Tinkerbelle 5 #51 February 29, 2004 Oh no, apparently she was asked to leave Chicago which is why she is there in Fl. now. Gee I hope I don't get flack for this post, but honestly, why should I worry. I am the one who was wronged in this situation?! I worry too much! Why should I worry about protecting the reputaion of someone who has been so belligerant? I will stand tall and make my assertions here, and maybe get some support. Indeed I will copy this entire thread and send it to the SO. I know it will piss him off, but Hell, I don't understand why he should support and protect her and not me! I have bitched about this all to him, and he just gets mad at me. NO fair! I wish my dead Sweetie, Shawn Gloyer, the pilot from Hawaii was still alive! He would never let a thing like this happen. He was far more considerate and had a heart of gold! To all you men out there... support your SO and her feelings! As per my SO, he actualy witnessed the girl commence her frontal assault, but just walked away to talk to some other young chick who wanted to move in with him with a young girlfriend of hers visiting from Spain. When I asked why he didn't stay and stand up for me he simply replied, "you have to fight your own battles" I didn't think that was fair since none of it would have even beem an issue had it not been for him to begin with. He was the source of the conflict! I think deep down inside it thrills him to have young girls fighting over him, and may even do things to encourage it, yeah, I know, sad, but true! Oh Poor ME! How do I get myself in these pickles, messed up with these kinds of dudes? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slug 1 #52 February 29, 2004 QuoteOh no, apparently she was asked to leave Chicago which is why she is there in Fl. now. Gee I hope I don't get flack for this post, but honestly, why should I worry. I am the one who was wronged in this situation?! I worry too much! Why should I worry about protecting the reputaion of someone who has been so belligerant? I will stand tall and make my assertions here, and maybe get some support. Indeed I will copy this entire thread and send it to the SO. I know it will piss him off, but Hell, I don't understand why he should support and protect her and not me! I have bitched about this all to him, and he just gets mad at me. NO fair! I wish my dead Sweetie, Shawn Gloyer, the pilot from Hawaii was still alive! He would never let a thing like this happen. He was far more considerate and had a heart of gold! To all you men out there... support your SO and her feelings! As per my SO, he actualy witnessed the girl commence her frontal assault, but just walked away to talk to some other young chick who wanted to move in with him with a young girlfriend of hers visiting from Spain. When I asked why he didn't stay and stand up for me he simply replied, "you have to fight your own battles" I didn't think that was fair since none of it would have even beem an issue had it not been for him to begin with. He was the source of the conflict! I think deep down inside it thrills him to have young girls fighting over him, and may even do things to encourage it, yeah, I know, sad, but true! Oh Poor ME! How do I get myself in these pickles, messed up with these kinds of dudes? Just read what you wrote above. You already know what to do. IMO BTW stop by the Dr's office ASAP. R.I.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tinkerbelle 5 #53 February 29, 2004 What's the Dr, going to do? I might be better served stopping by the gun shot for some pepper spray or an AK 47! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #54 February 29, 2004 Quote What's the Dr, going to do? I might be better served stopping by the gun shot for some pepper spray or an AK 47! Germs. Or meds. Or both. BTW, wasn't "Carls Secret Lover" posting for a bit on here? And Tink, sorry, but Carl's not your SO. Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slug 1 #55 February 29, 2004 QuoteWhat's the Dr, going to do? I might be better served stopping by the gun shot for some pepper spray or an AK 47! What goes around comes around. If she got it and he got it from herthen you got it from him and you don't know it The Dr can tell you if you already got it and how to treat it, get it R.I.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aprilcat 0 #56 February 29, 2004 BTW, wasn't "Carls Secret Lover" posting for a bit on here? And Tink, sorry, but Carl's not your SO. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I have to agree with Michele on that. No one that considers you SIGNIFICANT would indulge in this tacky little drama. I WISH my b/f would stand by while some b***ch grabbed me by my shirt and put her hand up and told ME she'll have her way with him. I'd clean the mock-up with her head. Serenity NOW . Another clue you should look at: you would NEVER wish you had more time with an ex, dead or alive, if this dude REALLY meant something to you. Since you're posting, I'll give you advice cause it looks like what you're asking for. GROW A PAIR.I don't care what he HAS, what he DRIVES, where he LIVES, how CUTE he is, how good in BED, or what he GIVES ME that can ever take away for that fundamental RESPECT. (I'm on a rant...) Are you sure he isn't trying to dump you? I would think he is and doesn't have the guts to just break up~~or he can screw you and have a bed to sleep in and warm food but get sex from every one else. When it gets to the point that you are physically threatened and he walks away.... ...okay.think of it THIS way..how many MEN do you know that would let that shit happen?? They may get punked out, but I'll tell you that a female S.O. would NO longer be welcome at home. Use your head...There is no shame in being alone. I'd rather be alone than have someone dog me out. And don't argue that he didn't dog you out. He did it when he let her rub his d**k and you stood there. Doe is hurt? YES! But don't be mad at me for noticing..be mad because of the situation. You said earlier that you were raised in a family where emotions were repressed and no one raised their voice. Are you going to tell this forum that your mother raised a girl that would joyfully be disrespected in the sake of 'harmony'? and you know there is no 'harmony' in this union. Dump him Dump him Dump him cause he's making a fool of you. And I am not saying 'hate him'. But you have to learn to love yourself. What you have is not even a relationship; its a glorified 'friends with benefits' situation. (Dr Phil moment) "You teach people how to treat you". Is this what you want or do you believe you deserve better? I hope the latter, cause I treat my PETS better what you are describing. When you exercise respect for yourself, a respectful relationship will come along. Sorry for the serious hijack, North, maybe we should take this to another 'all about Tink' thread. Get tested, and stop saying 'jealous bitch' like its a BAD thing. Some jealousy is incredibly healthy.~~April Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
