bkdice 0 #1 July 11, 2003 I had a discussion with a friend the other day about tipping. I tip well (since I once worked for tips as a delivery driver). I also appreciate good service. However, I never tipped the paper delivery person and my friend scolded me saying she tipped them every month. WTF? So - what are your view points on tipping? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LostOne 0 #2 July 11, 2003 10 - 20 % in restaurants. But if the service was really bad, I don't tip, but quitly explain why. Where I live, there are pump attendants at petrol stations. The 20% rule does not apply there, but abotu 1% is considered good, if they washed the window as well it might be more. ----------------------------------------------- Bum's the word! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #3 July 11, 2003 I tip the guys who lug my heavy bags on and off the shuttle service at the airport $1 per bag.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jdhill 0 #4 July 11, 2003 I waited tables in my youth... I tend to tip about 15% for average service, 20% or more for above average... If I get bad service, that is the server's fault (not the kitchen's), I either don't tip or will leave a few pennies on the table (and note why on the receipt - no tip for bad service-)... I will tip others, pizza guy, movers, etc, but not the UPS or FEDEX guy. As for the mailman... maybe when I stop getting mail from 2 streets over, I'll think about it... and my trash hualers... their overpaid in the first place, and they leave all the trashcans strewn about the street, so no, not them. JAll that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing. - Edmund Burke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mattlcom 0 #5 July 11, 2003 Having been both a delivery person AND once a paperboy, tips are appreciated and, yes, generally expected. I usually tip 20%+ for good service, of course with consideration for the total bill (no automatic $200 tips). The way the paperboy thing works for me.. either A) you pay monthly via the little envelopes, in which case you should leave a couple extra bucks each month, or B) you pay annually, in which case you should give like $20 at Christmastime. That's my world, anyway. -MattL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #6 July 11, 2003 I remember tipping my tandem master each time. Also, tipping etiquette varies from place to place. I've noticed that New Englanders are not as generous with tipping as New Yorkers are. Actually I should re-phrase that; It is not the practise of New Englanders to tip all services that a New Yorker would consider proper. Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casie 0 #7 July 11, 2003 QuoteI waited tables in my youth... I tend to tip about 15% for average service, 20% or more for above average... If I get bad service, that is the server's fault (not the kitchen's), I either don't tip or will leave a few pennies on the table (and note why on the receipt - no tip for bad service-)... I will tip others, pizza guy, movers, etc, but not the UPS or FEDEX guy. As for the mailman... maybe when I stop getting mail from 2 streets over, I'll think about it... and my trash hualers... their overpaid in the first place, and they leave all the trashcans strewn about the street, so no, not them.J DITTO! I have waited tables & bartended thru college. I will always tip 15% or more if it's good service, however if the service sucks....watchout, I'll let ya know~Porn Kitty WARNING: Goldschlager causes extreme emotional outbursts! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TitaniumLegs 8 #8 July 11, 2003 Tips are getting out of control. Every time I look, the "reasonable" tip has gone up a couple percent. Well, service hasn't gotten any better. The price of food has gone up, so that means the amount of the tip has gone up without increasing the percentage. I tip cab drivers, but I think it's too much, so that will be going down. I tipped the lady who cut my hair the other day, but I really shouldn't have since the haircut sucked. I've tipped riggers, usually for something like a quick turnaround. I don't use packers, because too many of them do things like walk on lines or use certain packing techniques I don't like, so obviously I don't tip them. But I don't want to go off completely on that rant. I don't think dropzones and instructors should even mention tips. Signs that say "Tips are appreciated" are inappropriate. You're already taking $150 to $300 for less than an hour of actual work. If somebody comes up with it all on their own, good for you, take it. (>o|-< If you don't believe me, ask me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bkdice 0 #9 July 11, 2003 QuoteI usually tip 20%+ for good service, of course with consideration for the total bill (no automatic $200 tips). $200 tip is 20% of $1K. Must be going to some nice restaurants! I tend to tip 20% at restaurants for good service. I won't tip well or at all for bad service. I've tipped up to 40% at fine dining places for excellent service. I don't have much $$, but I really appreciate good service when it comes to dining out. I also tip for take out. I forgot to mention that in my poll, dammit. I tip 5-10% for take out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mattlcom 0 #10 July 11, 2003 Quote$200 tip is 20% of $1K. Must be going to some nice restaurants! Current personal record for a meal is $1475 for six people... roughly $250 per. Good food, great atmosphere, lots and lots and lots of alcohol. I miss the dot-Com days, sometimes. *sigh* -MattL--- "An intellectual snob is someone who can listen to the William Tell Overture and not think of The Lone Ranger." -- Dan Rather Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyhi 24 #11 July 11, 2003 What do waiters think of people who tip 15% on credit cards? Or tipping on credit cards at all. Should you tip more because it will be reported or should you consider it as just part of the base tip reported to the IRS anyway? I once tipped a rude "stewardess" because I thought she would be offended. She was. The "stewardess" comment didn't sit well, either.Shit happens. And it usually happens because of physics. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bkdice 0 #12 July 11, 2003 QuoteTips are getting out of control. Every time I look, the "reasonable" tip has gone up a couple percent. Well, service hasn't gotten any better. This is true in some cases. But you know that saying "it's hard to find good help these days"? Well, I think it is often hard to find good service. So, if I receive it, I make sure my appreciation is known. The only packer I ever really use at my dz (I pack my own 95% of the time) listened when I told him exactly how I wanted my canopy packed. He has given me such wonderful openings, so he gets a tip for that. But you know, there are lots of sloppy, lazy, careless people providing services out there now-a-days. The ones that step it up a notch are much appreciated. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bkdice 0 #13 July 11, 2003 My mom once told me that you don't include the alcohol when you tip. I have had waiters / waitresses tell me different. However, if I have a $200 meal and $300 bottle of wine - I'd probably tip 20%+ on $350. This seems to be a gray area for some. I currently just steer away from the $300 bottles of wine. I would rather tip on the entire bill - but what if more than half your bill was 1 bottle of wine that took them all of a minute to present to you? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TitaniumLegs 8 #14 July 11, 2003 QuoteThe ones that step it up a notch are much appreciated. That's for sure! (>o|-< If you don't believe me, ask me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ThighMan 5 #15 July 11, 2003 I voted and as for the packers, I don't use them but my RIGGER. OH YES. Always tip you RIGGER. Thank you if I ever need to use it.Airborne Blue Skies, No Wind Feet and Knees Together Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
John4455 0 #16 July 11, 2003 I heard a story one time about a pizza delivery guy that took a bunch of pizzas to a big party and recieved zero tip. The next time that delivery guy delivered pizza to that same address, he took the time to pee a little on one of the pizzas. Since I heard that, I tip pizza delivery guys WELL!!! How do ya like it Johnny? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mattlcom 0 #17 July 11, 2003 Quote I would rather tip on the entire bill - but what if more than half your bill was 1 bottle of wine that took them all of a minute to present to you? Well, in that specific case, we had a full meal, were there for over five hours, and drank over a dozen bottles of $75 wine. That being said, it was a very GOOD restaurant, with the service always filling waters, getting fresh bread, etc. We tipped on the whole bill, but I wouldn't consider it average. Considering your mom's opinion, though, I have to disagree, since often the bartender(s) get a cut of the alcohol tab, therefore lowering your actual server's tip. -MattL--- "An intellectual snob is someone who can listen to the William Tell Overture and not think of The Lone Ranger." -- Dan Rather Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luv2Fall 0 #18 July 11, 2003 I gave a decent tip to a beautiful bartender over 17 years ago. Her stunning looks, perky personality, killer body and great service warranted (to me anyway) a hell of a tip. Well....................................................I stayed drunk on the house for a while and married her. Over 17 years later, sober (for the most part), and two teenaged sons, I have to say that tip was the best money I've spent. Good tipping can be dangerous LOL. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bkdice 0 #19 July 11, 2003 I disagreed with her too. Makes sense to tip on the whole bill in your case. For the most part, the really expensive wines cannot be afforded by me, so I don't really have to worry about tipping on a bill that is more than half a bottle of wine. Just wanted opinions. Like I said, I am ALL for showing appreciation for good service. Man, I'm getting hungry now... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
froglady 0 #20 July 11, 2003 "Tips are getting out of control. Every time I look, the "reasonable" tip has gone up a couple percent. Well, service hasn't gotten any better. The price of food has gone up, so that means the amount of the tip has gone up without increasing the percentage. " The service might not have changed but the cost of living has. Waiters/Waitresses are paid $2.13 per hour plus tips, that $2.13 hasn't changed in at leat 8 years. Most people get a cost of living raise every year or so, the increase in tips goes along with the cost of living increases. FrogLady Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jessd 0 #21 July 11, 2003 I tip well when I go out to eat or when I get food delivered to my house. I very rarely get things delivered to my house and I have never tipped them for it. After reading Skymama's post maybe I should start tipping the people at the airport. My luggage is huge and very heavy. "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #22 July 11, 2003 Quote"Tips are getting out of control. Every time I look, the "reasonable" tip has gone up a couple percent. Well, service hasn't gotten any better. The price of food has gone up, so that means the amount of the tip has gone up without increasing the percentage. " Here's the real problem. Instead of tips, businesses should be paying a real wage for their employees and eliminate tipping. It's very nice to go places where tipping isn't expected and it's kind of an insult. You don't worry about it (example - Thailand). In the meantime - I tip very well for good service. If there's bad service, tip is minimal/management is notified/we don't go there anymore. The free market works if we are direct about it. Disclosure - I used to deliver pizzas and my wife waited tables in a bar. We always got good tips. ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites bobsled92 0 #23 July 11, 2003 Tipping is part of Family Code of Ethics: #1: automatic 20% can be rounded up/not down #2: $1.00 min. even for a .60 cent coffee #3: do it CASH. it's their money-not the owners #4: at a Counrty Club give cash at side* the 18%gratuity that comes automatically, is already spread through taxes and the kitchen crew. #5: big money dinning=still 20% even when my tab came out to $4,200 (pre-plan party)_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites TitaniumLegs 8 #24 July 12, 2003 QuoteThe service might not have changed but the cost of living has. Waiters/Waitresses are paid $2.13 per hour plus tips, that $2.13 hasn't changed in at leat 8 years. Most people get a cost of living raise every year or so, the increase in tips goes along with the cost of living increases. Like I said, the cost of the food as gone up. At a constant percent tip, that means the tips go up as a function of food price. There's your raise. If we increase tip percent as well, you're getting a better raise than I am. (>o|-< If you don't believe me, ask me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Snowbird 0 #25 July 12, 2003 I tip for good service, and tip WELL for great service. I tip my hairdresser because she RAWKS! No one else, really, but then, I don't have a personal postie, I don't get the paper delivered, I don't use taxis, and I pack for myself. Anyone else gets paid the same or more as I ever did - when I did retail for minimum wage - and the best tip I ever got there was that I had something caught in my teeth. That said, I do believe that excellent service that goes above and beyond deserves appreciation, and for that I will do something suitable. Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea. -Robert A. Heinlein Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 Next Page 1 of 2 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
bobsled92 0 #23 July 11, 2003 Tipping is part of Family Code of Ethics: #1: automatic 20% can be rounded up/not down #2: $1.00 min. even for a .60 cent coffee #3: do it CASH. it's their money-not the owners #4: at a Counrty Club give cash at side* the 18%gratuity that comes automatically, is already spread through taxes and the kitchen crew. #5: big money dinning=still 20% even when my tab came out to $4,200 (pre-plan party)_______________________________ If I could be a Super Hero, I chose to be: "GRANT-A-CLAUS". and work 365 days a Year. http://www.hangout.no/speednews/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TitaniumLegs 8 #24 July 12, 2003 QuoteThe service might not have changed but the cost of living has. Waiters/Waitresses are paid $2.13 per hour plus tips, that $2.13 hasn't changed in at leat 8 years. Most people get a cost of living raise every year or so, the increase in tips goes along with the cost of living increases. Like I said, the cost of the food as gone up. At a constant percent tip, that means the tips go up as a function of food price. There's your raise. If we increase tip percent as well, you're getting a better raise than I am. (>o|-< If you don't believe me, ask me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snowbird 0 #25 July 12, 2003 I tip for good service, and tip WELL for great service. I tip my hairdresser because she RAWKS! No one else, really, but then, I don't have a personal postie, I don't get the paper delivered, I don't use taxis, and I pack for myself. Anyone else gets paid the same or more as I ever did - when I did retail for minimum wage - and the best tip I ever got there was that I had something caught in my teeth. That said, I do believe that excellent service that goes above and beyond deserves appreciation, and for that I will do something suitable. Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea. -Robert A. Heinlein Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites