JumpNFly 0 #1 October 14, 2002 Shit shit shit... so things were finally starting to settle down with my life, adn WHAM something else has to smack me right in the ass... the girl that I've been living with, well her boyfriend decided to move in... she say's very casually, oh, but you can still stay here if you want too... BULLSHIT... now I have 2 damn weeks to find a freaking place to live, and I do'nt want to dump this on my boyfriend because I don't want him to have me move back in because he feels guilty... what the hell am I goign to do... Anyone in the Central Jersey area need a roommate? The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nws01 0 #2 October 14, 2002 You should move to Boston! You could live with me! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #3 October 14, 2002 can you move my job and my boyfriend too... shit this sucks The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #4 October 14, 2002 Sorry to hear it G. If you ever make it down to TX I'll have a place for ya to crash, but I'm no where near NJ. Hope things start looking up for ya soon chick! "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nws01 0 #5 October 14, 2002 This is just another chapter of life. Don't stress. It will work out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dropdeded 0 #6 October 14, 2002 Gotta agree with"It will work out".Wont be long and you will be sayin,"damn Im glad that happened" hang in there dropdeded------------------------------------------ The Dude Abides. - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #7 October 14, 2002 just doesn't seem like this is ever going to work out, everytime things start going well, they get all messed up again. shit... just shit... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
outofit 0 #8 October 14, 2002 let us see a pic before we make a determination. It is better to be dead and cool than alive and uncool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #9 October 14, 2002 haha, there's one of me somewhere around here... not sure where though... this sucks, what the hell am I going to do? The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #10 October 14, 2002 Quote just doesn't seem like this is ever going to work out, everytime things start going well, they get all messed up again. shit... just shit... That's pretty much how life works... Keep your chin up....this will blow over. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #11 October 14, 2002 been trying my ass off to keep my chin up and think positive about this, but it just isn't working anymore... dude, I totally feel like giving up... I"ve always been a fighter, but I feel like I"m fighting a losing battle, nothing is going right... NOTHING! i can't stand to live in a situation like this, but I don't want to compromise my relationship because I'm being pushy about moving back in together when we just decided to not live together, but I DO"NT HAVE a place to go.... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #12 October 14, 2002 Quote I don't want to compromise my relationship because I'm being pushy about moving back in together when we just decided to not live together You could always just stay in your own room. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #13 October 14, 2002 You've heard the expression "the grass is always greener on the other side," right? It often seems like others' lives go along so easily while mine always seems like one huge obstacle/disappointment after the next. But I realized we all have difficult crap in our lives, we just handle it differently. People who meet me think I am always so happy and perky my life must be perfect. I've even heard em say "I wish I could just play in the sky all the time without a care in the world." Not a care in the world? Let me just recap my last year: freefall collision (bruised lung, 2 broken ribs, nerve damage in arm, trauma to stomach, diaphragm and intestines and almost completely severed tongue); 2 weeks later was 9/11; 2 weeks later decided to get a divorce, 6 weeks later moved to a new place where I knew no one and had virtually no work at all; 2 months later shattered leg the day before I was supposed to go to Salt Lake to work the olympics so still no more work; 2 months later dumped by boyfriend by email (ugh - so tacky!); 3 weeks ago cutaway from current miserable job so unemployed again. My point isn't that my life is worse than yours. I have no idea all the details of your life. And despite all the above CRAP I've dealt with, it has been the best year of my life. I've learned so much and grown so much and am so grateful that the first accident didn't kill me, my leg has miraculously had a 100% recovery, I know I can always pitch a tent on a dz and live almost free if I have to, I have more wonderful caring friends than I've ever had in my life! All the shit life throws at you is an opportunity for growth. You just may find yourself in a new home that makes your heart happy that you would have never found had your roomie not booted you. So make the most of it and thank God you have it as good as you do. You do have it good, even if you don't know it! Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #14 October 14, 2002 Dove, you are one awesome chick. I wanna see your tongue at the boogie!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skyrose7 0 #15 October 14, 2002 geez, you are one tough woman. It is great to see someone have such a positive outlook on life. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The mind is like a parachute--it works better when it is open. JUMP. MaryRose Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #16 October 14, 2002 I'll show you my tongue if you show me your shocker!Thanks guys.... it was much easier to get through it all having you guys to laugh at and to support me too. Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nws01 0 #17 October 14, 2002 We love you Dove. Some people like want to LOVE you if you will let me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
