Can someone explain women to me????????

[Dbriggs 0]

Check this out. I was going to be going out tonight with a girl I have been seeing kind of exclusivly. Well we had it all planned for tonight. I got home went riding for 2 hours and came home. I got home and she called me up. She wanted to go to a local country bar, I was all cool with it. Well I get a shower and get dressed. She calls again, "Umm David, I just got a call from my ex-boyfriend" yes you read right, ex-boyfriend, "I have decided to go out tonight with him cause I really missed him." Now I am trippin. She breaks up with him and now wants him back?????? How can someone say they love another person then decide that they want their ex back?????? I have sat and listened to her bitch so much about him and then all the sudden she flips around on me? I am confused. I thought I loved her now I think she is a dirty lil......4 letter word I will not type here. So here I am sitting on the comp trying to figure out what the heck I am going to do to help keep myself from going insane. I think thats why I love riding dirt bikes and working on cars sooooo much....they dont have feelings. If there is anyone out there who has had this similar situation happen to them all I ask you is what did you do??? Ok, well I am done whining for now. I love DZ.con

[tb62871 0]

NO. Noone can explain them to you. My answer to women ws always to work on cars and ride dirt bikes . Not nesicarially in that order. Do what makes you happy and sooner or later a girl will come into the picture and be cool with whatever you want to do. Thats the one you want to spend time with.

--TB
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[Shotgun 1]

Hey David, That's a bummer dude - sorry to hear it. Wish I could explain my gender to you, but I can't. (Ok, well I guess I can't explain men either ;-) All I can say is... we DO get better with age. But that probably doesn't help much right now... Anyhow, that wasn't very cool of her... so maybe there's someone better for you out there.

[Push 0]

Maybe that she will remember all the reasons she broke up with that ex of hers and come crawling back to you.

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[Dbriggs 0]

I am thinking a tast of her own medicine. Revenge is a bitch if your getting but giving it is ohhh soooo sweeet

[Push 0]

Giving her a shoulder to cry on may be sweeter. For her and for you.

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Skydiving is easy. All you have to do is relax while plummetting at 120 mph from 10,000' with nothing but some nylon and webbing to save you.

[tb62871 0]

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I am thinking a tast of her own medicine. Revenge is a bitch if your getting but giving it is ohhh soooo sweeet

Certianly you mean revenge is a Bytch. Don't you?

--TB
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[Dbriggs 0]

Why yes I do. Hmmmmm maybe I should consult the Bytch on this. Heh Heh Heh that girl will never be the same after she gets a taste of the Bytch's medicine

[happythoughts 0]

It's one set of rules for everyone. She established the emotional boudaries. You are the "fallback plan". You don't mean a whole lot to her. She comes to you if something better doesn't work out.

If she comes back, do the fair thing. Treat her with the emotional distance that she gives you. That way, no feeling hurt. Definitely wouldn't get too involved, bad news there.

When women are in their 20's, there is a guy every 100 ft down the road. They don't care. She dumped the ex and then brought him back for play time. She'll dump him again and then want you to provide the fun.

[Skymonkey13 0]

To explain that would be equivalent to predicting the exact day the world is going to end.

[rgoper 0]

it's sad, but true, women much like babies don't come with owner's manuels. i have yet to find a woman i can even begin to understand so i just go with the flow! good luck.

--Richard--
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To explain that would be equivalent to predicting the exact day the world is going to end.

A man is on a California beach and finds a bottle. He rubs it and a genie pops out. The genie will grant him one wish.

The man says that he has always wanted to go to Hawaii, but does not believe that flying is safe and boating worries him also. For his wish, he would like a highway to Hawaii, so that he could drive there.

The genie tells him that the ocean is very deep and it is very far to Hawaii. It would be an incredibly difficult engineering task to build, so he asks the man if he has another wish perhaps.

The man replies that his other wish would be to understand women. The genie scratches his head for a moment and then says, "How many lanes did you want your bridge to be?..."

[thethinker 0]

Alright brudda......man to man (yes I am openly admitting im a man, contrary to previous posts) Anyways, your asking someone to explain women....ill tell ya, along with many others, its not possible. I guess the main reason being, things that have explanation pose no controversy, which can become pretty boring. Since life would be completly pointless if everything was boring, women were created to be full of twists and turns just like we men. I just got out of a 3 year relationship...3 yrs!!!!! The girl was my life!!!! And tho its a bit different than your situation...i think it still has similarities. When we broke up, she told me how she didn't wanna talk to me, she didn't want to see me, (probably everything the girl you are talking about told u about her ex boyfriend)...until a few days ago when i heard my fone ring. Now....its I miss you, i love you....yadda yadda yadda. (yes i am long winded ill get to the point) Does yer head in! My point is, in my eyes, women need to feel wanted. Its why they read romance b/c they fall in love with the hero in the book. Once they know we are hooked, theyll push us away, only to see if we will come chasing after them. Their smart lil cookies Anyways, with the girl ya got. My advice would be this. If you love her, which you said you think u do...go with it. Try and maintain an open mind. Maybe after a night out with her ex, she will see wut she had, and will realize wut she has (you). And shell turn to you. If she she chooses to go back to him, its gonna be hard but, it just wasn't the right girl for ya. Women are smart, never forget that. To explain them....impossible. The moment u think u have them figured out, your thrown into a whirlwind. Best of luck to ya tho, hope she ain't a fool

We do not have to visit a madhouse to find disordered minds; our planet is the mental institution of the universe.
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. I just got out of a 3 year relationship...3 yrs!!!!! The girl was my life!!!! And tho its a bit different than your situation...i think it still has similarities.

Different... probably no restraining order.

[thethinker 0]

***.

Different... probably no restraining order.

[jtval 0]

D,

to Paraphrase Jack nicholason

when I desricbe a women I think of a man. then I remove "reason" and "accountability."

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[CrazyIvan 0]

A famous quote, from a great philosopher might shed some light:

"...Women...Can't live with 'em...can't kill 'em"

- Al Bundy

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[freeflir29 0]

My answer. Cut Away. Now! Why do you need the soap opera bullshit? I know I don't need it. I've got plenty already. If a chick wants to be with me that's great but leave the drama at the door.

[blondeflyer7 0]

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My answer. Cut Away. Now! Why do you need the soap opera bullshit? I know I don't need it. I've got plenty already. If a chick wants to be with me that's great but leave the drama at the door.

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[SadSue 0]

ummmmmmm

Why do you need the soap opera bullshit? I know I don't need it. I've got plenty already.


Yeah, I mean we have all the drama ye need right here hun!

Hope you don't get Banned!

[jtval 0]

D,
well you can always put your feelings away and use it for what it is! A bootie call!
jsut make sure she doesnt take it as any thing more or YOU ARE JSUT AS BAD as she is.

if she is truly confused...FORGET her.

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[freeflir29 0]

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~Clay's back, Clay's back~

Yes I am....and it feels good! I just spent about 30 minutes writing an email to her. We hung up Saturday morning on pretty bad terms. It didn't really need to be like that. I still think she is an awesome chick. We just wanted differen't things out of the relationship. It just didn't work out. No reason for hard feelings. I hope she finds what she is looking for.

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Yes I am....and it feels good!

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Glad to hear it

[feuergnom 29]

We#ll - seems like you're in for big trouble - unless you get your hands and Thought of that chick pretty quick! looks like total mal to me - so do what every skydiver does in that kinda situation – cut away & go for silver & get yourself another one. there's plenty o mothers with beautifull daughters

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[SkydiverRick 0]

The best revenge is to go out and have fun without her.

never pull low......unless you are