Rebecca 0 #1 April 16, 2004 For the past several weeks, I haven't had an extraordinary amount of work to do. Not even an ordinary amount, really. So I was looking forward to a long weekend last Thursday, when lo and behold, afternoon rolls around and brings hell with it. I was asked to validate a set of financials for another group, and of course it was a rush (no problem), and we need to figure out which data set to use (no problem) and I would have to liase with Tanya (PROBLEM) Tanya*, an associate fresh out of B-school, has been assigend to my dept. for eight months now. I started asking when her rotation was up the minute she got here. This little peon seems to think that she's the only one with a brain around here, and treats everyone else acordingly. Zero respect, total impertinence, and a prima donna attitude have made her the bane of my entire organization. Every single person, with one exception, despises this woman. And the exception is coming around to the truth, too, when Tanya's nose isn't buried up their small intestine. She just barged into my office for the umpteenth this week, demanding to know what "these numbers" mean, and why this and why that, and while I was attempting to explain, she leaned over me (oh my God the halitosis!), and started using my freakin' keyboard! That's just the latest infraction. GAAAGGHHH! OK, rant over. Anyone else have to deal with That Person? The one who has the ability to enrage, annoy, and irritate everyone around them? More importantly, any advice on standing up to them that doesn't comprimise your professionalism? *Names have been changed to protect the innocent (i.e. me) you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #2 April 16, 2004 Ehhh, kill em with kindness?? I don't have to deal with people like that so i don't know what to tell you, sorry. Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #3 April 16, 2004 QuoteEvil in the workplace I thought someone brought in Krispy Kremes.....Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #4 April 16, 2004 to hell with kindness. tell her the truth.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #5 April 16, 2004 QuoteQuoteEvil in the workplace I thought someone brought in Krispy Kremes..... That would be "Crack in the workplace" Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FrogNog 1 #6 April 16, 2004 QuoteQuoteQuoteEvil in the workplace I thought someone brought in Krispy Kremes..... That would be "Crack in the workplace" I didn't get addicted because my second hit, I did 5 of them in a row, then 15 minutes later I went to the bathroom and, well, disgusting story short, I don't eat Krispy Kremes anymore because they don't last long enough. -=-=-=-=- Pull. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #7 April 16, 2004 QuoteI did 5 of them in a row Lightweight!Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #8 April 16, 2004 QuoteEhhh, kill em with kindness?? I tried that. It seems she took that as English for "Please feel free to assume I work for you, and take advantage of my helpful nature" Grr. Count your blessings if you get along with the people you have to deal with. Oh, and just to give you an idea: I like damn near everyone, and I'm fairly certain that the folks who have met me think I'm easy to get along with. It takes a lot to get me this incensed. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #9 April 16, 2004 tell her to BTFU- if she barges in your shit and starts using your stuff as if you didnt exist YOU NEED TO STOP HER or you will be walked on for the rest of the time she is there. I dont stand for that shit at all.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
souleh 0 #10 April 16, 2004 Quotetell her to BTFU- if she barges in your shit and starts using your stuff as if you didnt exist YOU NEED TO STOP HER or you will be walked on for the rest of the time she is there. I dont stand for that shit at all. I agree totally. Set her straight or you'll be treated like that from now on. If the whole office (practically) is behind you, there'll be no backlash for it. It'd be a bit different if they were with her, as you'd be seen as 'the enemy'.. seeing as you won't, go for it. 'buttplugs? where?' - geno Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #11 April 16, 2004 or you can read my reply in the practical jokes thread.... that one would seem to work here it isMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #12 April 16, 2004 QuoteAnyone else have to deal with That Person? The one who has the ability to enrage, annoy, and irritate everyone around them? More importantly, any advice on standing up to them that doesn't comprimise your professionalism? Sure be frank with the. When they are hovering over you demanding information, ask them to step back and respect your "personal space" If they are yelling, and shouting, TELL them to stop calmly. If they don't or get upset, zic HR on em'. The other trick is give them enough rope when they are making an ass of themselves and.....---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #13 April 16, 2004 QuoteQuotetell her to BTFU- if she barges in your shit and starts using your stuff as if you didnt exist YOU NEED TO STOP HER or you will be walked on for the rest of the time she is there. I dont stand for that shit at all. I agree totally. Set her straight or you'll be treated like that from now on. If the whole office (practically) is behind you, there'll be no backlash for it. It'd be a bit different if they were with her, as you'd be seen as 'the enemy'.. seeing as you won't, go for it. Thanks guys! That's pretty much my plan. The next time she walks in I'm going to stop her, tell her to back out, knock, and ask me if I'm busy. I will then say, "Yes, I am. Send me your request in an e-mail, and I'll get around to it when I'm not busy." I hate to admit it, but I'm very non-confrontational. I'm not weak, I just don't deal with this type of situation well. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #14 April 16, 2004 I know how you feel. I get stuck working with our local office backstabber/idiot for 2 days starting tomorrow. This should be fun. Oh well.......one of the advantages of this job is that I hardly even have to talk to her in order to get the mission done. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumperconway 0 #15 April 16, 2004 SHUT UP AND JUMP! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #16 April 16, 2004 QuoteSHUT UP AND JUMP NAKED!My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #17 April 16, 2004 QuoteAnyone else have to deal with That Person? SUre have. See here - Anyone else have to deal with That Person? My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #18 April 16, 2004 QuoteSHUT UP AND JUMP! QuoteSHUT UP AND JUMP NAKED! Rebecca, these two men have proven to be very wise indeed. You should listen to them both for your own good. Edited caus i can't spell very good. Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cloudseeker2001 0 #19 April 17, 2004 Yes, I know exactly what you mean. Every job I have ever worked I have always had some ass monkey trying to roll me over.....some are a little sneaky than others. Last year 2 of them left.....one was ask to resign the other left on his own. This time around it is a guy who used to work there, but recently got re-hired. Everyone knew he was an ass the first time around, so I have no idea why they would hire him again. And of course, he is starting shit just like lat time! To top it off, while he was gone, he put a shotgun to his face and pulled the trigger. He survived with a screwed up face. I felt sorry for him at first, but now that I have gotten to know him, all I want to do is ask him how in the hell did he miss! Sounds bad I know, but this guy is such a jerk. "Some call it heavenly in it's brilliance, others mean and rueful of the western dream" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #20 April 17, 2004 OMG!!! I had 6 weeks with her last year. Never in my LIFE have I had so much difficulty getting along with someone. But I suppose in this case she probably feels the same way about me....hee hee. Peas~ Lindsey-- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
littlestranger 0 #21 April 17, 2004 I feel your pain. I've been with the company I work for 11 years and had a clerk (whose been here less than a year) came into my office a couple of days ago for an impromptu training session. The woman who sits next to me told me later she held her breath, waiting for me to go ballistic. I just let her waste my time for a few minutes, thanked her and sent her on her merry way. The idiot is going to put in her monthly report that she "crossed trained" me. Whatever... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #22 April 17, 2004 Let's just say you all have it pretty easy with co-workers. Try working with doctors, especially women physicians. They can make you feel like you are lower then the crap that grows on crap. It took me a bit of time to learn to work with one female physician and the trick is coffee, coffee and more coffee. I now have developed a permanent twitch in my eye that won't stop from all the caffeine...... hehehehe There is always that someone that makes your work day harder and they may not intend to do it, so just talk to her and explain how she is making you feel.TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #23 April 18, 2004 HA!!! Of course the woman that I couldn't get along with was another female (a-hem) medical student while we were on surgery rotation....sorry to hear that women doctors haven't always been kind. I'll keep that filed away for future reference.... Peace~ Lindsey QuoteLet's just say you all have it pretty easy with co-workers. Try working with doctors, especially women physicians. They can make you feel like you are lower then the crap that grows on crap. -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sdgregory 0 #24 April 18, 2004 These people tend not to respect boundaries until you make clear what the boundaries are. Sometimes you have to tell them flat out that they are crossing a line and that they are lacking in professionalism. I would not tolerate that kind of behavior. No matter who it was. Even the president of a company better not BARGE into my office. I will not acknowledge them if they do. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tbrown 26 #25 April 18, 2004 What floor are you on ? Is there a window ? Can you open the window ? It would be a shame if there was an accident, but it might solve some problems at the same time. Your humble servant.....Professor Gravity ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
