but none were evil. Just crazy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #20 September 9, 2004 I've never dated an asshole, but one of my exes was borderline. He was just kind of selfish, but he was never mean to me or anything like that. I am kind of attracted to that type, though, but only initially. It gets old REALLY FAST. Kelly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
josheezammit 0 #21 September 9, 2004 Quote I've dated a lot of crazy women, but none were evil. Just crazy. I wish i could completely agree with you, but I have dated girls that were just as evil as someone trying to take over the world in a horrible way, except they wanted to take over my life for me, that my friends, truly sucked. Ahh, what a wonderful world. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #22 September 9, 2004 Quote Many women think you have to be super attractive to get a guy. Many guys claim that looks don't matter that much. Most guys say that the first thing they notice is a womans eyes. Most women say that the first thing they notice is that guys are liars because their eyes aren't located on their cleavage. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #23 September 9, 2004 I dated an asshole. I had a good outcome from it though, I learned to really appreciate the nice guys. She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amanduh 0 #24 September 9, 2004 OHHHHHHH NO DON'T GET ME STARTED! My EX doesn't reside here so I CAN go on! HEHEHE I was with a TOTAL asshole for about 2 years. Yup, I think I honestly fed off of the need to have to beg to be loved...hmm..even though I never was HEHE. Yeah...first time he told me he loved me was after hurting me...then I took him back..treated me like shit another year..and I still begged for him to just love me. It was the worst case of mental abuse ever lol. Talk about leaving me crying while he peels out of the drive way laughing..uhhh...telling me that if I ate anything he'd have to drop me off at the gym to work it offf..uhhhh...lol...you get the point. But yeah, girls sometimes do feel they have to stay w/ those kind of men because by the time they realize they are being treated like shit, their (in this case mine) self esteem is already so low that they do not believe someone could love them for who they are, or would much less even want them. But that's all okay now cause I gots me a real man that treats me like I'm his princess and that's all that matters. Im a lucky gal OH, and on top of that...right after I dumped him for good, I FOUND SKYDIVING...which TOTALLY changed my outlook on life. I considered it my therapy ...figured it might be cheaper than a shrink..BOY WAS I WRONG! HAHAHA Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
melstarr 0 #25 September 9, 2004 Quote Have you fallen into the traps and have dated a stereotype? Did you learn and never repeat the mistake? yes, i have fallen into the trap and i learned a lot!!! ......... to never stop appreciating all the small and beautiful things that my babe bestows upon me! yaaaaay! ~ meL* Pink Mafia / Tunnel Mafia Sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
