spunkywallaby 0 #1 August 14, 2003 do you think it's rude to send text messages and ask for a date or do you think it's better to call ? please help Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jayruss 0 #2 August 14, 2003 Quotedo you think it's rude to send text messages and ask for a date or do you think it's better to call ? please help call or ask in person, they like that more __________________________________________________ "Beware how you take away hope from another human being." -Oliver Wendell Holmes Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #3 August 14, 2003 A text message is far too short for an unestablished line of communication. I believe they'd prefer to be thought of as a human rather than the recipient of junk mail.quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spunkywallaby 0 #4 August 14, 2003 QuoteQuotedo you think it's rude to send text messages and ask for a date or do you think it's better to call ? please help call or ask in person, they like that more hmm...but does sending text messgaes = not sincere ? i'm just wondering because each time i send a text message i do not receive any reply Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katzeye 0 #5 August 14, 2003 LAME! Only ask in person for first date. Second or more phone call is OK. Is a chicken omelette redundant? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spunkywallaby 0 #6 August 14, 2003 QuoteA text message is far too short for an unestablished line of communication. I believe they'd prefer to be thought of as a human rather than the recipient of junk mail. you've got a point. i'll probably give a call tonight or maybe tomorrow. i've just sent her a text last night and i was wondering if it's too quick to call her tonight or should i wait till tomorrow. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #7 August 14, 2003 Yes, it's insincere! Think about it this way. I could set up a text message template and send it out to 100 different phone numbers with just a few keystrokes. Wow. I know I'd feel special if I got one of those! It's just like spam email. Or at least, that's how it -should- be looked at if you don't already have an established dating connection with the person.quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wlie 0 #8 August 14, 2003 Didn't the Malaysian government recent approve something into law recently that sending a divorce notice via SMS was acceptable? I say, "keeping up with the times man!"My other ride is the relative wind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TitaniumLegs 8 #9 August 14, 2003 QuoteLAME! Only ask in person for first date. Second or more phone call is OK. I don't know about that. I once asked a girl out via email. We are now married. (The rest of the story is that the email never actually resulted in a date. It was a couple years later in an elaborate maneuver that involved Motrin, a sweatshirt, a hot tub, and of course, alcohol.) (>o|-< If you don't believe me, ask me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #10 August 14, 2003 Don't even think about it. If you can't ask me in person, don't bother. If you are not close enough to ask in person at least let me hear your voice. Just my opinion as a female. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 3,008 #11 August 14, 2003 I get this image of a woman getting a "U wan 2 D8?" message and laughing, saving the message so she could show all her friends. So at least you would entertain her . . . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #12 August 14, 2003 I would say CALL, but if you ask in person, DON'T stare more than 6 secs, you might get sued. __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #13 August 14, 2003 I would say CALL, but if you ask in person, DON'T stare more than 6 secs, you might get sued. Not true. If you ask her out...look into her eyes, speak from your heart and smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites CrazyIvan 0 #14 August 14, 2003 QuoteNot true. If you ask her out...look into her eyes, speak from your heart and smile. Hey Vanilla, your avatar stared at me more than 6 secs...I'M GONNA SUE YOU!!! Just kidding.__________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Maxim 0 #15 August 14, 2003 Quotei'm just wondering because each time i send a text message i do not receive any reply That could be a hint =/ QuoteLAME! Only ask in person for first date. Second or more phone call is OK. You meet someone in a club get there number. how do you ask them for a date in person if the only way you have at contacting them is a number =) Life is Great. Even Greater what we do with it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites VanillaSkyGirl 6 #16 August 14, 2003 Does it look like I am staring at you wherever you go in the room? LOL! Hmmm...I kind of hate this avatar. It's too close up. I'll change it to something else. Thanks for the idea. Now, what should I change it to... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Jessica 0 #17 August 14, 2003 QuoteI get this image of a woman getting a "U wan 2 D8?" message and laughing, saving the message so she could show all her friends. So at least you would entertain her . . . Snort! Skydiving is for cool people only Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites CrazyIvan 0 #18 August 14, 2003 Quote Does it look like I am staring at you wherever you go in the room? LOL! Hmmm...I kind of hate this avatar. It's too close up. I'll change it to something else. Thanks for the idea. Now, what should I change it to... Dunno, just make sure you show your beautiful smile. __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bbarnhouse 0 #19 August 14, 2003 Quark you mean if I text you and ask you for a date...you would think I am insincere? Golly gee! delete....delete...delete... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites diablopilot 2 #20 August 14, 2003 QuoteThink about it this way. I could set up a text message template and send it out to 100 different phone numbers with just a few keystrokes. Show me how. I could really test the "buckshot" theory! "Nice shoes....." Bwahahahhahah. BTFU! My idea first! (Damn' I'm going to stop drinking now!)---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites quade 4 #21 August 14, 2003 How the hell is that your idea at all? And aren't you glad I don't use my superpowers for evil?quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites spunkywallaby 0 #22 August 14, 2003 QuoteI get this image of a woman getting a "U wan 2 D8?" message and laughing, saving the message so she could show all her friends. So at least you would entertain her . . . sounds cute! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkyAnt 0 #23 August 14, 2003 I knocked back one of the hottest, coolest chicky babes I have ever met because she insisted on communicating via sms(text) over where our first date would be. Is it too much too ask? "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." Edmund Burke (1729-1797) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lazyfrog 0 #24 August 14, 2003 QuoteI knocked back one of the hottest, coolest chicky babes I have ever met because she insisted on communicating via sms(text) over where our first date would be. Is it too much too ask? ---- I think SMS is cool.... you can say and suggest many things you wouldn't say... and often ends in the way you expected ---------- Fumer tue, péter pue ------------- ourson #10, Mosquito Uno, CBT 579 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Tonto 1 #25 August 14, 2003 1st Date? Call. Women like to make excuses or reject you in person. If you've been dating for several years... I see no problem with a text message. I think if the person likes you though, that they'll probably go along with whatever medium you choose to use. tIt's the year of the Pig. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Join the conversation You can post now and register later. 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CrazyIvan 0 #14 August 14, 2003 QuoteNot true. If you ask her out...look into her eyes, speak from your heart and smile. Hey Vanilla, your avatar stared at me more than 6 secs...I'M GONNA SUE YOU!!! Just kidding.__________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Maxim 0 #15 August 14, 2003 Quotei'm just wondering because each time i send a text message i do not receive any reply That could be a hint =/ QuoteLAME! Only ask in person for first date. Second or more phone call is OK. You meet someone in a club get there number. how do you ask them for a date in person if the only way you have at contacting them is a number =) Life is Great. Even Greater what we do with it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #16 August 14, 2003 Does it look like I am staring at you wherever you go in the room? LOL! Hmmm...I kind of hate this avatar. It's too close up. I'll change it to something else. Thanks for the idea. Now, what should I change it to... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jessica 0 #17 August 14, 2003 QuoteI get this image of a woman getting a "U wan 2 D8?" message and laughing, saving the message so she could show all her friends. So at least you would entertain her . . . Snort! Skydiving is for cool people only Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #18 August 14, 2003 Quote Does it look like I am staring at you wherever you go in the room? LOL! Hmmm...I kind of hate this avatar. It's too close up. I'll change it to something else. Thanks for the idea. Now, what should I change it to... Dunno, just make sure you show your beautiful smile. __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #19 August 14, 2003 Quark you mean if I text you and ask you for a date...you would think I am insincere? Golly gee! delete....delete...delete... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #20 August 14, 2003 QuoteThink about it this way. I could set up a text message template and send it out to 100 different phone numbers with just a few keystrokes. Show me how. I could really test the "buckshot" theory! "Nice shoes....." Bwahahahhahah. BTFU! My idea first! (Damn' I'm going to stop drinking now!)---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #21 August 14, 2003 How the hell is that your idea at all? And aren't you glad I don't use my superpowers for evil?quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spunkywallaby 0 #22 August 14, 2003 QuoteI get this image of a woman getting a "U wan 2 D8?" message and laughing, saving the message so she could show all her friends. So at least you would entertain her . . . sounds cute! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SkyAnt 0 #23 August 14, 2003 I knocked back one of the hottest, coolest chicky babes I have ever met because she insisted on communicating via sms(text) over where our first date would be. Is it too much too ask? "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." Edmund Burke (1729-1797) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites lazyfrog 0 #24 August 14, 2003 QuoteI knocked back one of the hottest, coolest chicky babes I have ever met because she insisted on communicating via sms(text) over where our first date would be. Is it too much too ask? ---- I think SMS is cool.... you can say and suggest many things you wouldn't say... and often ends in the way you expected ---------- Fumer tue, péter pue ------------- ourson #10, Mosquito Uno, CBT 579 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Tonto 1 #25 August 14, 2003 1st Date? Call. Women like to make excuses or reject you in person. If you've been dating for several years... I see no problem with a text message. I think if the person likes you though, that they'll probably go along with whatever medium you choose to use. tIt's the year of the Pig. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
SkyAnt 0 #23 August 14, 2003 I knocked back one of the hottest, coolest chicky babes I have ever met because she insisted on communicating via sms(text) over where our first date would be. Is it too much too ask? "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." Edmund Burke (1729-1797) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lazyfrog 0 #24 August 14, 2003 QuoteI knocked back one of the hottest, coolest chicky babes I have ever met because she insisted on communicating via sms(text) over where our first date would be. Is it too much too ask? ---- I think SMS is cool.... you can say and suggest many things you wouldn't say... and often ends in the way you expected ---------- Fumer tue, péter pue ------------- ourson #10, Mosquito Uno, CBT 579 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tonto 1 #25 August 14, 2003 1st Date? Call. Women like to make excuses or reject you in person. If you've been dating for several years... I see no problem with a text message. I think if the person likes you though, that they'll probably go along with whatever medium you choose to use. tIt's the year of the Pig. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
