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Your biggest character flaw?

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So, what is YOUR biggest character flaw?:S

So, I was driving home from work today and while caught in some traffic I started thinking. I realized something for probably not the first time in my life, but I concluded that my biggest character flaw (by far) is jealousy. No, this didn't come out of thin air- something at the office made me realize this. While I usually don't act jealous, it does affect my mood and my attitude and it's a royal pain. [:/]

But I'm working on it...:P

And so I ask again, what is your biggest character flaw? or if not a flaw, just something you wish to change about yourself?

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While I usually don't act jealous, it does affect my mood and my attitude and it's a royal pain. [:/] But I'm working on it...:P



I think I'm right there with ya. I'm usually pretty grounded and don't let it be known. If I voice something that sounds jealous, I try to do it in a not serious tone because I know sometimes I'm just being foolish and unrealistic. Humor and not taking it too seriously always helps me deal with the jealousy.

To help, I usually tell myself that if someone is gonna do not nice things to me, there is nothing I can do to stop it. I ask myself do I really want to be with someone who would do that to me or do I really want to be in a relationship where that exists? Trust makes life easy but its so hard to find.
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If I voice something that sounds jealous, I try to do it in a not serious tone because I know sometimes I'm just being foolish and unrealistic. Humor and not taking it too seriously always helps me deal with the jealousy.



I'm right there with you on that one as well... especially the "foolish and unrealistic" part.

What's crazy is that- now when I feel jealous I go work out just to put me in a better mood... and it usually works.... and No, that is not the only time I work out..:P

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biggest character flaw? I'm a fucking bitch.... Don't see it changing, though, as I approach middle age....



I have to be the opposite.....my hearts too big....sure I get smart on here and have fun...it does seem the more I'm around people I tend to be more bitchy...



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I lack self confidence.



I wouldn't have guessed this from your online personality. But I think a lot of people are different online than they are in person.

Myself I procrastinate way too much, though I do work my ass off when I get around to it, and I can be somewhat anti-social.

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I wouldn't have guessed this from your online personality. But I think a lot of people are different online than they are in person.



Tis true though. I never think i deserve anything good to happen to me. I'm constantly needing pep talks from my freinds. I'm scared to really try anything cause i think i'll fail. Ugh, i've been working on improving my confidence for years and it's better than it used to be, but i still have a long long way to go.

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Tis true though. I never think i deserve anything good to happen to me. I'm constantly needing pep talks from my freinds. I'm scared to really try anything cause i think i'll fail. Ugh, i've been working on improving my confidence for years and it's better than it used to be, but i still have a long long way to go.



Ahh yeah, the pep talks. I've gotten and given a few of those. Problem is, it's easier to believe the bad things you say to yourself than the good things other people tell you. Life would be a lot easier if it was the opposite.

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my charecter flaw... well besidesmy spelling and bad typing......i'd say it's giving people the "readers digest verssion" over mynormal war and peace lenght story.... and once i begin a story i need to finish it..it's just one of those things....

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I lack self confidence.
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linz spews mt dew and tangueray.....
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would that have been a **snort laugh**?



Perfect examples of why i lack self confidence. When i am brave enough to say something, people laugh about it.... :(

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biggest character flaw? I'm a fucking bitch.... Don't see it changing, though, as I approach middle age....

linz



Sorry linz, gotta step in here...YOU ARE NOT A BITCH! :)



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I lack self confidence.
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linz spews mt dew and tangueray.....
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would that have been a **snort laugh**?



Perfect examples of why i lack self confidence. When i am brave enough to say something, people laugh about it.... :(



It's laughing in a *good* way....

linz
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