WTF was I thinkin?

[Galen 0]

Chick will do that. They're evil I tells ya.

Respect the Dolphin

[bbarnhouse 0]

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What's up with that

Well...lonliness is the path we take when we don't risk involvement.
Our lives are only as simple or as complicated as we chose to make them. Then again what do I know? I am the founder of the catch and release program....

[blondeflyer7 0]

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FUCK My life was so nice and simple before. Just work and skydiving. Now I have this girl that makes me act completely like a dumbass, What's up with that?

Thats it I agree with Kristen ....call her and get it over with....see what she has to say

[freeflir29 0]

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Well...lonliness is the path we take when we don't risk involvement.

Dammitt WOMAN...HUSH!!!!!!

[bbarnhouse 0]

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Dammitt WOMAN...HUSH!!!!!!

Well Clay it may take a lot of effort for you to get a long with me...but my brother we both know that my words are ringing strong and true. I'm going to hush now as you requested, but feel free to PM me .....

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Well Clay it may take a lot of effort for you to get a long with me...but my brother we both know that my words are ringing strong and true

Dammitt.... I hate it when women are right!!!

Thanks guys... just may call her back. If I can work up the nerve.

[AggieDave 6]

That's the funniest thing I've read all day!

--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline."

[Muenkel 0]

Is anyone else becoming more attracted to Clay right now?

Seriously dude, I'm not sure, but I think you should sleep on it. Those phone calls when all your emotions are in a line twist can make matters worse.

It's ideal to pull when stable.

Chris

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[AggieDave 6]

Its even better to pull on time, though...

Pull
Pull on time
Pull Stable

--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline."

[jessd 0]

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Our relationships give us the best opportunity to discover about ourselves! Yeah trust is always hard when one's heart has been stomped on. People bring us either gifts or lessons. If we are really lucky, sometimes....we get both.

Very well said and so true.

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away..."

[Muenkel 0]

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Its even better to pull on time, though...

Pull
Pull on time
Pull Stable

True, true!!!!

I just meant that it works best when you're stable. Clay's not losing altitude right now. He has time to get stable.

Chris

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[freeflir29 0]

I am soooo.....FUCKED.........I just talked to her on the phone. Why does this all have to be sooooo confusing?

[blondeflyer7 0]

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Its even better to pull on time, though...

Pull
Pull on time
Pull Stable

True, true!!!!

I just meant that it works best when you're stable. Clay's not losing altitude right now. He has time to get stable.

Hey you be nice I got that #.....hmmmm 3am...

[Muenkel 0]

Damn, my advice didn't get posted in time.

Clay, when new opportunities fail, it's best to go back to what is familiar. Now give Mary a call and see how her little lambs are doing.

Chris

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[freeflir29 0]

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when new opportunities fail, it's best to go back to what is familiar. Now give Mary a call and see how her little lambs are doing.

No doubt bro....so much easier......

[blewaway5 0]

Okay, this is gonna be a two part reply, so....

Part one. I can kinda sympathize. I've been playing the "I don't gove a shit" game for a long while now and I'm actually starting to want a real relationship. I don't know how to get that, and to be honest I'm not tryng too terribly hard, I figure if she's right I'll know it when she chases me down and beats me up side the head.

Part two. This is much more shallow, and for all I know, much more true to life. My favorite bartender always tells me this when I bitch about women. brace yourself for wisdom, cause here it comes..."Don't sweat the petty shit, pet the sweaty shit." Take that how you will, and I hope it all works out.

Truman Sparks for President

[freeflir29 0]

Pink-"I think I'll I get out of here...where I cn run. Just as fast as I can. To the middle of nowhere....."



Kinda my thoughts at the moment.

[n2skdvn 0]

Clay stick with the sheep!!!


hope ya get every thing figured out...(cut away)

if my calculations are correct SLINKY + ESCULATOR = EVERLASTING FUN
my site

[moodyskydiver 0]

I don't really have any good love/relationship advice for you,Clay. All my attempts at caring about someone have ended in total mals and I have the DTA attitude now too. Try to calm down,put your emotions and the situation in perspective and then do what you think you should. If that means working things out with someone you obviously care about, then rock on and more power to the both of you.If it means cutting away, then I wish you a safe landing that leaves you empowered to get back up and do it again.Best wishes.

"...just an earthbound misfit, I."

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Maybe it's a game....I don't know. Maybe she wanted you to know that she had a life aside of you and maybe she thought that you called her at the last minute and if you really thought she was important you would have made plans sooner???? Remember.....I'm only playing woman's point of view...

Ok...from a woman's point of view. Why can't you people just come out and say that? Instead of playing mind games.

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Why can't you people just come out and say that

From my experience, words aren't always heard. Why? probably because "exactly the right words" weren't picked.

Actions are louder.

Wendy W.

There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

[PhillyKev 0]

So not calling someone and dicking them over is a loud and clear statement that you really want to be with them but don't want them to think you're smothering them. Yeah...gotcha

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hope ya get every thing figured out...(cut away)

WTF knows....she called me back and made me tell her the truth...... We're still talking. I swear.....BASE jumping is less risky than this shit.

[FliegendeWolf 0]

Clay,

You know that you are well-loved - not just on the farm, but here on the forums, too. We'll be behind you no matter what you choose to do here. Best of luck and blue ones!

Steve

A One that Isn't Cold is Scarcely a One at All

[wmw999 2,453]

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So not calling someone and dicking them over is a loud and clear statement that you really want to be with them but don't want them to think you're smothering them

Well, after you've told them in words a few times, yes. Don't forget that people hear what they want to, and don't hear what they don't. Really. Sometimes the "I don't want to be smothered" was said. And sometimes it was said on a different day, and one actually expected the hearer to remember that.

Haven't been in this specific situation, but my boundaries are very close. So when I need room, I need it now. Some people begin to react when their boundaries are being approached from a distance. This can be a big problem between a couple of people.

Wendy W.

There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)