Rebecca 0 #26 September 15, 2003 I'm sure you can find a reputable jeweler who doesn't deal in conflict diamonds... So, anywayyyy, does anyone else think it's ironic that TheBachelor contributed to this thread? you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #27 September 15, 2003 re. conflict diamonds, if you want to be sure, get Canadian diamonds! 1 producing mine, and 1 about to go online, with several other in various exploration and development stages. They will have a mico-engraving on them. (there goes my plug for the cdn mining industry! lol)Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,500 #28 September 15, 2003 I really second the "go shopping with her" thing. Find out what she likes -- if she uses her hands a lot, a high-set solitaire is going to catch on things. If she likes colored stones better than diamonds, well, then colored stones should be involved. You could ask her with something very simple, or maybe something like earrings, with a promise to go shopping for a ring to match. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nightjumps 1 #29 September 15, 2003 I have an idea from everyone... Since she wants to be in the process, take her to the egg machine and ask her which one she wants... Have someone be there in hiding when you arrive and when she gives you a hard time about the gag... Use the predetermined signal for the person in hiding to come out with a dozen roses and a bottle of her favorite wine. Then ask her if she'd give you the honor of going with you to browse at some jewelry stores. Whaddaya think? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
indyz 1 #30 September 15, 2003 [dissenting opinion] Screw the diamond. The tradition of buying expensive diamond rings for engagements was invented by DeBeers in the late 30s. Read more here (it's a good article, even if you don't agree with me). [/dissent] Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #31 September 15, 2003 Update: I took y'all's advice and talked to her about it at lunch. She seems inclined on a ruby... We're going to take a look together this weekend. So, more fun to look at these things, eh? And again, thank you all for your wonderful help in this! My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #32 September 15, 2003 QuoteShe seems inclined on a ruby... We're going to take a look together this weekend. Good move man... i love chinese food. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,500 #33 September 16, 2003 That is a totally awesome idea! .... So -- when're we going? Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,500 #34 September 16, 2003 QuoteWe're going to take a look together this weekend. So, more fun to look at these things, eh? Just so you know. Some women (and I am among them) can shop almost endlessly for jewelry. Without buying. So either go prepared, or with a hard-and-fast commitment to end the time. But if you suggest taking a break to get some ice cream -- that's different. Congratulations! Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vertifly 0 #35 September 16, 2003 Lawrocket, send me an email. . . . . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nightjumps 1 #36 September 16, 2003 I'll meet ya at the egg machine. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #37 September 16, 2003 Well I'm a bit too late here now that I've seen she wants a ruby.I was going to say you could have my diamond solitaire engagement ring since its doing me no good 'cept collecting dust.I'll never use it again. "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nathaniel 0 #38 September 16, 2003 That's awesome...diamonds are so manufactured, they are like velveeta and disney. If she insists on a clear gemstone go with topaz unless you're into disney and cheez wiz... nathanielMy advice is to do what your parents did; get a job, sir. The bums will always lose. Do you hear me, Lebowski? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dbriggs 0 #39 September 16, 2003 go up to inspiration point give her your highschool football ring tell her it will have to do and hit that shit. Now i am really just playing here please dont take me seriously....or am i??? get her something that has meaning to both you and her...like i should i know, im 19 and single....ahhh but...but... i got nothin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WFFC 1 #40 September 16, 2003 buy the diamond loose. Go to several shops and get an education - i.e. ask lots of dumb questinos. I do mystery shopping on occassion and one of the assignments was to shop for a loose diamond. Got a huge lesson in diamonds and, well, it's something that I could use for future reference as well... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
