jfields 0 #51 October 30, 2003 QuoteThey just don't include foreplay. Contrary to popular belief, foreplay is definitely within the guy code. Think of it like this.... Sex is like a bank account. If you just jump on in and get right to the nasty and take care of only your needs, you just withdrew your money and closed the account. Now, foreplay is like a deposit. You put a little in. It isn't difficult. Then it earns some interest. You can make your withdrawal and still have something left in the account. It will continue to earn and you can make another withdrawal. In the long run, you can make many more withdrawals by putting a tiny bit back in and letting the interest compound. Does that make sense now? I'm a firm believer in making sure there is always at least one deposit before any withdrawal. Sorry Casie, but I'm still off the market. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FliegendeWolf 0 #52 October 30, 2003 My mistake, I thought we were discussing post-coital snuggling. A One that Isn't Cold is Scarcely a One at All Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ReLLiK75 0 #53 October 30, 2003 QuoteHhhhuuummm, are you certain of this???? Quite! Why not give me a try? You have nothing to lose, and you already know what I bring to the table __________________________________________ Have you Got Flare? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydivejersey 0 #54 October 30, 2003 I see you point - however my world is a world of overdrafts and angry bank managers. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kansasskydiver 0 #55 October 30, 2003 I think it's perfectly fine. It's different if you had a bed buddie for each day of the week or something, but "dating" isn't an issue I don't think. If ya ever need a buddy look me up lol hahahah<--- See look, pink dolphins DO exist! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #56 October 30, 2003 QuoteQuoteto be awake that is, it's part of foreplay! That is foreplay. No, that's not all foreplay, but it's part of it. Ya know, when touching/breathing/heart racing starts to take place~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JAC 0 #57 October 30, 2003 Yes, men do look for it, because they are programmed to not pass up on any mating possibilities. If they let a mating possibilty pass by that's their loss and another man's gain. A study was done on a college campus where a female walked up to a perfect stranger male and asked them if they would return with them to have sex. 75% of men said yes. The other 25% had reasons why they couldn't (i.e. in a relationship, needed to be somewhere, etc.) but still offered an apology for not being able to join them. When the roles were reversed and men approached women with the same question, the results were 0% would agree. Oops, I had to get geeky. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jfields 0 #58 October 30, 2003 QuoteI see you point - however my world is a world of overdrafts and angry bank managers. That is fairly common. But by careful fiscal planning, you can build up a large balance, a huge credit limit and a stellar credit rating that will take you far in life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydivejersey 0 #59 October 30, 2003 Quotebreathing/heart racing starts to take place Oh I get it. You include walking up the stairs to the apartment. Silly me! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Designer 0 #60 October 30, 2003 A sex buddy nowadays would not seem to upsetting to everyone.Would I prefer just a sex buddy female?Sometimes I would.She would have to be a close friend first ,don,t ya think?Both partners get the needs taken care of without all the relationship hang ups.I see nothing wrong with it.Would not ever consider her a slut! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #61 October 30, 2003 QuoteYes, men do look for it, because they are programmed to not pass up on any mating possibilities. If they let a mating possibilty pass by that's their loss and another man's gain. A study was done on a college campus where a female walked up to a perfect stranger male and asked them if they would return with them to have sex. 75% of men said yes. The other 25% had reasons why they couldn't (i.e. in a relationship, needed to be somewhere, etc.) but still offered an apology for not being able to join them. When the roles were reversed and men approached women with the same question, the results were 0% would agree. Oops, I had to get geeky. LOL, I would have loved to have been a fly on that wall!~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samanthashows 0 #62 October 30, 2003 I knew that was coming Wrongway......Samantha Weaver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #63 October 30, 2003 QuoteQuoteHhhhuuummm, are you certain of this???? Quite! Why not give me a try? You have nothing to lose, and you already know what I bring to the table How YOU doin???? Coming my way any time soon?~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydivejersey 0 #64 October 30, 2003 QuoteThat is fairly common. But by careful fiscal planning, you can build up a large balance, a huge credit limit and a stellar credit rating that will take you far in life. It all ends in a long term standing agreement with my large, significantly overweight and male bank manager to make weekly deposits. Yeuwwww. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samanthashows 0 #65 October 30, 2003 I don't think there is anything wrong with it as long as both parties agree on what it is and nothing more than that. I was that way for a long time until I found the one for me... Both parties need to agree that this is fun and no feelings should start happening for the other person. I hate the fact that society has made women feel cheap and easy and be called a slut just because they like to have sex. My DZO used to say that I was easy but definitely not cheap. I don't care what people say about me. I like to have a companion in the bedroom and I am not ashamed of it at all.... Do what you need to do and forget what people say about you.Samantha Weaver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflygoddess 0 #66 October 30, 2003 Well I think that makes you a dirty slutty girl, sham on you! You are suppose to be a virgin until you are married and then afterwards only have sex to give him a son, but only if that is what he wants, and then stay at home cleaning and cooking and doing laundry while he goes out to tit bars and purchases hookers and brings home STDs to give to you and then blame them on you later when you both find out, then you are left all alone and you will have to buy 50 cats and become a hermit.... Oh wait, damn, how can I say that? I have Lick Me as a tat and my avitar....Go have fun, make sure you use him and get no feelings, and once one of you starts to run! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fast 0 #67 October 30, 2003 Ahh the things I would do to find someone with just that atitude that lives near me. I don't think there is anything wrong with it, and it wouldn't really make you any less datable in the future so whatever, have fun, no reason not to.~D Where troubles melt like lemon drops Away above the chimney tops That's where you'll find me. Swooping is taking one last poke at the bear before escaping it's cave - davelepka Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #68 October 30, 2003 QuoteWhat's wrong with having just a bed buddy? No strings attached, no hassles, just satisfaction when I want it. Yeah, I agree 100%. Even better if he'll leave you alone when you don't want it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #69 October 30, 2003 QuoteQuotebreathing/heart racing starts to take place Oh I get it. You include walking up the stairs to the apartment. Silly me! OMG!~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ReLLiK75 0 #70 October 30, 2003 QuoteComing my way any time soon? Only after you do Like I said...satisfaction is guarnteed!!! Actually, getting ready to head to Z-hills, so if there are any women going to be down in that area that need a shoulder, or snuggling, or a massage, or whatever....Look for me! __________________________________________ Have you Got Flare? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KolibrieLinda 0 #71 October 30, 2003 QuoteQuoteYes, men do look for it, because they are programmed to not pass up on any mating possibilities. If they let a mating possibilty pass by that's their loss and another man's gain. This is true specially when they're drunk or stoned. Hands come on places they don't belong and they think they're all sexy. So if you ask a one-night-stand (or longer) don't do it when you're drunk. It won't work Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Casch 0 #72 October 30, 2003 No! This is absolutely disgusting! Where are your morals? If you wanna have sex, wait to find a good guy, and then have sex all you want in a monogamous relationship. <> Actually I'm with everyone else. The "Friends with Benifits" deal is pretty cool, again, keep feelings out of it. Both parties have to understand that they are just friends...that like to have sex. That said...I wouldn't mind finding someone to share a friends with benefits relationship. It's been too long. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflygoddess 0 #73 October 30, 2003 Oh yeah I did forget to mention one thing...make sure you are both single! That is so not cool to have friend's with benifits if either one is in a relationship already. I do beleive in kharma and what goes around comes around. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Casie 0 #74 October 30, 2003 QuoteQuoteQuoteYes, men do look for it, because they are programmed to not pass up on any mating possibilities. If they let a mating possibilty pass by that's their loss and another man's gain. This is true specially when they're drunk or stoned. Hands come on places they don't belong and they think they're all sexy. So if you ask a one-night-stand (or longer) don't do it when you're drunk. It won't work Me.....drink???? Have you seen my sig line???? Nah, on a more serious note, I'm a complete , just a little frustrated!~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Casie 0 #75 October 30, 2003 QuoteNo! This is absolutely disgusting! Where are your morals? If you wanna have sex, wait to find a good guy, and then have sex all you want in a monogamous relationship. <> Actually I'm with everyone else. The "Friends with Benifits" deal is pretty cool, again, keep feelings out of it. Both parties have to understand that they are just friends...that like to have sex. That said...I wouldn't mind finding someone to share a friends with benefits relationship. It's been too long. Ya know, I've always been in a relationship & this has never really crossed my mind. I guess I'm just tired of feeling like there's something wrong with me when a relationship doesn't work out.~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 5 Next Page 3 of 5 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
Casch 0 #72 October 30, 2003 No! This is absolutely disgusting! Where are your morals? If you wanna have sex, wait to find a good guy, and then have sex all you want in a monogamous relationship. <> Actually I'm with everyone else. The "Friends with Benifits" deal is pretty cool, again, keep feelings out of it. Both parties have to understand that they are just friends...that like to have sex. That said...I wouldn't mind finding someone to share a friends with benefits relationship. It's been too long. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflygoddess 0 #73 October 30, 2003 Oh yeah I did forget to mention one thing...make sure you are both single! That is so not cool to have friend's with benifits if either one is in a relationship already. I do beleive in kharma and what goes around comes around. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #74 October 30, 2003 QuoteQuoteQuoteYes, men do look for it, because they are programmed to not pass up on any mating possibilities. If they let a mating possibilty pass by that's their loss and another man's gain. This is true specially when they're drunk or stoned. Hands come on places they don't belong and they think they're all sexy. So if you ask a one-night-stand (or longer) don't do it when you're drunk. It won't work Me.....drink???? Have you seen my sig line???? Nah, on a more serious note, I'm a complete , just a little frustrated!~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Casie 0 #75 October 30, 2003 QuoteNo! This is absolutely disgusting! Where are your morals? If you wanna have sex, wait to find a good guy, and then have sex all you want in a monogamous relationship. <> Actually I'm with everyone else. The "Friends with Benifits" deal is pretty cool, again, keep feelings out of it. Both parties have to understand that they are just friends...that like to have sex. That said...I wouldn't mind finding someone to share a friends with benefits relationship. It's been too long. Ya know, I've always been in a relationship & this has never really crossed my mind. I guess I'm just tired of feeling like there's something wrong with me when a relationship doesn't work out.~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 5 Next Page 3 of 5 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0 Go To Topic Listing
Casie 0 #75 October 30, 2003 QuoteNo! This is absolutely disgusting! Where are your morals? If you wanna have sex, wait to find a good guy, and then have sex all you want in a monogamous relationship. <> Actually I'm with everyone else. The "Friends with Benifits" deal is pretty cool, again, keep feelings out of it. Both parties have to understand that they are just friends...that like to have sex. That said...I wouldn't mind finding someone to share a friends with benefits relationship. It's been too long. Ya know, I've always been in a relationship & this has never really crossed my mind. I guess I'm just tired of feeling like there's something wrong with me when a relationship doesn't work out.~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
