Sassy 0 #1 December 12, 2002 of this? My soon to be ex is so hateful and vindictive and determined to keep me from having anything of "His" that he's doing a voluntary repo on the car that I'm driving. I'm beginning to think he's gone of the deep end. A judge is gonna ove him. Geez...I just don't understand this. Methinks it time to go to court afterall. No more negotiations. Sorry...I needed to rant for a bit Sassy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,485 #2 December 12, 2002 Well, he's a dick. It makes him look like an idiot. But it'll hit his credit more than yours. Is it mostly just the hassle factor? When I got a divorce, I didn't get the best deal I could, but I came out with my self-respect intact. Worth every penny. Wendy W.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #3 December 12, 2002 kick him in the balls...(ouch did I just condone that?)...everytime you see him. sounds like a spiteful prick! My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy 0 #4 December 12, 2002 It's not so much the hassle. It's just having someone that I loved and lived with for 12 years hate me this much. I guess...I don't know. Maybe it's just the time of year. Is it January yet?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bwilling 0 #5 December 12, 2002 Quote I'm beginning to think he's gone off the deep end. A judge is gonna love him. He has. Somtimes divorce will do that to people... You should have been married to me... when my ex-wife divorced me, I pretty much gave her (well, and the KIDS) everthing...Had I known all that I know now at the time though, I probably wouldn't have been quite so accommodating...Good luck, and hang in there girl! "If all you ever do is all you ever did, then all you'll ever get is all you ever got." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DYEVOUT 0 #6 December 12, 2002 "kick him in the balls. . . . " ------------------------------------- Guys are NEVER supposed to say that. . . . . . . [cringes while reading post.] ----------------=8^)---------------------- "I think that was the wrong tennis court." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #7 December 12, 2002 Haaa....I gave my ex(and kids) the house. She said she wanted it. Well...within a month or so she moved in with her boyfriend. The house foreclosed within a year. Stupid bitch.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #8 December 12, 2002 I can honestly say that I have been there. My ex did everything possible to deny our children, take my vehicle, put me out of a house, have me sleep on the floor and devistate my credit. To think I lived with the bastard for 10 years and was actually faithful to him. PM me if you need to talk...I've got a good set of shoulders and ears. I can probably give you some guidance if you need it or want it. {{{HUGS}}} it will work out even though you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel yet. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #9 December 12, 2002 Oh..BTW....if the car is in his name, why doesn't he just take it? Why have it repo'd? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #10 December 12, 2002 Quote Haaa....I gave my ex(and kids) the house. She said she wanted it. Well...within a month or so she moved in with her boyfriend. The house foreclosed within a year. Stupid bitch.... The important thing is that you are not bitter. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy 0 #11 December 12, 2002 Thanks guys for the words. Lisa, thanks. My head knows it will get better but my heart is not there yet. They'll be at the same point someday. As for him just taking the car. We are still trying to negotiate a settlement. His attorney told him when we seperated in September to just keep paying for it and let me drive it until things get settled. I'm just ready for some stability. It's so stressful not knowing what the next phone call will bring. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #12 December 12, 2002 Quote The important thing is that you are not bitter. Only enough that I will have a huge smile on my face in October when I get custody of my son, she owes me about $10,000 in attorney fees, has to start paying me child support, and then I get to REALLY sue her. Yes..I will enjoy taking ALL the money she has now as well as 50% of anything her or her husband makes in the future. She really fucked with the wrong person..... I guess you could call me bitter.... I'm a really nice person....unless you fuck with me....I swear. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #13 December 12, 2002 QuoteI'm a really nice person....unless you fuck with me....I swear i can atest to the first part...don't want to see the second....... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
