321seeya 0 #51 October 22, 2003 QuoteQuoteQuoteI try to initiate a little hanky panky, she says I'm treating her like a cheap fuck. What else do you do with her besides fuck? What else is there? She's a whuffo, right? Well I could watch her do the laundry...... OUCH! BASE 3:16 - Even if you are about to land on a cop - DONT FORGET TO FLARE! Free the soul -- DJ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #52 October 22, 2003 QuoteDon't be so single minded...gheeze Single count: 13 and counting...... Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goose491 0 #53 October 22, 2003 QuoteI agree!! It's ironic, really. When we're single, we want to be not single, and so do they, but then once they realize they're not single, they wanna be single. Then we become single, whether we want to be single or not, then when we say we're gonna stay single, we become not single once again. I don't wanna single anybody out, but are any of you single or not single people understanding a single word I'm saying????? *single count: 12 and counting........* I just have a couple words to add to this. When you are single, the couples around you seem to have it all together. You want to be part of a couple too. Once courtship begins, the small problems associated with coupling begin to arise. This, coupled with the the little irritating things you may not have notice about the other, may change your view of the 'loving couple'. Before long, say after a couple months, you wonder what sold you on this couple thing in the first place. Ahh the trials of courtship, many a verse and a couplet have been dedicated to warning about them. My Karma ran over my Dogma!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #54 October 22, 2003 Dating sucks. That process of trying to figure out who a person is and getting to know, etc. Dating always has too many expectations. Courtship is great. When you finally find that someone about whom you say, "Hmmm. This may be 'The One.'" That is an awesome feeling. I think you need to separate those two categories... My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
321seeya 0 #55 October 22, 2003 I once met a girl who humped... We married and it turned to a slump, She would tease with a grin, say I couldnt stick it in, So I cut her away and then jumped. To qutoe a VERY funny comedian - Rodney Carrington - "Happily Married...Theres a fuckin oxymoron...You see two people with rings on in public kissin and huggin all happy like...They are married alright...TO SOME ONE ELSE!" BASE 3:16 - Even if you are about to land on a cop - DONT FORGET TO FLARE! Free the soul -- DJ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vallerina 2 #56 October 22, 2003 QuoteDating sucks. That process of trying to figure out who a person is and getting to know, etc. Dating always has too many expectations. I think people should start making checklists to simplify things. Seriously, from the very beginning, people should just be honest, write down a list of expectations/things that piss them off/what they like/what they want from the other person/etc. People trying to read each other is so silly. I propose that we all make this much easier. The only problem with that is that people would have to be honest with themselves first.There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KawiZX900 0 #57 October 23, 2003 just jogged 8 miles with the girl that is driving me nuts and now we're killin a couple Budweiser's...... now we're talking about doing the 8 miler 3 times a week..... when the going gets weird, the weird turn pro...... Accelerate hard to get them looking, then slam on the fronts and rollright beside the car, hanging the back wheel at eye level for a few seconds. Guaranteed reaction- Dave Sonsky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
selbbub78 0 #58 October 23, 2003 it makes no sense. Did you get together with her last night? Good luck with whatever you decide."Women fake orgasms - men fake whole relationships" – Sharon Stone "The world is my dropzone" (wise crewdog quote) "The light dims, until full darkness pierces into the world."-KDM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KawiZX900 0 #59 October 23, 2003 you're telling me..... looks like she's takin a fall for the kid and has to ease her current boyfriend down gently.... This shit makes my blood boil, because I didn't know until we were already involved.... So I'm stoked to have her onboard, and we get along great but I don't want to be a back door man... So I brought it up w/ her and she's going to close up shop with her other guy, blah blah blah... Accelerate hard to get them looking, then slam on the fronts and rollright beside the car, hanging the back wheel at eye level for a few seconds. Guaranteed reaction- Dave Sonsky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samanthashows 0 #60 October 23, 2003 You are so right skybytch... I used to be one of those chics at the dropzone. I could never understand why I couldn't date someone but also date other people if I felt the urge. He was always pressing me to date just him and marry him but I wasn't ready. Now I have fallen head over heels in love and I only wanna be with one person. This just isn't the right person for you. You do need to sit down and talk with her and let her know your feelings before it gets out of hand... Good luck dude...Samantha Weaver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samanthashows 0 #61 October 23, 2003 Yes the period thing does make a difference. I don't have them anymore but once a month I still get ummmm upset at times. I get depressed and feel like I am in "going no where" relationship with my boyfriend when I know it is going some where. He just lets me vent and cry and do whatever I need to do and then a day or 2 later I am just fine and I realize that we are just fine too...Samantha Weaver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #62 October 23, 2003 I was just discussing this phenomenon - with my boss of all people - and he said that his Uncle said something funny about it. When asked about women: "Well, they just aren't normal people all the time."I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samanthashows 0 #63 October 23, 2003 You are so right... Women are not normal all the time but neither are men...Samantha Weaver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveNFlorida 0 #64 October 23, 2003 Quoteyou're telling me..... looks like she's takin a fall for the kid and has to ease her current boyfriend down gently.... This shit makes my blood boil, because I didn't know until we were already involved.... So I'm stoked to have her onboard, and we get along great but I don't want to be a back door man... So I brought it up w/ her and she's going to close up shop with her other guy, blah blah blah... Whoa, there! Am I hearing this right? You're dating a chick who has a bf? And, now she has decided to leave him for you? And, you're ok with this? A couple of things wrong with this picture... 1) if she has been with this guy, and dating you on the side,... what makes you think that she's not going to do the same to you eventually? 2) if she is the type that needs to have something lined up before she can leave someone... well, then she's very insecure and is a LEACH! She is not comfortable being alone, and may only be with someone for teh sake of having someone... RUN!! Good luck, Angela. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhillyKev 0 #65 October 23, 2003 Man, there's a lot of girls on here telling guys that they shouldn't be with their girls based on a couple sentences on a message board. Someone tell me they're in the perfect relationship and always have been and maybe I'll listen to that advice. But if you don't know the intimate details, that's a pretty harsh comment to make. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkydiveNFlorida 0 #66 October 23, 2003 Sorry, but it's generally correct. I have girlfriends and have seen these patterns. If a girl jumps from relationship to relationship, she doesn't give herself time to evaluate who she is when she's alone. I think someone like this needs time to themselves, otherwise they're just a cling-on and are most likely in the relationship for the sake of being with someone. This doesn't say she doesn't like you, but she is seeing what she wants to see. It is something to consider when picking up a chick who's in a relationship. Can you really trust that she wouldn't do the same to you? Nope, you can't. And it's bad karma dating other peoples mates. What goes around comes around, and it will. As for you, I have made no comment on what you should do. Maybe you shouldn't complain so much if you don't want people to comment, tho?! Good luck. Angela. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #67 October 23, 2003 I agreee with Angela. Also, people that give advice on the net are offering opinions/suggestions based on facts that the men themselves have stated. KawiZX900 was, after all, asking for ladies' advice, remember? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KawiZX900 0 #68 October 23, 2003 I had no idea until after we had done the deed, and I caught the gist of it all after she had a cryptic cell phone conversation that told me all i needeed to know. So I asked her and she spilled the beans. At that point I was ready to quit this shit. We are in a class together and sit right next to each other, which was cool 1/2 way through then a bedroom yawn would escape her and we made some jokes and hooked up a night later and went out and had a good time. Which led to us going jogging and turning into crazed sex freaks afterwords. At which point (post coital bliss) she says she's getting closer to me than her man, and blah blah blah..... We both agreed that this was a huge issue, and that if we put our heads toghether in our current frame of mind it'd be fukd, so we're going out for dinner tonight and then a couple of drinks to chill.... I dig her, I just can't believe I found a rad chick with a couple of tons of baggage (emotional) and household goods to go along with it... It's been a couple of years since I've connected with someone the way we're connecting.. If I was the boyfriend, I'd want fucking blood. Turns out I inadvetantly became the back door man, and it's not where I want to be at all..... Don't get me wrong, If I had know she had a man I'd never have stepped. not in my nature. So a relationship based upon false pretenses with a wild jungle monkey sex and curious laughter is what I have to build a relationship on??? to further compound things she wants to get her feet wet skydiving and all kinds of other fun shit that I'm into as well.... Perhaps this could be a good thing, and I just stole her away and brought her someplace new, or she's slightly twisted and I'm the guy in the Offspring song...... Accelerate hard to get them looking, then slam on the fronts and rollright beside the car, hanging the back wheel at eye level for a few seconds. Guaranteed reaction- Dave Sonsky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KawiZX900 0 #69 November 7, 2003 I did the only thing I possibly could in this situation. Delete the phone number from the phone and shine this chick. Total headcase. Accelerate hard to get them looking, then slam on the fronts and rollright beside the car, hanging the back wheel at eye level for a few seconds. Guaranteed reaction- Dave Sonsky Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lee03 0 #70 November 7, 2003 I'll NEVER understand women -------- To put your life in danger from time to time ... breeds a saneness in dealing with day-to-day trivialities. --Nevil Shute, Slide Rule Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WrongWay 0 #71 November 7, 2003 QuoteQuoteQuoteWhy can't girls be satisfied with a monagamous, steady, casual dating relationship? Possibly because most guys don't know what that is. Im beginning to agree with you Hey, lots of guys want a monagamous relationship, myself included. The problem is, finding a girl that wants the same things you do, at the same pace you do, and be able to have those common interests, that conection. If it's not there, cut away. Just my $.02. Wrong Way D #27371 Mal Manera Rodriguez Cajun Chicken Ø Hellfish #451 The wiser wolf prevails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
