ChrisL 2 #1 July 22, 2004 My dad made the biggest jump of all last night. He left this world by his own hand with his eyes open his head up. He watched his mother and then his wife die slowly from cancer and now, having been diagnosed with cancer himself, he made a choice to not have his loved ones watch him slowly waste away and die. He put all his affairs in order, made arrangements for his own cremation and burial, left a seperate letter for each of his children, went out on his deck with his gun and watched the sunset. He ended his life in the same way that he lived it. On his own terms. I have no words to describe how I feel today or to say how much I love him. He was my dad and I dont think I will ever stop missing him. I havent even started yet. Blue Skies Dad.__ My mighty steed Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #2 July 22, 2004 I'm so sorry to hear. Hugs!Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hooked 0 #3 July 22, 2004 Many, many Hugs to you. Not much a person can say to make it better for you, but know that we're here to lend a shoulder, offer cyber hugs and prayers. It's very hard losing someone as dear as a father. J -------------------------------------- Sometimes we're just being Humans.....But we're always Human Beings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
crwmike 0 #4 July 22, 2004 QuoteMy dad made the biggest jump of all last night. He left this world by his own hand with his eyes open his head up. He watched his mother and then his wife die slowly from cancer and now, having been diagnosed with cancer himself, he made a choice to not have his loved ones watch him slowly waste away and die. He put all his affairs in order, made arrangements for his own cremation and burial, left a seperate letter for each of his children, went out on his deck with his gun and watched the sunset. He ended his life in the same way that he lived it. On his own terms. I have no words to describe how I feel today or to say how much I love him. He was my dad and I dont think I will ever stop missing him. I havent even started yet. Blue Skies Dad. Sounds to me like he made his choice and did it with style. Blue Skies to your Dad. Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #5 July 22, 2004 My condolences to you and your family, Chris. He'll fly with you from now on. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,452 #6 July 22, 2004 QuoteI have no words to describe how I feel today or to say how much I love him. I'm so sorry, Chris. So very sorry. There aren't any words. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mailin 0 #7 July 22, 2004 So sorry to hear Chris. I hope your memories of him are as vibrant as he sounds. JenArianna Frances Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpergirl 0 #8 July 22, 2004 Chris, I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like your dad knew what he wanted and did things his way. He obviously didn't want you and the rest of his family and friends to watch him slowly die so he made it quick. Sending vibes and prayers your way. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PrairieDoug 0 #9 July 22, 2004 Chris -- Please accept condolences from a friend you haven't met yet. The love and respect you have for your father is apparent. Under the circumstances, I believe the path your father choose is an honorable and understandable one. I hope your grieving process leads you to some serenity and acceptance. Sincerely, Doug (FOB 1989) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rmsmith 1 #10 July 22, 2004 Sounds like your father lived an organized life, and he was able to clearly see the end when faced with it. I've listened to many folks talk tough about the end, but when it arrived they didn't have the moxie to deal with it, and they all went down curled up in a fetal position and usually in terrible pain. The medical community kindly exhausted their savings too. As you said, he lived life on his terms. You have my sincere condolences. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #11 July 22, 2004 BSBD man. Continue on continuing on, and may he rest in peace, and may you rejoice in his memories....---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rdy2skydive 0 #12 July 22, 2004 Chris, Wish I knew what to say but I guess there's nothing that will make this better for you. I'm so sorry. Condolences to you and your family - many hugs and vibes too. Your dad is in a better place. Big fat blues to him. Lisa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pop 0 #13 July 22, 2004 Wow! All prayers are with you and your family7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #14 July 22, 2004 Sending you and your family my love and prayers. Blue ones to your dad.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gemini 0 #15 July 22, 2004 Chris: He is in a better place, free from pain and with those who left before him. You will see him again someday. And for that celebrate his life, not his passing from us. Blue skies, Jim Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kellysalt77 0 #16 July 22, 2004 chris- i am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. you know where to find me if you need anything at all! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tailgate 0 #17 July 22, 2004 He will always be with you in your heart and mind. Sounds like one hell of a man. Vibes to you and yours. I lift a glass to him. _________________________________________________ Let me live in my house by the side of the road and be a friend to man- Sam Walter Foss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #18 July 22, 2004 I am sorry for your loss bro. RIPI'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #19 July 22, 2004 So sorry. Please stay safe and know we are here for you.Breathe. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snowbird 0 #20 July 22, 2004 You're right. You won't ever stop missing him. And yet somehow, he'll always be so close it feels you could touch him. ((HUGS)) and condolences. Let people lend you strength when you need it, and give yourself lots of time to deal with it. Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea. -Robert A. Heinlein Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pammi 0 #21 July 22, 2004 Your post touched me deeply with what I'm going through with my Dad right now too. I'm so very sorry that your loss. He sounds like a brave man. Pammi Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brian425 0 #22 July 22, 2004 I'm sorry. God bless and {{{{Vibes}}} B The only time you should look down on someone is when you are offering them your hand. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flygirl03 0 #23 July 23, 2004 (((HUGS))) and prayers † for your comfort Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shawndiver 0 #24 July 23, 2004 Blue Skies to your dad, condolences and vibes to you and your family. Shawn_________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #25 July 23, 2004 Chris, I can honestly say that I cannot comprehend your pain. My parents are now 72 and 68 and every now and then I think about their passing. It seems so impossible for me to accept. Just know that your father, yourself and all your family are in my prayers. Please somehow, find the strength to hang in there, Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
