Muenkel 0 #1 May 26, 2003 I am not directing this at any particular person. So the person I am in a PM conversation with right now should not feel this is prompted by them. For the past week or so, I have found many of our dz.com friends going through some kind of hardship, whether it be injury, depression, general malaise, surgery, and especially the grief of losing a friend. I have learned this through pm's as well as reading the forums. It's ironic, because right at this moment, many of our friends are having a blast at various boogies across the country. I guess what I am trying to say, is if you don't hear from someone in a while, reach out to them. Send them a pm and ask how they are doing. If while reading posts, you sense the person is bumming about something, reach out to them. Lend some encouraging words. Even if they are not a person you normally would talk to or even know. This may sound nutty to some, but my instincts are usually pretty good on these matters. I guess what I am trying to say is to be more aware, read between the lines and perhaps go outside your normal circle. You'd be surprised what a simple hello can do for someone. Like every community, you have your popular ones and your shy, stay in the background ones. But noone is better than anyone else. I have found this community is usually pretty good at reaching out, but I think we would be surprised how many fall through the cracks. Just something to think about. Blue skies, Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #2 May 26, 2003 very, very well said Chris! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #3 May 26, 2003 QuoteYou'd be surprised what a simple hello can do for someone. Like every community, you have your popular ones and your shy, stay in the background ones. But noone is better than anyone else. You are so exactly right, Chris. And for those who ever need an ear, mine is always here. I may not be very good at skydiving, but I know I can listen, and hold your hand as you walk an uneven path. As you have supported me through righteously rough times, cried with me, laughed with me, loved me through crisis, and remain here for me, I am here for you... hugs to those who need it, love to those who need it, and joy for everyone. Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #4 May 26, 2003 Quote If while reading posts, you sense the person is bumming Man...here in the UK you would leave them well alone. Sorry. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyIvan 0 #5 May 26, 2003 I'm always available to lend an ear.__________________________________________ Blue Skies and May the Force be with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
falxori 0 #6 May 26, 2003 i know very very few people from here in real life, but there are quite a few that just seeing their name online maked me feel better... so i'm always here if some one needs me (usually even if not) O "Carpe diem, quam minimum credula postero." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
robskydiv 0 #7 May 26, 2003 Sometimes, it's difficult to know what to say as you don't want to say the wrong thing. But I think that you can't go wrong with words of encouragement. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hooked 0 #8 May 26, 2003 Quotehugs to those who need it, love to those who need it, and joy for everyone. Thanks Michele and Chris. Jan -------------------------------------- Sometimes we're just being Humans.....But we're always Human Beings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #9 May 26, 2003 Good post man! That needed to be said, and I'm glad there are folks out there like you who take the time to help out people that need it.--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #10 May 26, 2003 Thanks for this thread. I know I've lost touch with people I used to talk to regularly. I also have a few people who just drop in to say "hi and hows your life?" every now and then and its always a welcome surprise. Its amazing how much a simple gesture can give someone a smile. "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katiebear21 0 #11 May 26, 2003 Well said, Chris. Believe it or not you guys have kept me going over here. Ya'll keep me motivated and entertained. I've told Sangiro several times what a great thing he's done by bringing us all together. And like Michele said, after actually getting to put a face to the names at the first boogie that just solidified the friendships that had begun online! You guys have spoiled me with energy bars, starbucks, biscotti, breakfast bars, foot scruby stuff, massage tools, puzzles, pictures, dvd's, homemade videos, cd's, melted chocolate, easter bunnies, t-shirts, stickers, a closing-pin necklace, pm's, and good old fashioned letters. I am truly spoiled! I LOVE YOU MAN!!! Katie Get your PMS glass necklace here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #12 May 27, 2003 Great thread! It's amazing how a simple - "Hey...thinking of you" can help people through a tough time. So...to all HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGSLife is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #13 May 27, 2003 This is a great thread. So many on here have helped me so much. I've been going through a very rough time lately and the people here have been incredible. Thanks to all and lots o' Hugs to everyone!!!!!!xxxxxxxxxxxxooooooooooo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Raefordite 0 #14 May 27, 2003 QuoteSometimes, it's difficult to know what to say as you don't want to say the wrong thing. But I think that you can't go wrong with words of encouragement. Absolutely, I agree - The point is, just reach out and say something. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #15 May 27, 2003 QuoteYou'd be surprised what a simple hello can do for someone. So true. If not for the support and love from all the .comers, i don't think i would've made it through my recovery so far. Ended up in the ER again earlier today due to complications from this surgery. I just want it to be over, but i sooo appreciate all you peeps being here for me. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobsled92 0 #16 May 27, 2003 It's good to hear from you. and yes..."Barlow Girls" still rock!(I have that C.D. in my car for the work commute) _______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #17 May 27, 2003 Quote It's good to hear from you. and yes..."Barlow Girls" still rock! Its nice to be missed.hehe..yes we do rock. (I finally downloaded the song to my play list lol) "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FallinWoman 1 #18 May 27, 2003 Chris, you are so right. I received quite a few PMs from my post about needing support...I haven't jumped in 9 months and am a bit nervous about returning to the air. I did not feel too great when I got up yesterday or today.... I have so appreciated those of you who have been understanding. THe last thing I need right now is more pressure or shit from people. I love DZ.com just for that reason! ~Anne I'm a Doll!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #19 May 29, 2003 *BUMP* I just wanted to reiterate Chris' thoughts.Its a very good message.So many people(myself included) are having rough times right now. "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VanillaSkyGirl 6 #20 May 29, 2003 What a beautifl message to us all. You have a great heart, Muenkel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #21 May 30, 2003 Don't let it fool you, I just wrote it to show the chicks my sensitive side. They really dig the sensitive side.J/K. Moody remember this quote "This too shall pass." The hard times just make us stronger.Vanilla, thanks for the compliment. I appreciate it. Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #22 May 30, 2003 Quote Moody remember this quote "This too shall pass." The hard times just make us stronger. This is so true Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #23 May 30, 2003 Quote Moody remember this quote "This too shall pass." The hard times just make us stronger. Thank you Chris. Lets hope it passes quickly. "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #24 May 30, 2003 Quote Thank you Chris. Lets hope it passes quickly I have some crappy things I am dealing with right now also. Let's wish eachother good vibes for all of it to pass.Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #25 July 27, 2003 In light of the loss of Rob and the suffering Mujie and many of our dz.com friends are going through, I thought this thread could use a bump right now. Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
