turtlespeed 220 #26 October 30, 2003 Right. They are just in the middle of where you used to be and don't get it. I'm not in the mood for all the BS anymore either. I have better things to do than spend my time worrying if someone is upset with me, or if what i am doing is going to offend some one, or , well you know. It'll happen eventually.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JAC 0 #27 October 30, 2003 I say wait. You can be with someone/in a relationship and still be lonely because it's not the right situation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cecily 0 #28 October 30, 2003 Hey! I think I love you!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cecily 0 #29 October 30, 2003 I also think others can learn from you by not taking the first skank that comes along. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deuce 1 #30 October 30, 2003 Sounds like you have it nailed, Ray. I had a very similar philosophy when I was dating, and from the very beginning I was looking to get married. I dated a lot, but when I got to the point that I knew I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with someone I'd break it off. The best advice I can give to any man is do not have sex with a woman you would not enjoy raising children with. So, keep the faith, enjoy the company of women, and you will find the one. If you want to make it go forever you have to have a basic set of values that you share, and the ability to negotiate everything else as people and times change. And keep working the "dreamy eyes" thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #31 October 30, 2003 I am in the same place that you are. Don't listin to any one. I will wait until i find that girl that i want to be with till i die. If i don't find her i'll be alone til i die but i won't settel. being alone is not that bad. I like talking to my self I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #32 October 30, 2003 Dude, I was in that situation. My mother complained to everyone who would listen about my lack of settling down and relationships. I was always intensely private about my relationships. In fact, my lady is the only one I ever introduced to my family, since she is the only one I've believed to be worthy of it. At age 30, she's the one. Family sucks with this stuff. I know that well. Just be yourself, and enjoy it. And thank goodness that you haven't made a mistake on that part. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VectorBoy 0 #33 October 30, 2003 You are mentaly healthy and lucky that you are comfortable doing your own thing. Nothing worse than somebody being "not functional" just because they are not paired up. Even suffering being miserable because its better than being solo. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #34 October 30, 2003 Shit man, thats scary....i could have wrote that post. ....apart from the "i'm not particularly an ugly man" bit. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
