PLFXpert 0 #101 October 8, 2002 A pic? How about a web cam...Andrea has her own private Web cam and she LOVES to dance the nasty when it's on! (teasing;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Magistr8 0 #102 October 8, 2002 Now I feel so bad. In reality though if he doesn't want to look at the bigger picture here then you shouldn't feel that bad. Think about this. You have the respect that is demanded in a relationship to come forwardwith your mistake and he can't hold up his end which is compromise. It may hurt now but you'll look back on this and see that you did the right thing "Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary of fools." Napoleon Bonaparte Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sweetgirl 0 #103 October 8, 2002 True is that. I suppose now the only thing you'll be kissing is is ass.Good luck though, h Y.O.L.O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Magistr8 0 #104 October 8, 2002 I personally feel that those who are more understanding and open minded do better off in the end. His Emotional feelings are obviously in the way right now, to be expected, just give it some time. "Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary of fools." Napoleon Bonaparte Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #105 October 8, 2002 Should have stuck with the "what he doesn't kno...." -------------- You say that now, but had you not told him, and he found out later, then you would have been saying, "I wish I had told you sooner." If you said nothing, and it really was a big deal to you, you may have always held onto it as the blemish in your relationship. It's best not to do it at all...second best is to be honest. I think you did the right thing considering the circumstances. Sex is one thing...but a drunken kiss? If you had a serious relationship and it were to have progressed possibly to marriage, you would have gone through times a hell of a lot more difficult than that. There were 2 things that could have happened...you get past it, or the relationship was over...either option is better than living with something like that between you. Wanna go out sometime? ;-) -S PS - sorry...that was a terribly inappropriate joke. I could erase it, I guess... Nah! :)_____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skyrose7 0 #106 October 8, 2002 QuoteAll you are doing is transfering your guilt onto someone else so YOU can feel better. All I meant was that if you are feeling guilty about something and you know ya did something wrong, it would seem the cure would be to make up for it by being honest.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The mind is like a parachute--it works better when it is open. JUMP. MaryRose Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #107 October 8, 2002 Quote Call him back and tell him you were just joking and that he was stupid to fall for it! Bwhahaahahahahaahahaa....Val...I can see you right now....on the phone...telling some guy this.... You Harlot you..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nws01 0 #108 October 8, 2002 You can always come to Boston. I'm single, horny, like kisses, etc. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #109 October 8, 2002 Dammitt Nathan!!! I'm getting slow in my old age. I was just about to ask for her Phone number!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #110 October 8, 2002 "He said he was waiting on me while I was out kissing someone else. " "he was waiting on me..." oh? Sin#2 appears? Lack of consideration. The plot thickens. Should we ask if this is indiscretion#1 or does someone have a history? Hmmm... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #111 October 8, 2002 Quote I personally feel that those who are more understanding and open minded do better off in the end. His Emotional feelings are obviously in the way right now, to be expected, just give it some time I consider myself very open-minded and I still wouldn't date a cheater. I could forgive, but I wouldn't continue dating them.I don't think that makes me a close-minded person for not reaching out to understand why a cheater cheats. I don't judge cheaters, I just don't date them. To each their own. Some people like to try a lot of things before they settle down and there's certainly nothing wrong with that. Others know what they want from the start and there's nothing wrong with that either. I dont' think it's a matter of open-mindedness or not. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wlie 0 #112 October 8, 2002 Quote Call him back and tell him you were just joking and that he was stupid to fall for it! Better yet - introduce him to Clay as the guy you've been kissing. Either he'll now believe that it's all a joke, or you'll earn his loser for life award.My other ride is the relative wind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Magistr8 0 #113 October 8, 2002 I hear what your saying, I have taken my own advice in a situation such as this befire and we went on to have a great relationship. True no one likes a cheater but there is a difference between wanting to do it again and a mistake. "Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary of fools." Napoleon Bonaparte Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #114 October 8, 2002 I totally agree. I've seen situations such as yours and the relationship went on happily ever after after all was said and done. I can't even say that if someone cheated on me that eventually, I would not get back together with that person. But, I know, I would break up initially and at the very least, take a lot of time off. My point just addressed the "open-mindedness" comment. I didn't think that really applied. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #115 October 8, 2002 Quote Actually, Carrie is a beautiful girl both inside and out, but you'll never get close to her because her heart belongs to that swoop-god Billy Zambie. That's OK. I live 1200 miles from her. There are plenty of hotties between Massachusetts and Florida. _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #116 October 8, 2002 But NONE quite as hot as..... SKYMAMA! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #117 October 8, 2002 Quote her heart belongs to that swoop-god Billy Zambie. Wait till she sees me hook the shit out of my Stilletto 170!!!! I'm sure her knees will be weak..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nws01 0 #118 October 8, 2002 You know how many times I have done something stupid and blamed it on being drunk. But, I probably would of done the same thing if I was sober. Or at least daydreamed about it anyways. Being drunk makes you really do what you want to do that is for sure. But you did not do it because you were drunk. Hell, just a couple of weeks ago I was telling BB about this time I was drunk and... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #119 October 8, 2002 HA HA HA! Cute! Actually, I didn't know he swooped when I met him. I just knew him as that "funny camera guy that didn't stand a chance against my charms!" But I must say, and boys, please don't try this at home unless you're QUALIFIED... SWOOPING IS SO SEXY. I freakin love watching those boys and girls swoop their shit, skim the water and fly through the blades. What a turn on! But a HUGE TURN OFF is guys/girls who do that who don't have the experience, know-how or common sense and get themselves hurt. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wlie 0 #120 October 8, 2002 [replyWait till she sees me hook the shit out of my Stilletto 170!!!! I'm sure her knees will be weak..... So you can swoop her off her feet?My other ride is the relative wind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Magistr8 0 #121 October 8, 2002 Yes, the time off is a must, let the air clear and refelct on what we has been done and how to more forwrd TOGETHER. "Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary of fools." Napoleon Bonaparte Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #122 October 8, 2002 Leave it to Magistr8 to keep getting this thread back on track! Ha ha ha! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Magistr8 0 #123 October 8, 2002 Yeah sorry, I have so many windows open all the time, I come back every 3 mins or so. I'm keeping up on what's going on though and I would like to see the video when your knees buckle and you hit the ground. "Impossible is a word to be found only in the dictionary of fools." Napoleon Bonaparte Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #124 October 8, 2002 Quote maybe it's just me then.....I can't look at another I tried to sit on my hands.....really I did! Just because you have a relationship doesn't mean your dead geeeeeeeeez! Look away.....chances are your SO is!!! Ya just have to dance with the one that brought ya....... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #125 October 8, 2002 He he he....I was just teasing you. I'm a big tease;-) I like the "swooped off your feet" comment! Ha ha ha ha! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
