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why does rejection suck so bad

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I hate getting rejected, i get too sensitive and girls showing interest one minute then dropping me for a guy with a bigger wallet, that hurts too. I guess who I am is not as valuable to some, then the power of the green. what do ya think?[:/]

Ahh, what a wonderful world.

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*lifting my jack and coke*

You'll make it bro, I promise. I have been there, then when I wasn't even looking, the women I was destined to meet came to me. We're getting married Oct 8, 2005.

My point is life gives you hard knocks, but karma and destiny works and you'll meet who you're supposed to meet when you're supposed to meet them!

In the mean time, keep going, don't let it get to you too bad, have some fun and date around.B|
--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline."

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I think that if you are going after the type of girl who finds a man's wallet that important, that you're going for the wrong kind of girl.
She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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If a girl is only interested in guys with money, then she's not worth your time (cliche, I know, but it's true). My interest in guys has always been based on his personality . . . a sense of humor is a must, but I can buy my own movie tickets. ;) I hope everything works out better for you in the future. :)
Kelly

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Suck it up! Noboby likes a whiner!
Dude, act like you don't care! Mother had 'em, mother fuck 'em! That'smy mantra!
Women are strange animals, most don't know what they want; except what they think they can't have. Stand back and watch; the good ones are usually in the background. But if you think you got problems now just wait until one of them likes the size of your wallet!


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Suck it up! Noboby likes a whiner!
Dude, act like you don't care! Mother had 'em, mother fuck 'em! That'smy mantra!
Women are strange animals, most don't know what they want; except what they think they can't have. Stand back and watch; the good ones are usually in the background. But if you think you got problems now just wait until one of them likes the size of your wallet!


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Ahh, what a wonderful world.

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You really need an answer? Geesh, i think it's obvious why rejection hurts so bad. When you put your heart and soul on the line for someone and they crush you like a tiny bug...it hurts.

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You really need an answer? Geesh, i think it's obvious why rejection hurts so bad. When you put your heart and soul on the line for someone and they crush you like a tiny bug...it hurts.




ya, i think i might join sunny throwing some rocks....

Ahh, what a wonderful world.

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Awww, i'm sorry meatbomb. How about a hybrid jump this weekend to cheer you up. I got a cool idea for you



Hey, i'm sad too. What ya gonna do for me to cheer me up? :D

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I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug!

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My first thought was .. get used to it... but thats kinda harsh .. :|
If it makes you feel any better.. women get rejected AT LEAST ..(ok well maybe not.. but ALMOST) as much as men. Its a vicious cycle.

But if you are anything like AggieDave, you can look forward to your mass wedding with all of the "women" of your dreams.. who will come along when you least expect it... :D

oh yah.. dont forget.. get used to it .. ;)

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I think you are hanging with the wrong sort of girls! I don't think money is the most important thing in the world. It is nice to have, but certainly not the most important thing. My hubby and I don't have alot of money, hell we don't even have our licenses to jump yet, but I am still so very happy and I love him so completely. Some girls have the gift of seeing what is truely magnificent and some miss it all together. Life is but one big school and we are all in it and learning at different speeds. We all deal with rejection sweetie it is a part of the learning.-Caress
I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being
right.

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why does rejection suck so bad



Inexperience. Wait until you're a little older. When you hit about 10 or 11 thousandth rejection, it's much much easier.



Actually, they tend to get worse. As you get older and burned more you get bitter and want to be alone only to find someone amazing. Then you let down your guard, fall in love, plan a future together, invest your trust in someone again, spend more time together, and then they pull it all away for the dumbest reasons.

You end up worse off then when you started because you have had your trust betrayed when you have given it all to that person, and even more bitter because you look back and realize you would be better off right now and in less pain if you had just stayed single.

But you know what...you end up bitter and wanting to be alone....then you find someone. But this time, maybe she is the one? Or she could end up being worse than the last one. Have fun.
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We've all had our share of rejection. Unfortunately it's part of life. One day someone will appreciate all you have to offer (on the inside). Someone may be beautiful on the outside and seem to have everything money can buy, but if they're ugly on the inside it comes to the surface. Don't worry. Someone will come along, like you for who you are and sweep you off your feet.:)
Don't let this chick get you down. Karma is a bitch!;) She's not worth getting upset about.:)
"It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..."


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Just figured I'd spew some rhetoric so that I can seem intellectual and sensitive. (these are from memory so please forgive the errors)

"And bending down beside the glowing bars, murmur, a little sadly, how love fled
and paced upon the mountains overhead,
and hid his face amid a crowd of stars." - Yeats from "when you are old and gray"

"All experience is an arch where through gleams that untraveled world whose margin fades forever and forever when I move" - Tennison from Ullyses

"Treat 'em mean and ya keep 'em keen!" - my sister when I asked her the same question you're asking.

Don't look for happiness in anyone else but youself and remember "In skydiving, you don't lose your girlfriend, you just lose your turn!" - my old DZO


I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet.

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