TheBile 0 #1 October 24, 2002 If I cared enough for a woman to want to go out with her, I wouldn't want her to go out with a bum like me. Any solutions ?Gerb I stir feelings in others they themselves don't understand. KA'CHOW ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DrunkMonkey 0 #2 October 24, 2002 Grow some self esteem: Get up, dust yourself off. Go to school (If you haven't already) Get a good job. (If you don't have one) Stop using drugs (if you do) Travel around--travelling helps you figure out who you are. Relax, be yourself All these steps help self esteem-you'll feel better about yourself, and not be a "Bum." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #3 October 24, 2002 Quote If I cared enough for a woman to want to go out with her, I wouldn't want her to go out with a bum like me. Any solutions ? Date men. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zennie 0 #4 October 24, 2002 Hrm, you're in a bit of a pickle there. I guess you could learn to go out with a woman you don't care for. But my guess is you probably aren't as much of a bum as you make yourself out to be. Find a chick who feels the same way about herself and you'll probably be on the right track. - Z "Always be yourself... unless you suck." - Joss Whedon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AggieDave 6 #5 October 24, 2002 I was alluding to this sort of problem, but in other parts of life in a post I made late last night ("Ramblings"). Solution? Get the buddies together, drink some beer then realize that you're better then you think and go date her! --"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TequilaGirl 0 #6 October 24, 2002 Well if she is a smart woman - she will realize you are a bum and dump you anyway........Give it a whirl and see what happens....... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #7 October 24, 2002 Quote If I cared enough for a woman to want to go out with her, I wouldn't want her to go out with a bum like me. Any solutions ? Lower your selection criteria. Date losers. There's someone for everyone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Airhead 0 #8 October 24, 2002 Honestly, Gerb! Listen to DrunkMonkey. He's got the right idea. Why are you so down on yourself? All along -so far- you seem like a clever, funny and thoughtfully insightful guy. And Hey...You gotta have a lot going for you, 'cause we skydivers like you ! -LILA. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #9 October 24, 2002 Quote Solution? Get the buddies together, drink some beer then realize that you're better then you think and go date her! Hell, yeah! If you think a woman is too good for you, you probably just don't know her. Get drunk, go talk to her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Push 0 #10 October 24, 2002 Don't be so hard on yourself. Anyone who can jump out of a plane at 12,500' and like it deserves respect Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cajones 0 #11 October 24, 2002 Watch a few episodes of Jerry Springer. The laws of physics are strictly enforced. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Airhead 0 #12 October 24, 2002 So what exactly is the problem? If you give more specifics, maybe you can get some good ideas from the DZ.com crowd. How about some in-put from us women out here, too? Come on Gerb.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #13 October 24, 2002 Not the solution Cajones as then he would want to kill himself! -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyhi 24 #14 October 24, 2002 QuoteNot the solution Cajones as then he would want to kill himself! Wrong show, Lisa. You're thinking of Dr. Phil. Someone of much greater depth than you or I said it best many years ago: "Why would I want to join any club which would have me as a member?" Groucho MarxShit happens. And it usually happens because of physics. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #15 October 24, 2002 ""Why would I want to join any club which would have me as a member?" People compare their insides to everyone elses outsides.You are out having fun and see a smiling, happy person. You think they are always smiling and happy with no problems. Wrong. They are just the same as you. Get drunk, go up, talk to them. If they like you, they may date you or hook you up with their friend. Talk to everyone. Have a good time, someone will like you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #16 October 24, 2002 I'm sure you can find some materialistic whuffo chick who'll treat you like shit. I really wouldn't think it'd be that hard! Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pablito 0 #17 October 24, 2002 Dude, Don't give a shit. Go talk to her, have fun and done pressure yourself. If you make a false you to go you are screwed. Just be yourself. I'm the worst to go out on a date because I don't play the game you Americans Play!!!!! it sucks its to fucking complicated. I forgot be honest You can do it!!!!!! Suerte El doctor Pablito "If you don't overcome your fears they will overcome you first" Shady Monkey/6Segundos Rodriguez/AKA Pablito Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
