jtval 0 #26 December 6, 2002 children and fam services? is that the same thing a sChild protective services? they told me that they wont give out my info but if it goes to court I would need to testify!My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
outofit 0 #27 December 6, 2002 i thought we had this discussion once before. i guess the bitch didn't move huh? It is better to be dead and cool than alive and uncool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #28 December 6, 2002 yes we did have this discussion....she calmed down for a while...either that or I slept though it. but everyday since thanksgiving...YELLING!!!!!!!! GRRRRR!My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pds 0 #29 December 6, 2002 neighborly bond? what is important here, jt? are you gossiping here or do you think that emotional abuse is less damaging than striking a child? come on brother, you know what is appropriate behaviour for an adult/parent. reach down and reassure yourself that you have a pair of cajones left, knock on that door and tell her what you told me. you don't owe her anything, you owe it to the kids who are going to grow up thinking this is normal. we see it around us everyday. you know what is right. make a difference and get personally involved. just let her know how you see it and how you are going to deal with it. no need for discussion or argument if you don't want it, that's up to you. this is just my take on the situation. it seems simple to me. please don't take offense as none is meant, i am just speaking to you as i would to someone i trust to hear me. take care, jt.namaste, motherfucker. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pds 0 #30 December 6, 2002 oops, i guess i should have read the whole thread. i just read your first and went off. this is something that i hold close. treat my post as if it were your first response and you will understand where i am coming from. where it sits now it loses a bit of value.namaste, motherfucker. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jasmin 0 #31 December 6, 2002 ooh sweety, no good. Kisses from downunder. Call cps. Getting hit by anyone, let alone family, is downright low. The tape recoder is a good idea, I highly recommend it as it moves it from a case of hearsay and word on word to fact. Don't let the bastards get you down. xj ps you got one coming in the mail... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #32 December 6, 2002 Quote oops, i guess i should have read the whole thread. i just read your first and went off. this is something that i hold close. treat my post as if it were your first response and you will understand where i am coming from. where it sits now it loses a bit of value. I was a little lost there, until I read your 2nd post. HAHA!I have been "monitoring" the situation and I decided it was time to call the CPS. I did send an anonymous letter to the lady; dont know if she got it. I really didnt want to get involved ona FIRST HAND basis. accessing the recurring problem ( I think she stopped for a while, but now I wonder if I just slept through it) I will prob'ly be contacted in the morning about this form CPS. if they deem it neccessary to remove the children I WILL TESTIFY. but until then I hope they can fix this problem SOON! I am not gossiping AND there is No offense taken My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites