mwabd1 0 #1 April 9, 2004 Am I wrong to think that since I afford my wife the luxury of staying at home and not having to work that I expect the house clean the dishes done and a god damn clean pair of underwear? Granted it's 2004 not 1945 but I work my ass off and make enough money so that she can sit on her fat ass and all a brother wants is a clean house and a hot meal in return............o.k. and maybe a b.j. every now and then. I just don't get it and it's to the point that I would love to pay allimony and child support just to get rid of this hassle. Before you evil woman chime in, yes I do help out around the house, evan though I should'nt have to! Don't get me wrong I love my wife but there has to be a point when you just have to look at the whole package. sorry for the rant! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #2 April 9, 2004 Quotemake enough money so that she can sit on her fat ass you ain't making enough money to get a wife with a tight ass Quoteand maybe a b.j. every now and then that should be natural, not a reward... But minimum once a day. maybe she is just BORED. If you have no activity, you are going to do nothing, and certainly not getting motivated to clean the house and cook meals. she should get some activity, and not with the poolboy or the gardener scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #3 April 9, 2004 First, let me ask you this...how many kids do you have and what ages?She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheAnvil 0 #4 April 9, 2004 I think a few pants down spankings would put the situation right in order! Vinny the Anvil Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mwabd1 0 #5 April 9, 2004 QuoteFirst, let me ask you this...how many kids do you have and what ages? all boys.......10,4,and 2. ........and no she is not fat 4'11" 95lbs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #6 April 9, 2004 Quoteall boys.......10,4,and 2. Have you ever stayed at home all day with the 3 boys and found out how little you can actually get accomplished, especially with the little ones running around? In addition to chores, there's baths, feedings, changings, naptime, chasing them down, breaking up arguments, errands to run, and sitting on the floor and playing with them to cultivate their minds. Hopefully she doesn't just sit them in front of the tv. I was a stay-at-home mom until my kids got to school age. It ain't easy! I did get all the chores done, but I'm a little obsessive that way. She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #7 April 9, 2004 Quote...sit on her fat ass... Yeah, I can feel your love shining like the sun. Shout it from the mountaintops! Ok...really, are you power plant control room operator or is that part of this whole Homer Simpson thing you're doing?"I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nacmacfeegle 0 #8 April 9, 2004 "Am I wrong....." Your wrong. "Don't get me wrong I love my wife but there has to be a point when you just have to look at the whole package." I always thought love should be unconditional, or do you love her, care for her, provide for her etc, so that she will be guilt tripped into being a housekeeper, cook, cleaner, child minder/counsellor, quartermaster, and a good wife. What Mama says about trying to get all that stuff done and look after/out for the wee ones at the same time is quite a task, try it sometime.-------------------- He who receives an idea from me, receives instruction himself without lessening mine; as he who lights his taper at mine, receives light without darkening me. Thomas Jefferson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
beowulf 1 #9 April 9, 2004 Maybe he lives in the Ocala National Forest? Maybe the Hog Valley area? lol sorry couldn't help poking fun at the Forest people south of Palatka. I don't know what to tell you about this situation. Have you tried to talk to her about it. If not you might want to be really tactful in bringing it up. Don't just come out and say she is lazy. That will only start a fight and nothing good will be accomplished. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #10 April 9, 2004 Ahhh Nac... stop sucking up to ur missus..... I didnt know she read dz.comRemster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #11 April 9, 2004 Wow... .what a sweety you are. I can' t on earth figure out why she wouldn't feel like making you a nice , warm meal and then be on her knees under the table as soon as you're finished eating. It really escapes me what with how fondly you speak of her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nacmacfeegle 0 #12 April 9, 2004 "I didnt know she read dz.com" She doesn't, I keep her chained up in the kitchen, and only let her out so she can lie in front of the lounge door to keep the draughts out. I'm joking ladies, joking......-------------------- He who receives an idea from me, receives instruction himself without lessening mine; as he who lights his taper at mine, receives light without darkening me. Thomas Jefferson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #13 April 9, 2004 What’s up bro. I know where your coming from man. I was in a relationship ship like that once. No I didn’t think she was supposed to help and no I didn’t think it was her role. The way I looked at it was were a team and we both need to work to keep a nice house and take care of each others needs. It had nothing to do with her being my girl friend. I would expect the same from any one who is my house/room mate. I have no idea what you should do man. Why don’t you ask her what’s up. Maybe she needs a hand around the house or something. If you can afford to get her a mothers helper or something that might be the solution. Some people men or woman just don’t like the house work part of life. I am a guy but I love to cook I could come home after 12 hours and still cook a good meal, but the reason I do that is not out of obligation but I enjoy it. Good luck man that is toughI'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #14 April 9, 2004 QuoteWow... .what a sweety you are. I can' t on earth figure out why she wouldn't feel like making you a nice , warm meal and then be on her knees under the table as soon as you're finished eating. It really escapes me what with how fondly you speak of her. Wow, what's that I smell? Is that a hint of sarcasm in the air?? Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #15 April 9, 2004 Quoteafford my wife the luxury of staying at home and not having to work that I expect the house clean the dishes done and a god damn clean pair of underwear BB takes a deep calming breath* I would just like to point out that your missus has a full time job...she is raising the children. You afford her the luxery? Think about her going back to work, maybe 35% of her income going to taxes, the rest going to pay for daycare, which might even be more than she would be making, and someone else would be influencing your children rather than her. Wouldn't you rather have your wife home looking after your children. Perhaps if you were to take your vacation time and spend it all looking after the wee bairns, you would have a bit more appreciation of what it takes. As for your underwear....surely there is a Walmart near you Better yet, throw some in the wash? Hot meals? Turkey Pot Pies dude! LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #16 April 9, 2004 There are two sides to every story. Do you actually know what all she does do during the day aside from taking care of the boys?~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #17 April 9, 2004 Quote I can' t on earth figure out why she wouldn't feel like making you a nice , warm meal and then be on her knees under the table as soon as you're finished eating. Dont be ridiculous Kriss..... She should be under the table WHILE he's eating his meal... And Nac, we all know how serious you realy are... dont deny it...Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
usedtajump 1 #18 April 9, 2004 GAWDALLMIGHTY!!!! Give me the luxury of busting my ass at a job everyday rather than have to stay at home and referee three boys 24/7.The older I get the less I care who I piss off. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #19 April 9, 2004 QuoteI just don't get it and it's to the point that I would love to pay allimony and child support just to get rid of this hassle. You make no sense. The "hassle" is that she can't take care of you. If you get rid of that "hassle," there will be nobody there to take care of you, and it seems you can't take care of yourself. Do you see where your logic is messed up? I'd suggest trying to think more clearly about things, get a little less confused, then revisit this "issue."There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #20 April 9, 2004 {{pokes at it with a 10 foot pole, nope. Leaves to go find a 15 foot pole....}} ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,545 #21 April 9, 2004 That's a brilliant answer. Because it might be heard. It's very hard to raise 3 boys full-time. And it can be very hard to work outside the home. And when you're doing one and not the other, the other can look very easy. How many people here think rocket science is easy Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #22 April 9, 2004 QuoteFirst, let me ask you this...how many kids do you have and what ages? I know he sounds like a keeper ladies, but he's already married... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paige 0 #23 April 9, 2004 Are you kidding?!?!?!? Her job is a thousand times harder than yours (It doesn't matter what you do). She is raising the future of America and they are all young boyz which makes the task even harder! Ever think of what a day in her life is like? Would you want some stranger raising your kids in daycare just so your wife gets off her lazy ass? Oh yeah, women...we're not evil unless men give us a reason to be. Or its that time of the month Good luck.Tunnel Pink Mafia Delegate www.TunnelPinkMafia.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blueskyserenity 0 #24 April 9, 2004 The reality of your situation is that your wife too has a full-time job. Maybe she should come home to a hot meal and clean laundry. I am a single mom w/ two small kids (2 and 7 months). I can't wait until Monday morning when I can drop the kids off at day care and go back to work. I'm absolutely physically and emotionally DRAINED after just 2 full days w/ them. I LOVE them, but there is NO WAY IN HELL I could be a stay at home mom. I applaud anyone who can do this w/out being committed into the looney bin or killing someone. And to think she gets them all up, one ready and off to school, entertains and takes care of the other two all day, gets the older one home from school in the afternoon. Fact of the matter is, there is no time to do all that other crap you mentioned. Those "chores" are night-time activities that you both do together. Ever tried cleaning a house w/ kids around? Put something up and something else finds it's way to the floor. I understand your frustration, but please put yourself in her shoes. She is MAXED out. Love her, adore her. Make her feel appreciated.I like coconuts. You can break them open and they smell like ladies lying in the sun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #25 April 9, 2004 QuoteHow many people here think rocket science is easy How hard could it be? You just sit in a chair and talk to people and type, right? (Programmers get that all the time) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
