goose491 0 #51 November 7, 2003 QuoteI will tell ya one thing Val. I think I speak for most guys when I say this. Strripers are in power! As males the only power we have is the power to get to the club. Once the boobies start flyin' we lose all control and power. The only power we have at that point is the power to breath for ourselves. Something about a hot naked lady that takes away all of our powers! Here Here!!! And that's just the reason why it's offset! Why there isn't as big a market for male strippers... Not because it's degrating and only women get degrated in this world... but because it's MEN that get all GaGa and lose control over you ladies. And I see where you are coming from about not considering yourself a slave to the dollar but honestly... try going without it and see what happens. My Karma ran over my Dogma!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #52 November 7, 2003 QuoteI don't think I'm "perpetuating" anything. I haven't really said anything that wasn't fact. Most strippers would not give a 70 yr old man a lap dance for free. Many do it as a last resort. And I wouldn't fix a 70 year old mans computer for free...does that mean I'm being controlled by money? No, it means I don't want to work for free, and neither do they. They don't give lap dances to anyone for free, except maybe their boyfriends. They don't do it for pleasure, they do it for work. And you're perpetuating it with the "last resort" comment. I don't know any strippers, and I know a lot of them, that consider what they're doing to be a last resort. In fact they all talk about how they dread when they get older and won't be able to do it anymore and then have to go get some other job as a last resort. QuoteA person in that situation is being controlled. By whom or what? Not by money, they are doing a job just like anyone else. Not be their bosses, they really don't have one, they work for themselves. Not by the customers, if they don't like one for whatever reason, they don't associate with them. In Reply To -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- They consider themselves entertainers and that's what they are. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Once again, I could buy that if they would do everything they do in a club for free. ----Again...that doesn't make sense. Since I won't fix computers for free, I'm not a network engineer? Since someone won't fix teeth for free, they're not a dentist? You may want to do your job for free, but most of us don't. Why should a stripper want to work for free to be considered an entertainer? Is Metallica going to let you listen to their music for free? QuoteNo, I knew a guy that was "forced" into being a stripper as well. How exactly? If you're saying he did it because he needed the money and felt bad about himself and didn't like it, then he made a bad choice, but no one forced him. Same goes for a lot of strippers. Some of them find out they can't separate the sexual and emotional aspects of being naked from the business/entertainment aspect and feel bad about it. They're in the wrong line of work. I think that may be what you are doing. Dancing in front of men as a job, is a job. Loving someone and having sex with them is something that they don't do at work, and they don't charge for it from those they do (At least the majority of them, I will admit some are less than reputable). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #53 November 7, 2003 No! Somebody has to have power. What will happen to the world if no one has power!?Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jessica 0 #54 November 7, 2003 I walked into a "women's" sex shop not too long ago and they handed me a glass of white wine and asked if I were there for the stripping class. I don't think exotic dancing lessons are too uncommon. I edit for free quite often, but I wouldn't drive my ass down to the newspaper every night and sit in front of a computer for eight hours for free. That's just silly. And if I'd had the body and self-confidence, I'd have been happy to put myself through college by stripping. As it was I had to work 50 hours a week for almost no money. It sucked. I'd have been much happier to make ten times as much just on the weekends. There you go, insight into Jessica.Skydiving is for cool people only Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #55 November 7, 2003 QuoteThere you go, insight into Jessica. I have a feeling a lot of girls feel that way. I have a few friends that are strippers. It's what they've chosen to do. It doesn't mean they're less human or looked down upon. Just means they've chosen to make money by dancing naked. Seems like an intelligent thing to me. Here are women that know men are stupid enough to pay to see a naked lady dance. Brilliant!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #56 November 7, 2003 Quotestupid enough We're not stupid. We're just soooo weakRemster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #57 November 7, 2003 QuoteWe're not stupid. We're just soooo weak I was referring to men being stupid. I don't feel you're qualified to have an opinon on what men feel. Ha!! Let the games begin canadian boy!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #58 November 7, 2003 QuoteHa!! Let the games begin canadian boy!! What the heck happened to you? You were so sweet to everyone before, and now this! Fine. Be that way. You're just as shallow as all the other wannabe strippers....Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #59 November 7, 2003 QuoteWhat the heck happened to you? You were so sweet to everyone before, and now this! Sorry about that. My twin sister Moonshine occasionally logs on and posts mean stuff to people. I'll go kick her ass for ya. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #60 November 7, 2003 QuoteHere are women that know men are stupid enough to pay to see a naked lady dance. Brilliant!! I agree! I never understood why women groups say that strippers are victims. I spent 9 years in the Army, and dated my fair share of strippers! Not one of them felt like they where victims! They plan and simple did it for the money. I even dated one who was actually putting herself through college! I know she was because I would pick her up from school and spent time helping her study for her tests. I will admit that quite a few are screwed up in the head, but that was a result of their childhood, not from dancing! Most of them are smart and very business smart as well. They know where the good money is and they are going to get it! It's that simple.Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PhillyKev 0 #61 November 7, 2003 Yep...my girl just called me. She's made $480 today and is taking me out tonight. Now you guys know what you're paying for when you tip the dancers......my beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites dgskydive 0 #62 November 7, 2003 If there is one thing I know about, it is strippers!!!! Son;t know if that is agood thing or not, but it sure was fun!Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites dgskydive 0 #63 November 7, 2003 ***We're not stupid. We're just soooo weak ____________________________________________________________ We are both! It comes from all the blood leaving the big head and going down to the little one!! Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #64 November 7, 2003 QuoteWe are both! It comes from all the blood leaving the big head and going down to the little one!! It's little? Maybe i don't wanna come to CA anymore.... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites dgskydive 0 #65 November 7, 2003 Don't worry Sunny it is only little to me, cause my hands are so big!Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites sunshine 2 #66 November 7, 2003 *sunny has small hands* ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites goose491 0 #67 November 7, 2003 Quote*sunny has small hands* [redneck voice] Ma daddy always told me, "make sure you marry a woman with small hands.... makes yo d!ck look bigga!" [\redneck voice] We'll, I'm leavin work for home now... it's been a slice. Have a great/safe weekend all! Nick My Karma ran over my Dogma!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites dgskydive 0 #68 November 7, 2003 Cool if your hands are small then you will make it look HUGHE, as compared to it's normal "extremley large" state.Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 3 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
PhillyKev 0 #61 November 7, 2003 Yep...my girl just called me. She's made $480 today and is taking me out tonight. Now you guys know what you're paying for when you tip the dancers......my beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #62 November 7, 2003 If there is one thing I know about, it is strippers!!!! Son;t know if that is agood thing or not, but it sure was fun!Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #63 November 7, 2003 ***We're not stupid. We're just soooo weak ____________________________________________________________ We are both! It comes from all the blood leaving the big head and going down to the little one!! Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #64 November 7, 2003 QuoteWe are both! It comes from all the blood leaving the big head and going down to the little one!! It's little? Maybe i don't wanna come to CA anymore.... ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #65 November 7, 2003 Don't worry Sunny it is only little to me, cause my hands are so big!Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #66 November 7, 2003 *sunny has small hands* ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goose491 0 #67 November 7, 2003 Quote*sunny has small hands* [redneck voice] Ma daddy always told me, "make sure you marry a woman with small hands.... makes yo d!ck look bigga!" [\redneck voice] We'll, I'm leavin work for home now... it's been a slice. Have a great/safe weekend all! Nick My Karma ran over my Dogma!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #68 November 7, 2003 Cool if your hands are small then you will make it look HUGHE, as compared to it's normal "extremley large" state.Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
