jtval 0 #1 November 16, 2002 hire some women to beat the ever loving shit out of my nieghbor? she' is CONSTATNLY yelling at her kids. occasionally I think she beats them. I normally dont think its right for ANYONE to tell someone else how to raise their kids but she is getting a little too dangerous I think!! I am doing some searching for Child protective services. I will send her I nice little letter first if she doesnt calm the fuck down I may have a cruel christmas present for her!My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
christoofar 0 #2 November 16, 2002 Yeah that kinda freaked me out... your neighbor on your floor must be running a day care service, or she just dropped a litter of kids. It's like the Brady Bunch over there, except their all bastard children! ____________________________________________________________ I'm RICK JAMES! Fo shizzle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
outofit 0 #3 November 16, 2002 if that is the case u should take it upon yourself to notify the police or social services if u feel the children r being abused or neglected. It is better to be dead and cool than alive and uncool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #4 November 16, 2002 PPLLLLLEAAASE notify someone. Child abuse of ANY kind is unacceptable. While I don't agree w/ spanking...I wouldn't call on someone for spanking their child b/c some people believe it's a good disciplinary method and it's somewhat accepted. If she's going far beyond spanking, however, PLEASE call right away. This is something that could affect the kids for the rest of their lives. Children are innocent and if they've been treated that way for so long they might even believe it's the norm and OK to treat others that way as well. Use your best judgement and PLEASE call if you think there's something wrong going on. A caring and concerned neighbor is the best friend those children might have.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #5 November 16, 2002 Quoteif that is the case u should take it upon yourself to notify the police or social services if u feel the children r being abused or neglected. I disagree 100% with this comment. the FIRST route of action is to INfrom the person you are complianing about! I ALWAYS GIVE THEM A CHANCE before I call any authoriy. I have never had to call the police and it biuld your neighborly bond! but I do agree with "IT MUST STOP" theory. Chris, Im glad you noticed. I was curious if I was just cranky due to sleep deprivation! It kinda validates my concernMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AirMail 0 #6 November 16, 2002 Definitely. It shouldn't hurt to be a kid.-- It's never too late to have a happy childhood. Postal Rodriguez, Muff 3342 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #7 November 16, 2002 I am actaually writing a letter that may scare the shit out of her. because it will sound like she is being monitored. I dont want to even speak with this lady though! which goes against everything I stand for. I hate neighbor who call authorities nefore gving you a chance to fix the break in commuinication!My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jimbo 0 #8 November 16, 2002 QuoteI disagree 100% with this comment. the FIRST route of action is to INfrom the person you are complianing about! Uh, sure. So, if you saw a robbery in progress would you stop in and kindly inform the robbers that you thought what they were doing was wrong, or would you call the police? If you saw a big kid beating on a smaller kid, would you tell him that you saw it and know what's going on, or would you do something to stop it? If you knew that there were children in danger and the source of danger was their mother, would you call or would you...... Oh wait, I guess you've already decided. Don't fuck with kids. - Jim"Like" - The modern day comma Good bye, my friends. You are missed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jimbo 0 #9 November 16, 2002 QuoteI am actaually writing a letter that may scare the shit out of her. because it will sound like she is being monitored. I dont want to even speak with this lady though! which goes against everything I stand for. I hate neighbor who call authorities nefore gving you a chance to fix the break in commuinication! Dude. You write a letter when your neighbor rakes their leaves into your yard. You write a letter when when they have loud parties that keep you up all night. You write a letter when their dog pooped on your driveway. If this woman is beating her own children you owe it to the children to stand up and be their advocate as they currently have none. Do the right thing. - Jim"Like" - The modern day comma Good bye, my friends. You are missed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #10 November 16, 2002 um, in short...yes! I believe it is in everyone best interest to speak with the parent. she may not realize that she is being viewed as an abuser. sometime just the common courtesy of a converstaion can change the course of the future. I encourage anyone to get involved. this is what I do. speak to the person- give them one chance to identify the problem. if it persists I will take it to a higher source. I dont have kids but can you imagine that someday some investigation starts on YOU b/c some fukn neighbor thinks you were violent? would you not be pissed that he person didnt come talk to you? sometime you have to step put of your little box and get involved. this is the first step! and if a saw a robbery I would step in...Ive been there on more then on occasion! i wouldnt call the cops and wait. I try to stop the robbery and grab the scumbag while the other person is calling!My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jimbo 0 #11 November 16, 2002 QuoteI believe it is in everyone best interest to speak with the parent. she may not realize that she is being viewed as an abuser. sometime just the common courtesy of a converstaion can change the course of the future. I encourage anyone to get involved. this is what I do. Let's forget about the neighbor lady and think about the children. How would you feel if after your civil chit-chat with the neighbor lady she ended up actually physically injuring one of the children? QuoteI dont have kids but can you imagine that someday some investigation starts on YOU b/c some fukn neighbor thinks you were violent? would you not be pissed that he person didnt come talk to you? I would be thrilled if one of my neighbors got the wheels rolling on an investigation if they suspected I was abusing my children. No shit - I'm serious about that. When the parents aren't looking out for the children someone else needs to. Too often children are injured, killed, or emotionally fucked up because someone who could speak up, didn't. - Jim"Like" - The modern day comma Good bye, my friends. You are missed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #12 November 16, 2002 I dont think thier is pysical abuse there was ONE time that I thought she beat her kid. if I though she was beatin her kids on a regular basis I wouldnt hesitate to make the call. screaming on a regular basis is a different case and may be viewed as a noise oprdinance complaint not a child abuse case. so you can see why I wanna give this the proper handling.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #13 November 16, 2002 i'm with ya on the letter joe........ same subject idffrent take on it... i also hate when i get the cops called on me when a knock on my door would of taken care of the problem (loud music).... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #14 November 16, 2002 Quotei'm with ya on the letter joe........ same subject idffrent take on it... i also hate when i get the cops called on me when a knock on my door would of taken care of the problem (loud music).... thats EXACTLY what I am comparing this too. thanks!My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jimbo 0 #15 November 16, 2002 QuoteI dont think thier is pysical abuse there was ONE time that I thought she beat her kid. if I though she was beatin her kids on a regular basis I wouldnt hesitate to make the call. screaming on a regular basis is a different case and may be viewed as a noise oprdinance complaint not a child abuse case. so you can see why I wanna give this the proper handling. Agreed. I was under the impression that you had witnessed her beating her children. My bad. - Jim"Like" - The modern day comma Good bye, my friends. You are missed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #16 November 26, 2002 update: the yelling hasnt stopped but It did become less frequent! My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blondeflyer7 0 #17 November 26, 2002 Quote update: the yelling hasnt stopped but It did become less frequent! This is probably what happened....... "Shhh kids here he comes again"......."I TOLD YOU TO SHHH... just kiddin....keep a eye on her k... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #18 November 26, 2002 QuoteI disagree 100% with this comment. the FIRST route of action is to INfrom the person you are complianing about! I ALWAYS GIVE THEM A CHANCE before I call any authoriy. I have never had to call the police and it biuld your neighborly bond! Stick to your guns.... Rhino Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phatcat 0 #19 November 26, 2002 Because of anything you did? You called the cops right? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #20 November 26, 2002 QuoteBecause of anything you did? You called the cops right? \ NO, I shot the bitch in the foot! I send her a "concerned citizen" letter. which probably scared herwhen I mentioned the CPS! I felt I had to be annonymous so she would think Just one neightobr is being a pain in the ass! It worked!My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Casch 0 #21 November 26, 2002 I hope things are turning around but please don't hesitate to contact the authorities if it starts happening again. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QuickDraw 0 #22 November 26, 2002 How abaout using an old tape recorder every time she gets vocal ? Just say the date & time before you start recording etc. -- Hope you don't die. -- I'm fucking winning Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #23 November 26, 2002 after that shot to the foot I dont think ashe's gonna be yelling much anymore! My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #24 December 6, 2002 I am on the phone now with CPS! this lady has started up again. EVERYDAY since wednesday before thanksgiving! the land lord and the cops will be called shortly (Uncle bennie- if you would pm ne I would like to talk to you again)My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WFFC 1 #25 December 6, 2002 An anonymous call to the dept of children and family services will generally do the trick most of the time...unless you're in FL...They still have several hundred kids that they lost...----- ~~~Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
