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Thanks for the good vibes.
It makes a difference being with someone who is not *stuff* oriented.

KillaBee and I spend some of our best nights spending no money, walking along the beach or hanging with friends:

Its who you are not what you own that matters.

I hope that you find someone down to earth to make you happy :)

You are led through your lifetime by the inner learning creature, the playful spiritual being that is your real self.-Richard Bach


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Well, that is a part that I do not perceive happening for the time being.

You are right, and I feel the same way, it is not worth it to work hard for the future sacrificing the present.

It has been 2 years, and the fact that I lost all of it...(read $=0) no assets, I did rebuild my life back and learn one valuable lesson. It is weird, for I am back into living life to its fullest, and she is a total wacko.

It is so bad, that I was the one that had to file for a restraining order, and requested the court to impound my address of the new house I bought (new 4 me)....

The problem I faced is that even under those circumstances I did not feel like a victim, but the whole system, treated her like she was the victim. I was glad and don't regret my time, and all the love I gave her, for I did never expected anything in return, but a family. The sad part, my daughter, who is the real victim on all this, was totally overlooked by this so called court.

It is brutal in there, for the system is biased when the women call wolf, based on lies. That is my point, it should not be a matter of gender, and would like to see the system change, were the courts will really be concerned for the children first.

but regardless, I did win the battle on my childs front, at least her mom has changed her dangerous drinking, druggin habits, and realizes that she needs to take care of her, when under her roof, and has come to terms with the harsh reality of life, that she will not be able to never, ever again will find someone who loves her as much as I did.

And my daughter prefers to be with me:)
"According to some of the conservatives here, it sounds like it's fine to beat your wide - as long as she had it coming." -Billvon

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Wow:
I am so sorry to hear that you went through all of that. It certainly takes time, it took me over two years too.

Unfortunately, its hard to be the bigger person and walk away from it all, but it sounds like you made some very hard decisions and walked away with the love of your daughter, your pride and the knowledge that your daughter is being looked after by her mother, in a more appropriate manner.

Good luck to you. I know it isnt easy but once you find a good one it makes up for the heartache that has gone before.

You are led through your lifetime by the inner learning creature, the playful spiritual being that is your real self.-Richard Bach


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Even drug dealers; not really the smartest people around... but greedy, understand not to outright own stuff. Serves him right!! I say if she wants it she can take over the payments LOL!!!!

I'm LMAO, that some dude would actually own anything of value and for being so stupid not to realize his (someday) ex-wife is more vinditive than he is materialistic!!
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I'm with you.. I had a house w/ my ex of 4 years, he kept the house and the bike and I took the truck and the bike payment... :S.. Figured that since he made more than me and put more on the house and also sucked up the down payment on my truck at the time that was only fair.

Also have to say that he helped me buy my first rig and didn't even bother to bring that up so we split very adult like.

take the time to appreciate the people around you.

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Well, at least your case and Missmae's can only give people hope....(particularly men.)....

Of when u get a malfunction on that type of deal.
"According to some of the conservatives here, it sounds like it's fine to beat your wide - as long as she had it coming." -Billvon

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I own nothing wanted by "her".
I learn from a wise co-worker that he once owned a large plot of land and a house on it.
His wife ran off and called with statment of Divorce.
He took the insurance OFF the house he had built
and burnt it to the ground with his DEMO. permit she was entitled to half of all the ashes.
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HA!!! like you ever get to drive it Dave!!!! heheheh, neenerneener
and whats with all the dust on that rig there partner?get out and jump this weekend ya ratpuke!!! see ya if yer there

Roy
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See, I assume the previous owner of vehicle in question must've done something horrendous (like spend a week in bed with the girls at the Playboy mansion) to earn such punishment.



I'm going to have to look at that picture again. I didn't see any of that.



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See, I assume the previous owner of vehicle in question must've done something horrendous (like spend a week in bed with the girls at the Playboy mansion) to earn such punishment.



I'm going to have to look at that picture again. I didn't see any of that.



Sounds like you're giving me a sarcastic attitude. What I mean is, if the car was his, and she took it in the divorce, whether she felt she had a right to it or the judge felt she did, I hope there was something that was worthy of those feelings. Something along the lines of "he played golf more often than he spent time with me" is not worthy of a car. Especially something like that.
All I'm saying is that women have developed a bad habit of taking everything from men in a divorce when, most of the time, they don't really deserve shit! A lot of times, they are just as much to blame as the man, so I don't feel it's appropriate for them to take anything. And I would feel the same about a man taking from the woman...


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All I'm saying is that women have developed a bad habit of taking everything from men in a divorce when, most of the time, they don't really deserve shit! A lot of times, they are just as much to blame as the man, so I don't feel it's appropriate for them to take anything. And I would feel the same about a man taking from the woman...



Women (and in cases men too) sometimes develop this "victim" in divorce / separation. Often they don't realize that it takes 2 to screw something up. I don't think blame can usually be placed on just one person's shoulders. I guess every situation is different. Just try to date / marry the right people. :D Easier said then done I guess.

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Me and my Ex used to fight every night, and then in the morning we were on kissing terms again.


I know this because, when i was leaving for work, she was telling me to Kiss her Ass.:)



oh shit, HAHAHA, I needed a good laugh. My ex and I are signing papers this week - same story - I ain't got shit she want's and she ain't got shit I want. Going smooth so far......

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I'm going to have to look at that picture again. I didn't see any of that.


Yes I was being sarcastic. Actually I think that you have a good attitude about this subject. I just didn't think that just because she got his car doesn't mean he was an asshat. It might just mean that she had a better lawyer.



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I'm going to have to look at that picture again. I didn't see any of that.


Yes I was being sarcastic. Actually I think that you have a good attitude about this subject. I just didn't think that just because she got his car doesn't mean he was an asshat. It might just mean that she had a better lawyer.



In which case her and her lawyer are the asshats!


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I'm going to have to look at that picture again. I didn't see any of that.


Yes I was being sarcastic. Actually I think that you have a good attitude about this subject. I just didn't think that just because she got his car doesn't mean he was an asshat. It might just mean that she had a better lawyer.



True. Rarely does a legal outcome reflect right or wrong, just what is legal. Each of us probably know of cases where a person was in the right and was totally screwed in court. In addition, the discussion get exciting when both parties believed themselves to be the fair one.

The best solution is to learn from the situation and then move on. Letting the event haunt you will just ruin your future.

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