Beerlight 0 #26 July 1, 2004 Rejection is a part of life amigo.....flow with it... and maybe Figure out how to make some of that, whatcha call it???? MONEY!!! Not sure what your occupation really is, or if your going to school, but if your not on the road you'd like to be to have a little green in your pocket, GET ON THAT ROAD!! B2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
josheezammit 0 #27 July 1, 2004 seee the problem is not that i have no money, its that there are others that have more, i do alright for myself, when is a girl is raised by millionaires she tends to be attracted to millionaires, I am no millionaire.....but I do make enough money to have fun, lets just say that. Ahh, what a wonderful world. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #28 July 1, 2004 QuoteI hate getting rejected, i get too sensitive and girls showing interest one minute then dropping me for a guy with a bigger wallet, that hurts too. I guess who I am is not as valuable to some, then the power of the green. what do ya think? What makes you think it was money? Maybe you just suck?? KIDDING!!! I am just kidding. I had to slam someone today. I feel better now! Money ain't everything. You'll find someone worth while when you AREN'T LOOKING... I had given up when my barracks roomy set me up on a blind date. And now that blind date and I have been married for a vewy vewy long time, and are vewy vewy happy. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
josheezammit 0 #29 July 1, 2004 QuoteQuoteI hate getting rejected, i get too sensitive and girls showing interest one minute then dropping me for a guy with a bigger wallet, that hurts too. I guess who I am is not as valuable to some, then the power of the green. what do ya think? What makes you think it was money? Maybe you just suck?? i'm tellin ya, i love those pink mafia sisters, they are the best, thanks KIDDING!!! I am just kidding. I had to slam someone today. I feel better now! Money ain't everything. You'll find someone worth while when you AREN'T LOOKING... I had given up when my barracks roomy set me up on a blind date. And now that blind date and I have been married for a vewy vewy long time, and are vewy vewy happy. Ahh, what a wonderful world. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #30 July 1, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuotewhy does rejection suck so bad Inexperience. Wait until you're a little older. When you hit about 10 or 11 thousandth rejection, it's much much easier. Actually, they tend to get worse. As you get older and burned more you get bitter and want to be alone only to find someone amazing. Then you let down your guard, fall in love, plan a future together, invest your trust in someone again, spend more time together, and then they pull it all away for the dumbest reasons. You end up worse off then when you started because you have had your trust betrayed when you have given it all to that person, and even more bitter because you look back and realize you would be better off right now and in less pain if you had just stayed single. But you know what...you end up bitter and wanting to be alone....then you find someone. But this time, maybe she is the one? Or she could end up being worse than the last one. Have fun. I need a valium now. I hate you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JRock 0 #31 July 1, 2004 Yep. It sucks. I tend to find that all the chics I can trust and are not like that are already taken. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #32 July 1, 2004 And, if a woman only notices your wallet or lack thereof, she's not worth your time. A woman who is worth something will value you for who you are - not money.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #33 July 1, 2004 Go to the gym, get all buff, and attract women based on your looks. It's still just as superficial as when they like you for your wallet, but less expensive. That is so wrong. I shouldn't have said that. Can I get a high-five from all the chicks dating unattractive, poor guys? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChasingBlueSky 0 #34 July 1, 2004 Quote I need a valium now. I hate you. I get that a lot Me, bitter? Nah There do seem to be a severe lack of quality women in the world. Most still want the bad boy instead of a nice guy or someone that will respect them. Most seem to want the challenge of someone they can change or someone that drives a nice car/crotch rocket, or some dumbass skygod._________________________________________ you can burn the land and boil the sea, but you can't take the sky from me.... I WILL fly again..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #35 July 1, 2004 The whole process is real simple. People trade what they have for what they want. Almost everyone can find someone that treats them well, is a good person, is responsible, and basically happy. However, (both sexes) generally go for the good looking person and try to mold them into the better person. Basically, that means that they don't like the "person" that is inside the body that they are lusting after. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drakeshelby 0 #36 July 1, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuotewhy does rejection suck so bad Inexperience. Wait until you're a little older. When you hit about 10 or 11 thousandth rejection, it's much much easier. Actually, they tend to get worse. As you get older and burned more you get bitter and want to be alone only to find someone amazing. Then you let down your guard, fall in love, plan a future together, invest your trust in someone again, spend more time together, and then they pull it all away for the dumbest reasons. You end up worse off then when you started because you have had your trust betrayed when you have given it all to that person, and even more bitter because you look back and realize you would be better off right now and in less pain if you had just stayed single. But you know what...you end up bitter and wanting to be alone....then you find someone. But this time, maybe she is the one? Or she could end up being worse than the last one. Have fun. Amen!!!! But I still keep trying!!! drakeshelbydrakeshelby Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #37 July 1, 2004 QuoteMost seem to want the challenge of someone they can change We can change you guys? Wow, that's news to me! She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChasingBlueSky 0 #38 July 1, 2004 QuoteQuoteMost seem to want the challenge of someone they can change We can change you guys? Wow, that's news to me! No, you can't but it seems some women feel they can. You hear such lame excuses as "but I know he has changed and deserves the benefit of the doubt." Or, "I know he will do thing differntly because of me." blah blah blah.... Like Bill said...you like what you see on the outside and pretend to like what is on the inside. And pride makes you think you can shape him into prince charming. But a frog is still a frog._________________________________________ you can burn the land and boil the sea, but you can't take the sky from me.... I WILL fly again..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #39 July 1, 2004 QuoteQuoteMost seem to want the challenge of someone they can change We can change you guys? Wow, that's news to me! No, but that's not the point. Try using the "Sure... you can do that... you can do Anyyyyything you want..." line when discussing stuff. Guys continue to do those things, we just like to know which ones will cause the suffering later. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #40 July 1, 2004 QuoteThat is so wrong. I shouldn't have said that. Can I get a high-five from all the chicks dating unattractive, poor guys? What? No responses? I figured that there would be a stack of them by now. The thread would go over 500 responses and be locked. Since I don't occupy any moral high-ground, could the wealthy, good-looking, bi-polar girls please pm me some nekkie pics? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #41 July 1, 2004 QuoteSince I don't occupy any moral high-ground, could the wealthy, good-looking, bi-polar girls please pm me some nekkie pics? Don't go there, dude....take it from me. It ain't worth it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #42 July 1, 2004 QuoteQuoteSince I don't occupy any moral high-ground, could the wealthy, good-looking, bi-polar girls please pm me some nekkie pics? Don't go there, dude....take it from me. It ain't worth it. I'm used to good-looking and crazy, but I'm moving into new territory. Besides being superficial, I'm also amazingly lazy so I'm trying to get a rich chick that owns a bar. I've got my doubts about finding a rich skydiving chica though, they've already spent their money on jump tickets. If they would pack for me, that would help though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hmatousek 0 #43 July 1, 2004 Let's base this on an individual level and not a male female level. The same thing happens to chicks too. And everyone is right, the good ones are usually standing in the background having fun on thier own. The good ones are already happy, they don't need anyone to make them happy. Happiness lies within, if it doesn't then something is wrong. No one should make you happy, they just enhance it. I'm single cause I choose to be. I know what I want and I am happy to look for the person who is right for me. If I don't find him then I will continue being happy surrounded by wonderful friends doing the things I love. Rejection sucks but life is about taking risks, if you will be happy trying it then by all means do. If you don't then it can never happen. HeatherLife doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoysPlayThing 0 #44 July 1, 2004 Ummm... pardon me for asking... but How does it suck so bad if you got rejected?.. I mean you are telling us you didn't get that far correct? ... I'm confussed! _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
josheezammit 0 #45 July 1, 2004 QuoteUmmm... pardon me for asking... but How does it suck so bad if you got rejected?.. I mean you are telling us you didn't get that far correct? ... I'm confussed! i guess this is where my definition becomes subjective, my idea of rejection is having made progress, as bf and gf type business and then getting dropped, and i am just really too sensitive sometimes, when it comes to girls, its a long story (entirely seperate from this one but it involves, a girl, an irish exhcange student, and a returned engagement ring. ever since that i just get a little down cause I find some way to relate failure with girls back to that back to that. is there any other way i can help clear up the rejection topic for ya? Ahh, what a wonderful world. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoysPlayThing 0 #46 July 1, 2004 No I understand ya now. I'm very sorry... It must be really hard for ya. _______________________________________________ My mind is like a parachute...it functions only when open. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
josheezammit 0 #47 July 1, 2004 QuoteNo I understand ya now. I'm very sorry... It must be really hard for ya. you know what, it was when i started this thread, but then i just grabbed my all american rejects CD drove out to the dropzone in the middle of the night, Sorry Deb and Phil (please don't shoot me), and just looked at the sky, cause hey, evertime i see it, I feel like i can fly...... Ahh, what a wonderful world. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #48 July 1, 2004 Ok, you want the answer? Quit trying to find a relationship, try to have fun and enjoy life. Instead of trying to date the Prom Queen, find 3 girls who like you and want to treat you well. Date all 3 for a while. Enjoy their company and treat them well. All 3 should be girls who like you, not girls that you are constantly working to impress. After 2 months, you will have a relationship with the one who treats you the best and it will be emotionally rewarding. The other 2 should remain good friends because you treated them well and weren't being a doormat while trying to make The Relationship perfect. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mardigrasbob 0 #49 July 1, 2004 Quoteit involves, a girl, an irish exhcange student Oh a redhead!! That explains everything! RUN like the devil is chasing your ass!! ------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #50 July 1, 2004 QuoteActually, they tend to get worse. As you get older and burned more you get bitter and want to be alone only to find someone amazing. Then you let down your guard, fall in love, plan a future together, invest your trust in someone again, spend more time together, and then they pull it all away for the dumbest reasons. You end up worse off then when you started because you have had your trust betrayed when you have given it all to that person, and even more bitter because you look back and realize you would be better off right now and in less pain if you had just stayed single. But you know what...you end up bitter and wanting to be alone....then you find someone. But this time, maybe she is the one? Or she could end up being worse than the last one. Have fun. hmmm have you been sneaking peaks at the draft of my biography?? still you cant fly if you dont leap...so...3,2,1.... why are the most amazing things so f&^*king complicated by everything else??____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
