CrazyIvan 0 #1 July 30, 2003 Now, you have to be EXTRA careful and LISTEN to your partner, just in case she 'Changes her mind'. This sex thing is getting ridiculous.__________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
John4455 0 #2 July 30, 2003 Could be hard to confuse "don't, stop" with Don't.........Stop!!!!!! How do ya like it Johnny? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #3 July 30, 2003 QuoteCould be hard to confuse "don't, stop" with Don't.........Stop!!!!!! My point exactly.__________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadySkyDIve 0 #4 July 30, 2003 What if HE changes his mind? (Not that there are many guys who would probably do so though!) Is it still considered rape? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadySkyDIve 0 #5 July 30, 2003 Answered my own question by re-reading the article! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NeedToJump 0 #6 July 30, 2003 QuoteThe law was inspired by a California case involving two 17-year-olds who had sex at a party. The girl changed her mind about having sex, but the boy did not stop immediately. Let's start a poll about if we think it's possible for a 17 year old boy having sex to stop immediately once started. Yes a girl (or a guy for that matter) has the right to change his/her mind about having sex, but I completely agree with you Ivan, "This sex thing is getting ridiculous" Wind Tunnel and Skydiving Coach http://www.ariperelman.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tonto 1 #7 July 30, 2003 So? What's the problem with that? If someone is doing something to me - and I say no, where's the mis-understanding? No means... No. Simple really. tIt's the year of the Pig. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lazyfrog 0 #8 July 30, 2003 actually I don't believe in rape... Rape is when you don't want to have sex, but you always want sex... ---------- Fumer tue, péter pue ------------- ourson #10, Mosquito Uno, CBT 579 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #9 July 30, 2003 QuoteYes a girl (or a guy for that matter) has the right to change his/her mind about having sex, but I completely agree with you Ivan, "This sex thing is getting ridiculous" Yup, so now, if you go out you have to carry WAIVERS to be signed by your partner stating: I ___________________ certify that on the _____ day of the month of _______ at _______ [AM/PM] will have sex with Mr.____________________ and I WILL NOT CHANGE MY MIND during the sexual encounter or copulation. Sincerely, _______________________ __________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #10 July 30, 2003 QuoteSo? What's the problem with that? If someone is doing something to me - and I say no, where's the mis-understanding? No means... No. No problem, but if you are NOT sure that you want that....DON'T START ANY FIRES, that's all__________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pammi 0 #11 July 30, 2003 I heard on the radio the other day there was an actor (don't remember who right now) that used to take a Polaroid of himself with the girl he was getting ready to have sex with naked every time. He said it was supposed to show that she was happy and consenting. I guess that doesn't show if she changes her mind tho eh? I'd like to think there aren't women who would take advantage of the law to get at someone they are pissed at because it could be a good law, but I'm sure there will be. Pammi Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bkdice 0 #12 July 30, 2003 what in the mother-f-ing hell is wrong with people?!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #13 July 30, 2003 And if you're into that kinky stuff then you need another waiver explaining that "no" does not actually mean "NO"... but if she says "hippopotamus" (or whatever "safe" word) then that really does mean "NO"... Or do they need to write a special law for this scenario too??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #14 July 30, 2003 They are behind the times. California decided this in January, and we had quite a discussion on here. "Yes" means "yes" until it means "No." My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
John4455 0 #15 July 30, 2003 Is there a time limit on how much time that you have to stop? There are the laws of momentum!! How do ya like it Johnny? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kevin922 0 #16 July 30, 2003 Quotewhat in the mother-f-ing hell is wrong with people?!!!! yeah why would ANYONE want to stop in the middle of sex? :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChasingBlueSky 0 #17 July 30, 2003 QuoteQuoteYes a girl (or a guy for that matter) has the right to change his/her mind about having sex, but I completely agree with you Ivan, "This sex thing is getting ridiculous" Yup, so now, if you go out you have to carry WAIVERS to be signed by your partner stating: I ___________________ certify that on the _____ day of the month of _______ at _______ [AM/PM] will have sex with Mr.____________________ and I WILL NOT CHANGE MY MIND during the sexual encounter or copulation. Sincerely, _______________________ Will they have those in Rantoul?_________________________________________ you can burn the land and boil the sea, but you can't take the sky from me.... I WILL fly again..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malfunction 0 #18 July 30, 2003 We wouldn't be having this discussion if Quotethere aren't women who would take advantage of the law to get at someone they are pissed at It is a bad enough situation that someone can change their mind and accuse someone else of rape after the fact. Now we have to tape record the entire night just to prove that there was no "NO, STOP" or we could find ourselves in court. You know damn well that if a woman CLAIMS she said "stop," the courts are going to believe her because it is a known fact that men are sex-driven pigs that don't give a damn for womens feelings or thoughts. Anyone get the impression that men are a doomed race because of this??? I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend to the death your right to say it. - Voltaire Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #19 July 30, 2003 Ooooh....she knows about the "safe" wordI'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davelepka 4 #20 July 30, 2003 You're thinking of Chuck Berry. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #21 July 30, 2003 Quote Anyone get the impression that men are a doomed race because of this??? Um...does the tale of the Amazon's come to mind?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyAnt 0 #22 July 30, 2003 I have heard of 17 year only boys finishing before they have started. Does that count? Not me of course. Noooo no no no no! In fact when I was that age I was the opposite..... "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." Edmund Burke (1729-1797) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedMonster 0 #23 July 30, 2003 Whew!! I guess I won't have to worry about this one. I sure as hell won't be saying NO in the middle of it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #24 July 30, 2003 QuoteI ___________________ certify that on the _____ day of the month of _______ at _______ [AM/PM] will have sex with Mr.____________________ and I WILL NOT CHANGE MY MIND during the sexual encounter or copulation. Sincerely, _______________________ That waiver is woefully inadequate. For a few hundred bucks, I'll write you one that is good for California. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma 0 #25 July 30, 2003 This is awful. I can't even begin to imagine the abuses that will be made of this new legislation. A tough time to be a man. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
