wildblue 7 #51 October 3, 2003 I think his first girlfriend used to be on here actually!!it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bendywendy 0 #52 October 3, 2003 wow, i think i might be the one who said to you that it was common - if it was in a different forum. Don't get too worried about it. It is common. You are a new girl on a dz. Anytime you walk onto a new dz - you are the fresh new mystery girl. There are a lot more girls everyday in the sport but the new chick on the dz is always a hot new item. I travel a lot in this sport and experience it all the time. It feels great but pretty soon you realize it's just the way things are. Those of us who take up the sport and stick with it - who go beyond a year or two and a couple hundred jumps - are almost always "cool chicks" - the guys at our own dz finally become used and give us space but when we go somewhere new - it's sometimes ridiculous how they flock around. Instructors sleeping with their students is very common! It doesn't mean he doesn't care for you! It's just a very common theme. He is exciting and new because he is teaching you something so different and exciting from anything you've ever done before. He's saving your life and giving everything you do a new special feel. He is whether you want to admit godlike to you. As for you - you are fresh, new and excited to be a part of this entirely new experience of skydiving. It may not be that he is just out for the "pussy pass" but your excitement and enthusiasm for your new passion in life is very attractive and exciting. If he were smart he would have at least waited until you got off AFF status but... what can you do. It might work, it might not and either way it's yet another life experience. It's too late now anyways, you're already in so go with it and stop worrying about it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpwally 0 #53 October 3, 2003 Honeyskies,,,,this is laughable,,you are a new puppy looking to get petted and adored by a group of people you want to be accepted by,,,,just change sports for example,,like auto racing,,,you would be in the exact situation,but with other faces,do,acting the same way...you cant see thru the forest,,theres afuckin' tree in the way......any one thats been around for more than five years is going " this'll be good,," laughing their ass off..............have some respect for yourself, would ya !!!!! wallysmile, be nice, enjoy life FB # - 1083 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #54 October 3, 2003 Quote You can recognise me by the sticker on my Factory diver: 'Start smoking: it looks cool and gets you laid'. Or some such variant ;) Sure enough. Say good night. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites