MochaSkyChick 0 #51 March 18, 2004 QuoteIt's called genetics. No different than guys dating for looks. Women are genetically engineered to be attracted to whom they perceive as providers. Men are designed to be attracted to whom they perceive as fertile. That's initial attraction, anyway. Using those qualities as the be all/end all of deciding on whether to continue a long term relationship is pretty lame. But they're going to be a factor in most cases, no matter how much you try to deny those instincts. I guess my genetics are messed up because I don't take money as a bargaining tool when dealing with romance. If I did, I wouldn't be single right now because I'd probably be out scoping anyone who could buy me a new rig. PMS #62 Zarza R[red Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cloudseeker2001 0 #52 March 18, 2004 Knowing when to tell me that I'm overanalyzing life and to just relax and live it is more important. I suspect you do way too much of this! "Some call it heavenly in it's brilliance, others mean and rueful of the western dream" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cloudseeker2001 0 #53 March 18, 2004 I have had women tell me I do not make enough money and they could not date me......... But what really piss'd me off was that I had more girls get turned off by my less than perfect truck that was crashed and had faded paint and looked as if it belonged in a junk yard! It was always one of the first topics of conversation on a first date! They would say, "OMG why don't you buy a new car?" I would tell them A/C works really well, it's good on gas and it is cheap to drive, but it made no difference......... BTW, that truck just got total'd out last Tuesday so it looks as if I will be buying a new one!.....all those chicks are probably fat now anyway! "Some call it heavenly in it's brilliance, others mean and rueful of the western dream" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #54 March 18, 2004 yep. I absolutely overanalyze life. I'm a graduate student! analysis is what we do! I enjoy it very much, but there are moments when its time to tell the brain to shove it and run off and have fun. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
champu 1 #55 March 19, 2004 hey, what'say you and I grab a case of beer and over-analyze life Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #56 March 19, 2004 Quotewhen I opened that thread, I was thinking Mocha wanted to start a Skydiver Escort Sevice OMG thank you REmi.... I was NOT going to ask that question since the thought DID cross my mind Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #57 March 19, 2004 Quotewhen I opened that thread, I was thinking Mocha wanted to start a Skydiver Escort Sevice ----------------------------------------------------------- OMG thank you REmi.... I was NOT going to ask that question since the thought DID cross my mind Can i get an "interview" with you jeanne? ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites