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Who's done a three way ? (or more)

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I don't think most swingers advertise that sort of thing ( I could be wrong ). You would be better off having a serious conversation with your girl about the emotional ramifications you may be creating.
Some couples can handle it, most cannot. I know of at least a few couples who have broken up over this sort of thing.
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I would by NO MEANS call myself or my other half swingers. It's just a thought for the "been there done that". I totally agree that the end result could be emotionally BAD!! I mean no offense and you are so right about most people who have done it... (or would) would not let the world know...especially SKYDIVERS.

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Have been confronted a time or two on other possibilities, but it just doesn't interest me at this point in time.



I agree on the 1 on 1 action myself, not that I'd mind two girls on me, but 1 on 1 is my personal preference.

Soooooo.......you've had offers to go three way Casie?? Enlighten us. ;)

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Soooooo.......you've had offers to go three way Casie?? Enlighten us. ;)



:$:$My best friend (non-skydiver) of 15 years & her husband asked me a couple of times. I've been confronted by some skydiving couples as well....................:D
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Soooooo.......you've had offers to go three way Casie?? Enlighten us. ;)



:$:$My best friend (non-skydiver) of 15 years & her husband asked me a couple of times. I've been confronted by some skydiving couples as well....................:D



Damn...I gotta take some lessons form you Casie. ;)

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Dude. Trust me on this. Doing a three way is like being the one to take a woman's virginity.

Both ideas sound great. They sound like fun. They are fun while it is going on. But then feelings and emotions hit afterwards.

The days and weeks after SUCK! Most relationships cannot last it. In my limited experience on these issues, it makes the relationships just too strained.

Ask if it's worth losing your girl over it. If so, go for it. If not, then don't.


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:D:D I got ya beat. I did a two point 120 way. And, some of those people post here, but I'm sure they aren't the type to kiss and tell :$
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I agree with lawnrocket. A three way can be a lot of fun, but it's all about lust. When it's 1 on 1, hopefully it is making love...which is so much more satisfying.

BTW, you owe me a pm response...you little bastard.B|

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And, some of those people post here, but I'm sure they aren't the type to kiss and tell



Bawaaahaaaa.... They're the type to actually write long descriptive stories about it and post pictures!:$... I bet there is some video out there too...;)
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Been thereB|Done thatB|have the t-shirt and hatB| I was lucky to have those experiences, they were "educational" to be honest. My last one was not so nice though. Mistakes can happen, and you better be ready for it. Take your time, and don't just rush into it without really talking about it with your S/O. That is the key to a successful 3 way.
I personally got way too carried away last time, and the results were not what I wanted. Be careful-Caress
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I've had opportunites... close friends (guys and girls) have asked me to be #3 in a 3some with their SO...

I've always said no. and if I had a SO who asked me if I would consider adding a third for a one time thing, I'd also say no.

To me, when I'm with someone, I am with only that person. I have never cheated. I have never even been TEMPTED to cheat. To me, threesomes are too close to cheating, because you're with someone other than the person you've made a commitment to.

If I care about someone enough to sleep with them, then I care about them too much to risk losing them over something that might be fun but really amounts to just a bit of time devoted to completely meaningless lust.

I also care about my friends too much to risk losing a friendship over something like that.

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Actually, I think I can narrow this down a bit more.

There is a responsibility that goes along with it. A responsibility to all involved. It's an accountability, and even if there is an agreement on all sides, unforeseen consequences are always there.

Tread lightly...


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Everyone is giving me great feedback !!! Although the excitement of the unknown is attractive...it might just be way too costly!! It may look fun in the movies (not that I'VE seen those...haha) but real life steps in and the "climax"..shall we say..is over. Maybe if you're just single and don't have the exclusive relationship...go Gadget go !!!...but real LOVE could get screwed...and not in a good way !!
Could just be a matter of...whatever floats your own canopy.

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Ok i know i am weird.
But for me i like One on One. I don't want two girls at the same time, and had the opportunity and trurned it down. I know every guy i know has called me a dum ass for that one, but i am me not them.
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I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain

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:D:D I got ya beat. I did a two point 120 way. And, some of those people post here, but I'm sure they aren't the type to kiss and tell :$



Enough have kissed and told that I'll be joining you in April for a two point 140 way!

How YOU doin?

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