StevieBoy 0 #1 November 3, 2002 Not too sure how to go about this, I cant seem to talk face to face with anybody at the mo because I get too chocked up, typing here is the best i can do. OUR baby (Lucas, in France LUKA) was born on 1st Oct but only lived for 12 min's, I remember standing outside a room hearing him cry, my body was pumping, pumping like nothing before, I knew he was too early but every second was a day for me, we took him to a fantastic place & scattered his ashes, the sun always sets on this place & every time the sun sets we will always remember him. GOOD NIGHT SON. SORRY TO PUT A DOWNER ON THIS SITE BUT WE HAD NOWHERE ELSE TO GO. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybytch 273 #2 November 3, 2002 My condolences Steve... losing a child has to be the worst thing ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JDBoston 0 #3 November 3, 2002 I'm very sorry for your loss. Joe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misskriss 0 #4 November 3, 2002 My prayers are with you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #5 November 3, 2002 Steve, I can't think of anything worse that you'll ever have to go through than losing a child. My sincere condolences.She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
f1freak 0 #6 November 3, 2002 Man, I am so sorry for you loss...HAVE FUN... ...JUST DONT DIE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StevieBoy 0 #7 November 3, 2002 thank you for your thoughts, he whould have loved the skies we play in.it deosn't mttaer waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is frist and lsat ltteer is at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bivar 0 #8 November 3, 2002 I'm very sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you. ---------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DickMcMahon 0 #9 November 3, 2002 Steve: Your post really got to me. My wife and I almost lost our little girl a long time ago when she was hit by a car. Fortunately she survived. We'll say some prayers for you at church this morning. ___________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Michele 1 #10 November 3, 2002 Steve - many hugs to you, and many thoughts and prayers sent your way. Bringing it here to skyfamily is also what this site is about. No need to apologize for it. Losing a child is the worst thing a person can be asked to handle, and we are here for you. I wish I had something I could say to take the pain away from you, but there isn't. All I can do is offer a shoulder should you need it. And remind you that Lucas is not gone, he is just not here. Smile for him, and laugh for him - he knows. Eternal blue skies for him, my friend, eternal blue skies for him... Hugs- Michele Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StevieBoy 0 #11 November 3, 2002 we'll still fight for another baby, tania will have to lay in bed for 6 months to insure a birth, others have gone through a lot worse, but I am very glad you people are here, THANK YOU. I have to go no now, clear blues all.it deosn't mttaer waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is frist and lsat ltteer is at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChileRelleno 0 #12 November 3, 2002 Our sincerest condolences to you and your mate... Having children I can in a nightmarish way imagine your loss. Peace and love be with you. >>>> ChileRelleno-Rodriguez Bro#414 Hellfish#511,MuffBro#3532,AnvilBro#9, D24868 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brisco 0 #13 November 3, 2002 Good vibes Stevie. Nothing will take the hurt away, but thanks just the same for sharing with us. Peace Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hooked 0 #14 November 3, 2002 I can only imagine the heartbreak you are going through. Having almost lost a son years ago, I still can only imagine losing a child. He will always be with you, in your hearts. If I could, I would take away your pain. A 'tear' for you and your wife for your loss. J -------------------------------------- Sometimes we're just being Humans.....But we're always Human Beings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,534 #15 November 3, 2002 I'm so sorry to hear about your son. You must be devastated. Everyone I know who has been through bed rest says it's hard, and SO worth it. Just remember to get her a computer, and tell her about dz.com, parentsplace.com, parentsoup.com -- many many boards to help make the days pass. And chocolate, but not too much ... Wendy W. There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StevieBoy 0 #16 November 4, 2002 "And chocolate, but not too much ... " I wish, :) thanks people. not sure I what to do now, jump or not, time will tell when I am ready, life is a little blurred at the moment, THANKS for your thoughts, I feel better for sharing my feelings here, they were getting to much for me to handel, I had to be strong for Tania & forgot about myself, writing this thread I cried very hard, such a loss. sunset loads to all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobsled92 0 #17 November 4, 2002 Thank you for sharing with all of us. We can listen to you and pray for things to come for you coping of this. If we can be there for you, listen to, in this way then thank you for trusting us enough to open up and reach out. Most of us could not cope with so much. My best friend and his wife visit the site of their child every day and are 1 year past with a second daughter due . All is well but, still... I wish I could do more but, I respect a broken heart that should be heard and be a friend to listen. You and your family will be in our prayers. -Grant Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #18 November 4, 2002 hey Stevie.... saw your name and though Wow long time no see.... was really cheerfull opening your thread.......but so sorry to hear that Lucas left you so quickly.... crying is good.... Take care Remi Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
