Vertifly 0 #27 December 30, 2003 All our hearts are with you and yours. So sorry for your loss. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caress 0 #28 December 30, 2003 {{{{{VIBES}}}}}}{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}{{{LOVE}}}} to you and all of us who were able to know her even if it was only a little for me. Atleast I got to tell her how much I appreciated having someone as bold as me on this site. BLUE SKIES-KAT69-Caress You will be missed, but not forgotten-ever I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #29 December 30, 2003 So very sad. It doesn't seem possible. She was so spunky here. She hid it well. Blue skies, sister. Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freakyrat 1 #30 December 30, 2003 So sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
champu 1 #31 December 30, 2003 Quote Not to be an instigator or anything, but is there a reason why she was logged on this morning afternoon? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #32 December 30, 2003 that would explain why she said Baa Humbug to my Christmas wishes to her.You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dagny 0 #33 December 30, 2003 oh, please tell me this isn't true. Baby, you should have held out. To kat....blue skies, girl. Live large wherver you are now. You will be missed.Take me, I am the drug; take me, I am hallucinogenic. -Salvador Dali Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #34 December 30, 2003 If this is true, this is as sad as it gets. If this is true, Kat69 please rest in peace. If it isn't, it sounds like a serious cry for help. Please reach out. Every life is worth saving. Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daizey 0 #35 December 30, 2003 Wow, this is so sad. She was so sweet and such a nice person! Blue skies, girl...you will definitely be missed.... Hugs and Vibes to you Chute and her family and friends.... *daizey* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #36 December 30, 2003 I just read the thread started by Kat69 regarding Sexuality back on Dec. 10th. Man, were some of you cruel. I know this is the internet and you can't possibly truly judge the state a person is in just by their posts. But now we just may have an 18 year old girl dead due to despair. I am confused by Skygal's post that she did infact logon since Saturday, so I don't know if she truly is dead. If she is, it is nobody here's fault. But it makes me wonder, had she been welcomed just a little better, would it have made a difference? Is it that hard to refrain from insulting posts and replace them with friendly ones? Before anyone calls me on this, I admit, I have been guilty of the same thing. This incident has made me re-think things. It reminds me of what I hope we have all been taught..."If you have nothing good to say, say nothing at all." My deepest apologies to anyone I have offended here. Feel free to pm me if I have offended you and I will genuinely apologize. I'm now re-thinking my approach to this forum. Chute, I don't know if this is really true, but if it is, I send my condolences to you and her loved ones. She will be in my prayers tonight. My best wishes to all DZ.commers, Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
testpilot 0 #37 December 30, 2003 {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{VIBES}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samhussey 0 #38 December 30, 2003 ((((((VIBES)))))) to you my friend, and the deepest of condolences. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wzettler 0 #39 December 30, 2003 So Sorry to hear about that. VIBES to you and both of your families. She will be missed on here... I think when Jesus said "love your enemy" he probably meant don't kill them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BethUK 0 #40 December 30, 2003 I am so very sorry, and it is a great loss...she was somone who seemed happy with what she'd found in this life. Shes in a better place now, where nobody can hurt her. )))))))))))))))))))))))))HUGS(((((((((((((((((((((((((((( Chute, sorry you are having to deal with this now, PM me if you ever wanna chat..... Peace Beth x------------------------------------------------------------ "This isn't flying...it's falling with style!" Buzz Lightyear - Toystory 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatever 0 #41 December 30, 2003 for Chute: {{{{{{{{{vibes}}}}}}}}}} trying to understand these situations is very trying on everyone, but given some time you can remember your friend in a happy way and keep almost exclusively the memories of the good times you had together and what she meant to you for Kat: Blue Skies soon to be gone Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #42 December 30, 2003 What horrible news I'm sending **VIBES&HUGZ** to her loved ones/family & friends. Soooo sorry to hear of this.~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
catfishhunter 2 #43 December 30, 2003 Nothing anyone did here had any effect on the selfish decision this person made. Suicide is a selfish act. Not trying to be insensitive but it is. My condolences to those hurt by this person decision.My best friend took his life when i was 18 and have had several other friends in the past 19 years do the same. There was nothing anyone could have done to prevent any of them.They choose to "punish" the ones that they precieved to have hurt them in the most selfish way possible. Ending their lives. I know this because I have been there. I have attempted to off myself 3 times in my 37 years.and each time it was because i wanted those that had hurt me to hurt as bad as I thought I was hurting. Today I am in Recovery, I have a strong support group that I can share when my brain tries to kill me.If you have anyone you are worried about you might suggest they seek a support group but in the end you are powerless over the decisions of others and all you can do is pray for them and keep on breathing. Blue Skies MAKE EVERY DAY COUNT Life is Short and we never know how long we are going to have. We must live life to the fullest EVERY DAY. Everything we do should have a greater purpose. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bshl 0 #44 December 30, 2003 Sorry to hear about this, Brian. I hope some good can come of this and that folks can become more accepting of others. Hang in there and do something she'd appreciate. It's the best way to honor her memory. Blue skies and happy landings! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billymotox 0 #45 December 30, 2003 i am very sorry for your loss, Brian. it's sad to see one of the good ones go. may she rest peacefully now. heartfelt prayers for you all. billy d------------------------- "Escape may be checked by water and land, but the air and the sky are free." (from the story of Daedalus and Icarus) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smellysue 0 #46 December 30, 2003 my thought are with you Im sure she will be a big miss here I never got to know here personally but I feel for all those who did. loveing thoughts and long live the memories and happy times. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Botellines 0 #47 December 30, 2003 Quote Suicide is a selfish act. Suicide is a selfish act, but IMHO it is more selfish to expect someone to live an unhappy life only so people around will not get hurt. Who knows what is on an especific individual´s mind? I guess she did what she thought was best at the moment. Right or wrong, it was her decision. Good vibes and blue skies. My condolences to kat69´s dear ones Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #48 December 30, 2003 I'm with catfish. Look at the pain and hurt she caused. I'll send vibes to Chute and to her family. I've known several who killed themselves, and my dad has tried several times. They didn't consider me, or anyone, friend enough to tell me their thoughts - to ask me for help. Their efforts caused the pain of numerous people who did nothing to hurt them, and would be there to help. For kat, the pain is over. For all who knew and loved her the pain has just begun. I hope to never understand what would drive a person to do this. Vibes to all of us, and especially to her family and Chute. Don't forget kat. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chute 0 #49 December 30, 2003 Quote Not to be an instigator or anything, but is there a reason why she was logged on this morning afternoon? I helped her get a log on. When I was cleaning out her locker here at work. I found the piece of papaer she had her password on it. I loged on to see if any of her friends left her a PM. I was going to tell them first before I would have her Log on disabled. It was not her it was me. Why (NO MATTER WHAT) do people try to find fault or ask questions? Bottomless Beers and Blue Skies! * Brother_Brian * D.S.W.F.S.B. #2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mailin 0 #50 December 30, 2003 My sympathy to you, your family and hers. Its no ones fault that things like this happen. And suicide is not always about vengance. My mother attempted suicide in front of me when I was 11. She was not angry with me or anyone else, she wanted to stop the voices in her head telling her what a horrible person she was. I hope this was not the case with Kat, as I can imagine a horrible existance lived that way. And so another light dims.... JenniferArianna Frances Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
