Vallerina 2 #26 September 16, 2003 My thoughts are with you and your family, Lori There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cptnstratn 0 #27 September 16, 2003 <<<>>>> My wish is for you to hear good news when the phone rings. Love to you and your family. Steve Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #28 September 16, 2003 Prayers and vibes for you, your dad and family.__________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bwilling 0 #29 September 16, 2003 Prayers Lori... hang in there! I know how hard it can be, my mom had a heart attack years ago... she's fine now, and you dad will be too! "If all you ever do is all you ever did, then all you'll ever get is all you ever got." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #30 September 16, 2003 Lori, I am sending you vibes and thoughts and prayers to you and your family, and especially your Dad. Hang in, and if I can do something to help, let me know. In the meantime, I am sending prayers your way. Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Push 0 #31 September 16, 2003 You and your dad are in my thoughts. My grandfather had heart surgery a while back, and the waiting game sucks. -- Toggle Whippin' Yahoo Skydiving is easy. All you have to do is relax while plummetting at 120 mph from 10,000' with nothing but some nylon and webbing to save you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
laurie 0 #32 September 16, 2003 Sending lots of prayers and vibes your way! You've been here for me and now, if you need me, I'm here for you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airann 1 #33 September 16, 2003 You got it ltdiver- Many prayers from here. Try not to worry. Yet, I cant imagine how you are being far away as this unfolds. Family medical history is relevant but does not necessarily define ones medical destiny. Hang in there and post as you feel like it. Its better to just get it out and have us as support because we do care. Believe That. ~AirAnn~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #34 September 16, 2003 Prayers and vibes sent.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #35 September 16, 2003 Love, prayer, strength and vibes to you, your Dad and your family. Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hottamaly 1 #36 September 16, 2003 Hang in there Lori, my thoughts and prayers go out to you. Be patient and I know things will go as planned. Skydiving gave me a reason to live I'm not afraid of what I'll miss when I die...I'm afraid of what I'll miss as I live Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ltdiver 3 #37 September 17, 2003 Thanks, friends for your PM's and wonderful supportive messages here. I can feel the warmth and caring. Here's the update on my dad as of tonight. He's stable and has been released to the care of his cardiologist in Portland, OR. He has numerous tests to be performed tomorrow early AM. Neuro stress test, angiogram, etc. Then depending on the outcome, either stay there for continued care, or be released home. Today has been a hard day to concentrate at work, and many phone calls were exchanged. Tomorrow will be some of the same. But we -should- know by the evening (I hope). My parents also thank you for the support and prayers. It meant alot to them when I told them of the good thoughts that had come in here. Keep praying....somehow it seems to be working so far. Lori Don't tell me the sky's the limit when there are footprints on the moon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #38 September 17, 2003 What great news! The prayers are continuing. Keep us informed...we care very much. Cheers, Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pds 0 #39 September 17, 2003 namaste, motherfucker. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ltdiver 3 #40 September 18, 2003 Update on Dad. Cardiologist's test revealed an uncontrolled atrial fibrilation and he placed Dad on more medications to help control it. That's all he's going to do for the ailment!! The doctor reported that if any surgical procedure is attempted, the risk of having a stroke it too great. His energy reserve is small, and his activity level is limited more and more. My dad's always been a very active person, who's had no less than 3 businesses running at the same time (even in retirement). As a man of only 18, he already owned and operated 3 successful businesses he started...newspaper, trash service, and personal insurance. These businesses, 52 years later, are STILL in operation (his mom made him sell them 1/2 way through college). If this heart ailment doesn't kill him first, the boredom will. He's only 70, so what's the freakin' deal with -not- doing something to help his heart! Something at least like the procedure that our dear Tim Wagner had...cardiac ablation. Why, when there is 'nothing' you can do to help out, does your life go numb? Lori Don't tell me the sky's the limit when there are footprints on the moon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Deuce 1 #41 September 18, 2003 Lori, I don't know. I just don't. My friends from law enforcement, cops, men of action, died when they didn't have action. When they slowed down, they slowed all the way down. Some guys don't have multiple speeds. They just have "GO" and "STOP". It's hard for some of us to learn "SLOW". I hope and pray for your Dad that he can learn "slow". And I pray for you. JP Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #42 September 18, 2003 Lori, It seems it's too soon to make this decision as emotions are involved. So far your dad is stable. As the days go on, everyone involved will be able to think clearer and make some decisions. I think 2nd and 3rd opinions are in order. Hang in there and he's in my prayers. Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,446 #43 September 18, 2003 Lori, you must be worn to a complete nub. Chris, you have excellent advice. Anyway, after resting a big, maybe getting 2nd and 3rd decisions, and researching, will help keep your dad busy. Really. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ltdiver 3 #44 September 18, 2003 QuoteI think 2nd and 3rd opinions are in order. That's just it, Chris. They've accepted this doctor's assessment and aren't seeking out a 2nd opinion. That's what has me so upset. QuoteHang in there and he's in my prayers. Thank you. Perhaps this is the only treatment that will work now. Lori Don't tell me the sky's the limit when there are footprints on the moon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #45 September 18, 2003 Lori, I say give them a week and then bring up the idea of another opinion. Maybe if you come up with a name and number they will be more receptive . Just an idea. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. BIG HUGS, Lisa -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pammi 0 #46 September 18, 2003 I'm so sorry about what's going on with your Dad. I agree with the others here in saying to get another opinion. Everyone probably has had so much come at them at once that they aren't ready to hear it right now, but maybe they will be ready very soon. Perhaps your dad will appreciate the excuse to slow down now as well. He might even enjoy it :) Try to get some time with friends and/or at the DZ if you can to refresh and regroup. It will wear you down so quickly, worrying and trying to figure out the best answers. Prayers of course going to you and your family. He sounds like a real tough cookie, I'm sure he'll get through this. Pammi Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #47 September 18, 2003 Sorry i missed the last round of vibes Lori, i'll send you two lots now. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sducoach 0 #48 September 18, 2003 Having lost my Father at the age of 61 from a heart attack, I know your fears. Know this, God will complete his work in the time and season of his will. I am praying for you, your family, and your Father that healing and peace fill your hearts. Blues and Blessings, J.E.James 4:8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jwallace 0 #49 September 18, 2003 Lori, my heart goes out to you and your family in this traumatic time. I'm always here for you if you need an ear, God knows you've been there for me and countless others in the past. Is there any way you could make a trip out there to be by your dad's side and arrange a second opinion? As I witnessed when Keith was hurt, your bedside manner is your specialty. Our prayers are with you guys. Love ya, Jen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
