tricky 0 #1 August 23, 2004 So, what is YOUR biggest character flaw? So, I was driving home from work today and while caught in some traffic I started thinking. I realized something for probably not the first time in my life, but I concluded that my biggest character flaw (by far) is jealousy. No, this didn't come out of thin air- something at the office made me realize this. While I usually don't act jealous, it does affect my mood and my attitude and it's a royal pain. But I'm working on it... And so I ask again, what is your biggest character flaw? or if not a flaw, just something you wish to change about yourself? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paige 0 #2 August 23, 2004 QuoteWhile I usually don't act jealous, it does affect my mood and my attitude and it's a royal pain. But I'm working on it... I think I'm right there with ya. I'm usually pretty grounded and don't let it be known. If I voice something that sounds jealous, I try to do it in a not serious tone because I know sometimes I'm just being foolish and unrealistic. Humor and not taking it too seriously always helps me deal with the jealousy. To help, I usually tell myself that if someone is gonna do not nice things to me, there is nothing I can do to stop it. I ask myself do I really want to be with someone who would do that to me or do I really want to be in a relationship where that exists? Trust makes life easy but its so hard to find.Tunnel Pink Mafia Delegate www.TunnelPinkMafia.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #3 August 23, 2004 biggest character flaw? I'm a fucking bitch.... Don't see it changing, though, as I approach middle age.... linz-- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tricky 0 #4 August 23, 2004 QuoteIf I voice something that sounds jealous, I try to do it in a not serious tone because I know sometimes I'm just being foolish and unrealistic. Humor and not taking it too seriously always helps me deal with the jealousy. I'm right there with you on that one as well... especially the "foolish and unrealistic" part. What's crazy is that- now when I feel jealous I go work out just to put me in a better mood... and it usually works.... and No, that is not the only time I work out.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #5 August 23, 2004 Quotebiggest character flaw? I'm a fucking bitch.... Don't see it changing, though, as I approach middle age.... linz Sorry linz, gotta step in here...YOU ARE NOT A BITCH! _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #6 August 23, 2004 Quote So, what is YOUR biggest character flaw? This is a trick question right -- I mean, it's like, internet addiction for everyone that posts here isn't it?quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cloudynot 0 #7 August 23, 2004 Quotebiggest character flaw? I'm a fucking bitch.... Don't see it changing, though, as I approach middle age.... I have to be the opposite.....my hearts too big....sure I get smart on here and have fun...it does seem the more I'm around people I tend to be more bitchy... Clouds are cool to move through but not if they are NOT jumpable Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #8 August 23, 2004 I lack self confidence. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #9 August 23, 2004 WOMAN!!!! I KNOW you didn't just spoil my M.O. S'allright.... linz Mt. Dew spoils a good glass of Tangueray. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tricky 0 #10 August 23, 2004 QuoteI lack self confidence. Heh, that one is a close second for me... a very close... maybe even a tie.... But, I would have to say jealousy is more self-destructive and probably even lessens my self confidence even more. YUCK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #11 August 23, 2004 QuoteI lack self confidence. linz spews mt dew and tangueray.....-- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkM 0 #12 August 23, 2004 QuoteI lack self confidence. I wouldn't have guessed this from your online personality. But I think a lot of people are different online than they are in person. Myself I procrastinate way too much, though I do work my ass off when I get around to it, and I can be somewhat anti-social. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #13 August 23, 2004 QuoteI wouldn't have guessed this from your online personality. But I think a lot of people are different online than they are in person. Tis true though. I never think i deserve anything good to happen to me. I'm constantly needing pep talks from my freinds. I'm scared to really try anything cause i think i'll fail. Ugh, i've been working on improving my confidence for years and it's better than it used to be, but i still have a long long way to go. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #14 August 23, 2004 QuoteQuoteI lack self confidence. linz spews mt dew and tangueray..... would that have been a **snort laugh**? _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkM 0 #15 August 23, 2004 Quote Tis true though. I never think i deserve anything good to happen to me. I'm constantly needing pep talks from my freinds. I'm scared to really try anything cause i think i'll fail. Ugh, i've been working on improving my confidence for years and it's better than it used to be, but i still have a long long way to go. Ahh yeah, the pep talks. I've gotten and given a few of those. Problem is, it's easier to believe the bad things you say to yourself than the good things other people tell you. Life would be a lot easier if it was the opposite. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #16 August 23, 2004 I have a tendency to over-analyze people and their intentions. Sometimes things are just simpler than I think they are. _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kennedy 0 #17 August 23, 2004 Procrastination. Hence the sig line. I think of it as a personal reminder. witty subliminal message Guard your honor, let your reputation fall where it will, and outlast the bastards. 1* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #18 August 23, 2004 my charecter flaw... well besidesmy spelling and bad typing......i'd say it's giving people the "readers digest verssion" over mynormal war and peace lenght story.... and once i begin a story i need to finish it..it's just one of those things.... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #19 August 23, 2004 QuoteI lack self confidence. ----------------------------------------------------------- linz spews mt dew and tangueray..... ------------------------------------------------------------- would that have been a **snort laugh**? Perfect examples of why i lack self confidence. When i am brave enough to say something, people laugh about it.... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kennedy 0 #20 August 23, 2004 QuoteQuotebiggest character flaw? I'm a fucking bitch.... Don't see it changing, though, as I approach middle age.... linz Sorry linz, gotta step in here...YOU ARE NOT A BITCH! um... Super King Ka-me-ha-me-ha BIOTCH?witty subliminal message Guard your honor, let your reputation fall where it will, and outlast the bastards. 1* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #21 August 23, 2004 SLOPPY IMPULSE CONTROL"I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #22 August 23, 2004 Yikes...I wasn't laughin at you sunshine..I was giving Linz a hard time for being a smart ass. Sorry for the misunderstanding. _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #23 August 23, 2004 QuoteQuoteI lack self confidence. ----------------------------------------------------------- linz spews mt dew and tangueray..... ------------------------------------------------------------- would that have been a **snort laugh**? Perfect examples of why i lack self confidence. When i am brave enough to say something, people laugh about it.... It's laughing in a *good* way.... linz-- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #24 August 23, 2004 I'm shy. Introverted. Whichever you want to call it. I'm always the one off on the edge of the conversation, never saying anything...Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Unstable 9 #25 August 23, 2004 I'm highstrung, or if you will, driven Drives a lot of people nuts. =========Shaun ========== Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites