Nightingale 0 #126 January 12, 2004 nope. he was the one who suggested going out in the first place. we usually ended up watching the simpsons and jeopardy and playing chess. BORING! and there's nothing wrong with staying home, but going out once in a while is nice. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #127 January 12, 2004 Quotewe usually ended up watching the simpsons and jeopardy and playing chess. Nothing wrong with Jepordy, or the Simpsons. But atleast make it "Strip" Chess. ---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nightingale 0 #128 January 12, 2004 nope. he wasn't that creative. wouldn't play strip poker either. was afraid of losing. somehow the "you don't have anything I haven't seen before" line wasn't effective. he had absolutely no sense of adventure. if the relationship hadn't ended earlier, I sincerely doubt it would've lasted through AFF. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #129 January 12, 2004 Yep, sounds like a "no fun Joe". Plenty of avaliable types in Skydiving. Welcome. Come to think of it..... How YOU doin'?---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #130 January 12, 2004 Quotewouldn't play strip poker either. was afraid of losing. How can you "lose" at strip poker? If you win, they take off their clothes. I they win, you take off yours. This is definitely a win-win game. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites WrongWay 0 #131 January 12, 2004 QuoteYou know what's funny. It seems that the nicer you are the more you get fucked over. Sad as it is, that's what I usually say. The phrase "nice guys finish last" comes to mind when you think about dating. For some reason, girls are always attracted to the kind of guys that yell at them, hit them, or just completely ignore them & take them for granted. When a nice guy comes along, 9 chances out of 10, they get scared of a good thing and run off. Girls, tell us what the hell is going on here??? Why is it that nice guys always get turned down or hung out to dry? Come on, I wanna know, and apparently so does Darius. Spill it. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hmatousek 0 #132 January 12, 2004 Thanks my pessimistic friend. You are actually much more optimistic than you make yourself out to be. Being concerned is okay and watching out for yourself is smart. Keep the lines of communication with Pman open and things will be fine. You two are both some of the most down to earth people I know, things will be all right. HeatherLife doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites kelel01 1 #133 January 12, 2004 STFU. You guys know that's not true. Quit your bitchin' and find a woman who deserves you and loves you for who you are and how well you treat her. Just a little tough love for all you men out there. Kelly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Push 0 #134 January 12, 2004 One of the standard answers is that "nice guys" are actually emotional mops, or are extremely unimaginative. They simply use the "nice guy" excuse to whine. I think that's kind of true. However, I also believe that what has been posted here before is true. It's no fun having something you want, it's a lot more fun not having it. A dirtbag will keep the girl busy, and the small amount of niceties he will do to her will get exagerated by his normal behaviour. This is exactly how vicious cycle relationships work. The girl does not notice a nice guy because he is always a nice guy. Some people would say that this is a bad quality in the nice guy. I say it's a bad quality in the girl. In my experience with myself and my friends, it's a little bit of part a, and a whole lot of part b. -- Toggle Whippin' Yahoo Skydiving is easy. All you have to do is relax while plummetting at 120 mph from 10,000' with nothing but some nylon and webbing to save you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hmatousek 0 #135 January 12, 2004 You guys are just going after the wrong girls. It's a two way street my friend. Look at people for who they are and not what thier stereotype is. Everyone is an individual and if you put them into a catagory other then thier own you are not giving them a fair chance. HeatherLife doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites EricaH 0 #136 January 12, 2004 THAT is so true!! Nice girls want almost anyone, but even a nice guy usally still wants the hottie girl. hot girls tend to want hot guys who in turn have a higher rate of being an asshats. Eventually everyone grows up or grows old single. I'm glad I finally grew up & realized that there are some very good looking nice guys. they may not be hitting a modeling runway anytime soon, but mine is a damn hottie (imho) & he is on a runway as much as possible (in a plane that is anyway). (either runway is fine for me, so long as he's a groovy dude, and he puts up w/ me saying groovy dude ) Thanks for the encouragement Heather! There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hmatousek 0 #137 January 12, 2004 That's what I'm here for. Now get to work finding me a hottie like yours. I'm done being nice Life doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites diverdriver 5 #138 January 12, 2004 QuoteUnfortunately the second happens way more than the first. It's difficult believing that eventually you will meet the right person but never settle. This doesn't mean you will meet someone who is absolutely perfect but you should at the very least be happy. Heather You can have fun with anyone. It's how you argue that will determine if you'll make it. Find someone that you can argue with and still like later. That's the one you keep. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hmatousek 0 #139 January 12, 2004 I really don't like to argue. Disagreeing is okay but arguing gets boring.Life doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites diverdriver 5 #140 January 12, 2004 QuoteLife doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! True dat. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites chaoskitty 0 #141 January 12, 2004 I was going to answer your question with all sorts of things that made no sense when it hit me... Hell if I know! Sorry to state the obvious.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hmatousek 0 #142 January 12, 2004 It's my favorite. Life doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Brains 2 #143 January 12, 2004 QuoteThat's what I'm here for. Now get to work finding me a hottie like yours. I'm done being nice Are you saying you are not a nice girl?? Hmmmmmmm. . . . Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites WrongWay 0 #144 January 12, 2004 QuoteQuoteThat's what I'm here for. Now get to work finding me a hottie like yours. I'm done being nice Are you saying you are not a nice girl?? Hmmmmmmm. . . . No, she's not a nice girl. That's why we love her. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites hmatousek 0 #145 January 13, 2004 You guys ROCK!!! I can be nice when I am needed to be. Or when I am in situations that I need to make friends. I hope you sense my sarcasim.Life doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #146 January 13, 2004 I'll just say this.....the earlier conversation in this thread...I'm a COMPLETE JACKASS. Of all people....now Sunshine knows my secrets. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #147 January 13, 2004 QuoteI'll just say this.....the earlier conversation in this thread...I'm a COMPLETE JACKASS. Of all people....now Sunshine knows my secrets. I know everyone's secrets though... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Brains 2 #148 January 13, 2004 QuoteNo, she's not a nice girl. That's why we love her. I knew there was a reason Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. 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WrongWay 0 #131 January 12, 2004 QuoteYou know what's funny. It seems that the nicer you are the more you get fucked over. Sad as it is, that's what I usually say. The phrase "nice guys finish last" comes to mind when you think about dating. For some reason, girls are always attracted to the kind of guys that yell at them, hit them, or just completely ignore them & take them for granted. When a nice guy comes along, 9 chances out of 10, they get scared of a good thing and run off. Girls, tell us what the hell is going on here??? Why is it that nice guys always get turned down or hung out to dry? Come on, I wanna know, and apparently so does Darius. Spill it. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hmatousek 0 #132 January 12, 2004 Thanks my pessimistic friend. You are actually much more optimistic than you make yourself out to be. Being concerned is okay and watching out for yourself is smart. Keep the lines of communication with Pman open and things will be fine. You two are both some of the most down to earth people I know, things will be all right. HeatherLife doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #133 January 12, 2004 STFU. You guys know that's not true. Quit your bitchin' and find a woman who deserves you and loves you for who you are and how well you treat her. Just a little tough love for all you men out there. Kelly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Push 0 #134 January 12, 2004 One of the standard answers is that "nice guys" are actually emotional mops, or are extremely unimaginative. They simply use the "nice guy" excuse to whine. I think that's kind of true. However, I also believe that what has been posted here before is true. It's no fun having something you want, it's a lot more fun not having it. A dirtbag will keep the girl busy, and the small amount of niceties he will do to her will get exagerated by his normal behaviour. This is exactly how vicious cycle relationships work. The girl does not notice a nice guy because he is always a nice guy. Some people would say that this is a bad quality in the nice guy. I say it's a bad quality in the girl. In my experience with myself and my friends, it's a little bit of part a, and a whole lot of part b. -- Toggle Whippin' Yahoo Skydiving is easy. All you have to do is relax while plummetting at 120 mph from 10,000' with nothing but some nylon and webbing to save you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hmatousek 0 #135 January 12, 2004 You guys are just going after the wrong girls. It's a two way street my friend. Look at people for who they are and not what thier stereotype is. Everyone is an individual and if you put them into a catagory other then thier own you are not giving them a fair chance. HeatherLife doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
EricaH 0 #136 January 12, 2004 THAT is so true!! Nice girls want almost anyone, but even a nice guy usally still wants the hottie girl. hot girls tend to want hot guys who in turn have a higher rate of being an asshats. Eventually everyone grows up or grows old single. I'm glad I finally grew up & realized that there are some very good looking nice guys. they may not be hitting a modeling runway anytime soon, but mine is a damn hottie (imho) & he is on a runway as much as possible (in a plane that is anyway). (either runway is fine for me, so long as he's a groovy dude, and he puts up w/ me saying groovy dude ) Thanks for the encouragement Heather! There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hmatousek 0 #137 January 12, 2004 That's what I'm here for. Now get to work finding me a hottie like yours. I'm done being nice Life doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diverdriver 5 #138 January 12, 2004 QuoteUnfortunately the second happens way more than the first. It's difficult believing that eventually you will meet the right person but never settle. This doesn't mean you will meet someone who is absolutely perfect but you should at the very least be happy. Heather You can have fun with anyone. It's how you argue that will determine if you'll make it. Find someone that you can argue with and still like later. That's the one you keep. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hmatousek 0 #139 January 12, 2004 I really don't like to argue. Disagreeing is okay but arguing gets boring.Life doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diverdriver 5 #140 January 12, 2004 QuoteLife doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! True dat. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #141 January 12, 2004 I was going to answer your question with all sorts of things that made no sense when it hit me... Hell if I know! Sorry to state the obvious.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hmatousek 0 #142 January 12, 2004 It's my favorite. Life doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #143 January 12, 2004 QuoteThat's what I'm here for. Now get to work finding me a hottie like yours. I'm done being nice Are you saying you are not a nice girl?? Hmmmmmmm. . . . Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #144 January 12, 2004 QuoteQuoteThat's what I'm here for. Now get to work finding me a hottie like yours. I'm done being nice Are you saying you are not a nice girl?? Hmmmmmmm. . . . No, she's not a nice girl. That's why we love her. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hmatousek 0 #145 January 13, 2004 You guys ROCK!!! I can be nice when I am needed to be. Or when I am in situations that I need to make friends. I hope you sense my sarcasim.Life doesn't have to be perfect in order to be beautiful! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #146 January 13, 2004 I'll just say this.....the earlier conversation in this thread...I'm a COMPLETE JACKASS. Of all people....now Sunshine knows my secrets. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #147 January 13, 2004 QuoteI'll just say this.....the earlier conversation in this thread...I'm a COMPLETE JACKASS. Of all people....now Sunshine knows my secrets. I know everyone's secrets though... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brains 2 #148 January 13, 2004 QuoteNo, she's not a nice girl. That's why we love her. I knew there was a reason Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #149 January 13, 2004 QuoteI know everyone's secrets though... Well....I guess the question is....What will you do with it. Damn I feel like an idiot right now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ron 10 #150 January 13, 2004 It is true, nice guys finish last."No free man shall ever be debarred the use of arms." -- Thomas Jefferson, Thomas Jefferson Papers, 334 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
