sinker 0 #1 July 23, 2003 This post is for anyone who may be depressed and who may have become confused in the (now locked) thread that was started earlier. Before anyone takes the advice of someone posting from dz.com, whether it be me, Rhino, Michele, anyone, if your depression is serious enough that you have a hard time getting out of bed, have difficulty working, have lost the ability to experience pleasure in activities you used to gain pleasure from, or have had ANY suicidal thoughts, even if you would NEVER act on them, PLEASE see a licensed, competent, reputable psychiatrist or therapist. If you can't afford one or your insurance doesn't pay for one, PM me. I may be able to help with options unknown to you. Edited to add: and be careful/wary of professionals whose ONLY recourse is to push meds. Notice I said ONLY... -the artist formerly known as sinker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinker 0 #3 July 23, 2003 actually, I'm very cheerful! I have a new baby and I've recently made some deep and fulfilling friendships on dz.com. -the artist formerly known as sinker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Laurel 0 #4 July 23, 2003 agreed with 110% Depression is a chemical imbalance that can be treated extremely successfully by MDs and PhDs. Take APPROPRIATE steps to treat any illness you have regardless of whether there is blood, broken bones or a broken heart. It can all be just as severe. ..................................................................... PMS#28, Pelogrande Rodriguez#1074 My Pink M Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bbarnhouse 0 #5 July 23, 2003 QuotePLEASE see a licensed, competent, reputable psychiatrist or therapist. Excellent advice. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slowfaller 0 #6 July 23, 2003 Someone clinically depressed wouldn't even want to look in the mirror for that long Chris (in the process of getting back on meds not as a result of ANYTHING posted on DZ.com or anywhere else for that matter) --"Someday you will die and somehow somethings going to steal your carbon" -MM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #7 July 23, 2003 QuotePLEASE see a licensed, competent, reputable psychiatrist or therapist What exactly are your credentials - to be able to suggest to people that they see a licensed professional? You can't just despense advice like that anonymously... it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #8 July 23, 2003 Quote I've recently made some deep and fulfilling friendships on dz.com. I thought we were keeping our freindship a secret. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinker 0 #9 July 23, 2003 sunny one, I want to shout from the rooftops about our sleezy but fulfilling relationship... I just cant help it. -the artist formerly known as sinker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kansasskydiver 0 #10 July 23, 2003 my job is depressing, i talk to stupid people all freaking day<--- See look, pink dolphins DO exist! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
txblondie 0 #11 July 23, 2003 Quotemy job is depressing, i talk to stupid people all freaking day Me too... My pet peeve is stupid people! That's why I love Bill Engvell's "Here's Your Sign" routine! ***************************************** Blondes do have more fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #12 July 23, 2003 we just , as of last friday, had an young(20-ish) airman take her own life! she didnt work in my shop and I didnt know her. BUT unfortunatly these things usually start a chain of suicides. we get breifed on these kinda things and its not the first time Ive seen it. though personal experience, as I was growing up, Ive seen this happen and have dealt with it. it isnt too cool! depression hits everyone,but "clinical depression" should be something we should learn about before its too late. there is no way out of clinical depression alone! if you are or know someone who you think is depressed MAKE THEM SEEK HELP if you have to! death should be something we do when were old.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slowfaller 0 #13 July 23, 2003 sounds like customer service on a helpdesk... --"Someday you will die and somehow somethings going to steal your carbon" -MM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
txblondie 0 #14 July 23, 2003 When I was in high school, my best friend left a suicide note in my locker, and I didn't think twice about taking it to the counselor to get him professional help. I'd already lost one friend because no one took him seriously. Depression is a serious issue, and it's good to know that people out there realize that. ***************************************** Blondes do have more fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blahr 0 #15 July 23, 2003 This is one topic that has been completely beat to death. FYI, hard physical workouts are a good "natural" treatment for depression if you dont like taking meds. Endorphins rock This has made MY life far better and seriously smoothed out the peaks andvalleys of my own mood swings. Meds did nothing for me, working out was a big help. This doesnt mean its for everyone!! It CANT hurt to try :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #16 July 23, 2003 Quote This is one topic that has been completely beat to death. Why do you think that? Ciels- Michele ~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek While our hearts lie bleeding?~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #17 July 23, 2003 QuoteQuote I've recently made some deep and fulfilling friendships on dz.com. I thought we were keeping our freindship a secret. I guess I'm doing pretty well right now. If I don't make Rantoul though...http://www.co.brown.wi.us/Mental_Health_Center/ It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #18 July 23, 2003 QuoteIf I don't make Rantoul Nonsense!! You WILL be at rantoul!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #19 July 23, 2003 somehow during high school I was elected the peer counselor...not through the school. I had alot of freinds call me or come to my window when they had their fill of it all. I am still to this day glad that I know that there are two people on this planet today because I was able to talk to them! I actually had i friend who had cuts on her wrists by the time i got to her house not a cool feeling. I guess I knew how to show them that things arent so bad. my school life was very different but I learned alot from some good and some bad experiencesMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #20 July 23, 2003 LMAO! You can talk! You've got a hot FF boy meeting you there! Who needs a middle aged, luke warm newbie vidoegrapher? Well, at least I have good taste in food, beverages, and friends. Especially friends!It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blahr 0 #21 July 23, 2003 Quote Why do you think that? Ciels- Michele Only because I've seen many long threads on the subject where dozens of folks offer differing opinions and advice and then someone else completely disagrees :-) Different things work for different people. People suffereing from depression need to find what works best for each of them. Its between them, their doctor, and their higher power. Suggestions are great as long as they are taken with a grain of salt and not accepted as gospel. Not only will some not work for some folks, but some might actually be harmful. Arguments about them are useless and help nobody. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
txblondie 0 #22 July 23, 2003 Quotesounds like customer service on a helpdesk... Sort of...we troubleshoot electrical products, which means a lot of people who claim to be electricians call not knowing what they're doing! ***************************************** Blondes do have more fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #23 July 23, 2003 QuoteYou can talk! You've got a hot FF boy meeting you there! Yep.QuoteWho needs a middle aged, luke warm newbie vidoegrapher? I love hanging out with you...and you can use your video skills to record my all new never before seen panty tricks!! QuoteWell, at least I have good taste in food, beverages, and friends. Especially friends! I hope i fit into that category. Smooches to ya baby!! ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #24 July 23, 2003 I totally agree with you on the exercise bit. there is a certain amount of activity a human needs to function properly! without it we find a rut and camp out. IMHO it has a shitty effect on ones outlook!My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RevJim 0 #25 July 23, 2003 QuoteWho needs a middle aged, luke warm newbie vidoegrapher? QuoteI love hanging out with you...and you can use your video skills to record my all new never before seen panty tricks!! Beware the range of Nightshot. I got a bunch of Sony credits when I got my camera. I've got an infared booster now. 100 foot range, in pitch black conditions. Runway numbers anyone? QuoteWell, at least I have good taste in food, beverages, and friends. Especially friends! QuoteI hope i fit into that category. Smooches to ya baby!! Ooooh yea! and Ditto! (He better bring that canopy, dangnabbit. I'm gonna try to sell the Sabre there, so I can buy it from him....)It's your life, live it! Karma RB#684 "Corcho", ASK#60, Muff#3520, NCB#398, NHDZ#4, C-33989, DG#1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites