Vallerina 2 #1 March 10, 2004 Unfortunately, most love potions and spells just don't work, so you can't automatically get someone to fall in love with you. I've seen the same concerns from single guys all the time, though. Why can't they get women??? I'm here to help. Disclaimer:This may not apply to every woman. I've just seen it time and time again. 1) Drop the nice guy act! Don't try to be a jerk because you think that's what girls want, though. We don't. Have something going for yourself other than being "the nice guy." Nice is good, but it's not enough. Nice is not interesting. Don't change who you are, but just realize that many won't be interested in something that just isn't interesting. 2) Don't be a doormat. No, nice does not equal doormat. Grow a spine and get opinions of your own before trying to be with somebody. 3) I understand wanting to be in a relationship. It's great always having someone to do things with. "Fun stuff" is great. It's all fine and dandy to be with someone. There's a difference between, "Sure, I wouldn't mind dating someone," and, "I really really need someone." If you really do feel you need someone, stop looking now! First of all, girls don't want needy guys. Needy guys tend to be more posessive, and smart girls stay away from that. 4) List out qualities you want. There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want. I have a few things that I want in a guy, and I won't accept anything less. Don't accept less just because you really want somebody. 5) Turn what you really want in somebody back on yourself. If you want somebody really really really smart, well, you better have something going on upstairs yourself. I don't really care how you answer publicly, but go through these questions for yourself. If you do these things, then even if you don't find someone (because there are no guarantees in life) other people will like you better, and you'll get more friends.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #2 March 10, 2004 That all sounds too complicated. I always preferred the sit at the Bar and Lick My Eyebrows approach. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DShiznit 0 #3 March 10, 2004 QuoteThat all sounds too complicated. I always preferred the sit at the Bar and Lick My Eyebrows approach. LMFAO!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tunaplanet 0 #4 March 10, 2004 So are you telling me I should drop my, "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" pickup line? Forty-two Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #5 March 10, 2004 QuoteSo are you telling me I should drop my, "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" pickup line? As long as you're not lying about the nice shoes. If you're lying about her shoes being nice, then you're a doormat. Otherwise, you're just direct!There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkM 0 #6 March 10, 2004 QuoteSo are you telling me I should drop my, "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" pickup line? Naw, just change it to "Wanna fuck? Hey nice shoes!". You don't lead with the compliment because it makes them suspicious. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RoadRash 0 #7 March 10, 2004 Hey Val!!! Damn fine advice......Hope you make it out tonight! ~R+R~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ Fly the friendly skies...^_^...})ii({...^_~... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #8 March 10, 2004 Quote Naw, just change it to "Wanna fuck? Hey nice shoes!". You don't lead with the compliment because it makes them suspicious. Both sound like a compliment to me! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuperWoman 0 #9 March 10, 2004 Quote "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" pickup line? Hey that's my pick-up line!! How do you think I got Kansasskydiver? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkM 0 #10 March 10, 2004 QuoteQuote "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" pickup line? Hey that's my pick-up line!! How do you think I got Kansasskydiver? I thought you just said, "Hello". That usually works on me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #11 March 10, 2004 thanks val..... you and sunshine should work together and start writing a colum on here.... the dear sunshine thing has been dead for a while... it should be brought back.... but with a twist...... i'd be like movie reviews with siskel and ebert...... okay i'm just typing out my ass here... some bodye throw me a frigin bone... all i ever wanted was sharks with frigin laser beams on thier heads.... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 2,995 #12 March 10, 2004 My experience has been a little simpler - If you are trying to "get" women you're not going to. If you are just doing your own thing, are good at it, are happy doing it etc they will come out of the woodwork. Women, like men, are attracted to happy, confident, self-assured people. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luv2Fall 0 #13 March 10, 2004 QuoteMy experience has been a little simpler - If you are trying to "get" women you're not going to. If you are just doing your own thing, are good at it, are happy doing it etc they will come out of the woodwork. Women, like men, are attracted to happy, confident, self-assured people. Couldn't agree with you more. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #14 March 10, 2004 Warning!! Don’t use that line in Dive Bars around Atlanta!! You might catch something you cant get rid of!! Last Time I used that Line was 7 Years ago when a Hottie walked by wearing a pair of Black Leather Converse High tops. As of this morning, She still has not left and keeps bugging me about a Ring. Careful with that Line. Powerful Mojo!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #15 March 10, 2004 QuoteMy experience has been a little simpler - If you are trying to "get" women you're not going to. If you are just doing your own thing, are good at it, are happy doing it etc they will come out of the woodwork. Women, like men, are attracted to happy, confident, self-assured people. This is true. I don't like the idea of being "gotten." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
melstarr 0 #16 March 10, 2004 QuoteIf you are trying to "get" women you're not going to. If you are just doing your own thing, are good at it, are happy doing it etc they will come out of the woodwork. Women, like men, are attracted to happy, confident, self-assured people.DING-DING-DING!!!! We have a Winner!!! EXACTLY-right-on-Bill! as simple as that ~ ~ meL* Pink Mafia / Tunnel Mafia Sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #17 March 10, 2004 QuoteIf you are trying to "get" women you're not going to. I've seen a lot of guys "settle" or get women that they have nothing in common with when they're out to "get" a woman.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
melstarr 0 #18 March 10, 2004 QuoteI've seen a lot of guys "settle" or get women that they have nothing in common with when they're out to "get" a woman.oh val*, that is soooooooo freaking True it totally saddens me when someone does this--- sweetie~ you are so funny & smart! you always pop up with these little threads that are interesting* ~ meL* Pink Mafia / Tunnel Mafia Sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 221 #19 March 10, 2004 Damn, I just bought a new club too. My New Club Surely there are those out there that like the old school ways?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #20 March 10, 2004 Quote If you are trying to "get" women you're not going to. If you are just doing your own thing, are good at it, are happy doing it etc they will come out of the woodwork. Women, like men, are attracted to happy, confident, self-assured people. That . . . and money. You can catch more honeys with a fly ride than with Vega. quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weegegirl 2 #21 March 10, 2004 QuoteDamn, I just bought a new club too. My New Club Surely there are those out there that like the old school ways? bwahahahahahha..... Turtles new pickup line: *SMASH* Ugh, caveman need woman! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #22 March 10, 2004 QuoteIf you are trying to "get" women you're not going to. If you are just doing your own thing, are good at it, are happy doing it etc they will come out of the woodwork. Women, like men, are attracted to happy, confident, self-assured people. DING! DING! DING!!! I think we have a winner here. I am VERY attracted to someone who is very good at something that makes him happy. I am attracted to talent and intelligence. I am attracted to a great smile and a confident attitude. I am especially attracted to someone who is all these things, AND who thinks very highly of me. Personally, I do like to be pursued to a certain degree. If I am being courted by someone who is picky about what he wants in life, then the fact that he wants me, and only me, is a compliment. Of course I want to know that someone wants me in his life, but it has to be done with utmost respect. Being "hit on" is not the same thing as someone wanting to get to know me because he finds me interesting. Like you said, Bill, it goes both ways. Men are equally attracted to those types of women. Edited: Melstarr ~ Meli, this is scary. I just read your response... Great minds think alike, I guess. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ifall 0 #23 March 10, 2004 Amen. Class is out everyone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Shotgun 1 #24 March 10, 2004 QuoteI always preferred the sit at the Bar and Lick My Eyebrows approach. Now that would get MY attention! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites yardhippie 0 #25 March 10, 2004 QuoteThat all sounds too complicated. I always preferred the sit at the Bar and Lick My Eyebrows approach. show off!Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 5 6 Next Page 1 of 10 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
ifall 0 #23 March 10, 2004 Amen. Class is out everyone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #24 March 10, 2004 QuoteI always preferred the sit at the Bar and Lick My Eyebrows approach. Now that would get MY attention! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #25 March 10, 2004 QuoteThat all sounds too complicated. I always preferred the sit at the Bar and Lick My Eyebrows approach. show off!Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
