dropdeded 0 #1 November 4, 2003 Can someone please explain "Legal Seperation" to me? I guess I uh, need to know dropdeded------------------------------------------ The Dude Abides. - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #2 November 4, 2003 Isn't that when you don't spring for the divorce, but live separately and go about your lives as if you weren't married? I don't know, because I just went the most direct route and did the D. It was better than pretending a fundamental incompatibility issue could be resolved and reunification a viable option.Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rgoper 0 #3 November 4, 2003 QuoteCan someone please explain "Legal Seperation" to me? a "legal seperation" and what it entails can vary from state to state. but in general what it means is it's basically a 90 day period generally after one side or the other has contacted legal council and expressed a desire for a pending divorce. look up the family penal codes online at your attorney general's website in your state and county. hope this helps, and i wish you well.--Richard-- "We Will Not Be Shaken By Thugs, And Terroist" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #4 November 4, 2003 Oh, Ed, I am sorry to hear that. Really really sorry. PM me if you need to talk. hugs to you. Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
headoverheels 333 #5 November 4, 2003 As my lawyer brother explained it to me, it was when he was separated from his house, his stocks, his bank accounts.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeded 0 #6 November 4, 2003 As my lawyer brother explained it to me, it was when he was separated from his house, his stocks, his bank accounts.... ------------------------------------------------------------ Ah, so theres no worries here dropdeded------------------------------------------ The Dude Abides. - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hawkbit 0 #7 November 4, 2003 45 degrees or a good 10 count Sorry couldn't resist... Seriously... that sucks. I think the above post has it right... you are about to be legally separated from all your shit. Get your ducks in a row and figure out if there is anything you will need to defend yourself against and all that other great bullshit. Good luck bro! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "You don't quit playing because you get old, you get old because you quit playing" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,452 #8 November 4, 2003 Ed, I'm sorry to hear that, too. That really sucks -- there's been a lot going on, hasn't htere? Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeded 0 #9 November 4, 2003 Ed, I'm sorry to hear that, too. That really sucks -- there's been a lot going on, hasn't htere? ---------------------------------------------------------- Well guess who's jumping this weekend, and guess who dont give a fuck what "she" thinks (just had to say that) This has been a long time coming, not a huge surprise. dropdeded------------------------------------------ The Dude Abides. - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kai2k1 0 #10 November 4, 2003 sorry to hear it, The big D is a tough time. There's no truer sense of flying than sky diving," Scott Cowan Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McDuck 0 #11 November 4, 2003 Yeah, I didn't mean to sound so insensitive about your plight, as we perceive it. You have an entire community here for you...if you need us.Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28 "I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #12 November 4, 2003 QuoteEd, I'm sorry to hear that, too. That really sucks -- there's been a lot going on, hasn't htere? ---------------------------------------------------------- Well guess who's jumping this weekend, and guess who dont give a fuck what "she" thinks (just had to say that) This has been a long time coming, not a huge surprise. dropdeded Really, really sorry to hear that, Ed. A.I.D.S. Altitude induced divorce syndrome. What happens quite a bit when one jumps and the partner doesn't. I guess I'm lucky. Mine says I can jump all I want, as long as I promise never, EVER to buy another crotch rocket/superbike. It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #13 November 4, 2003 I don't know whether to say sorry or congratulations. Perhaps both. Moving on to a new phase of life is both frightening and exhilarating at the same time. Many vibes going out to you. As far as legal separation goes, check with the state you reside in. I lived in Maryland where you have to be legally separated for 1 year for an uncontested divorce. We just made up a sheet that stated that as of such and such a day I moved out and we lived separately and had it notarized. Good luck, my friend. edited to add: there are other rules that apply to legal separation to such as no intimate relations with the person you are separating from. Again, check the rules of the state you reside it... you can usually find it on the state's website under family law. Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites