dove 0 #26 October 14, 2002 Quote ya us nice guys always get overlooked and then the women complain when they can't find a decent guy.............................. oh hey Amber, hey Dove! SOLD! To the little white bird with the big grin! Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SudsyFist 0 #27 October 14, 2002 Quote SOLD! To the little white bird with the big grin! now viking... THAT'S YOUR CUE!!! steve Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #28 October 14, 2002 and you don't have to abandon the nice guy thing to be a bit aggressive. in fact, i'd bet it's quite the attractive combination... ladies, whaddyall think? ----------- Understand your point, I do...but difficult balance to find, it is... :) -S_____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #29 October 14, 2002 sold like a cucumber at the market............you gonna use me like one too. I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blackwidow 0 #30 October 14, 2002 If you are going to complain about length, don't read this. Nice guys do not finish last, not if they know when to say when. The right mix of treating good people good, and pissing on assholes might just be better than just plain being a nice guy. I also assume this is about some girl. I don't know why a lot of women are wired this way, but there is such a thing as too "nice", however I believe there is not such a thing as too "romantic", or to "exciting", or to "spontaneous", etc. All good qualities that are just "nice" with a different sound. I have learned that like a person needs to earn trust, a relationship also has to earn the right for niceness, if that makes any sense. I tend to think of things econimically, and when people date, they are measuring the value of themselves versus the value of the other person (looks, intelligence, skills, etc.). If you are too nice, they are like a person buying a car where the car salesperson can't be firm on a price, they think they have room to barter; and barter = treat you like shit, and go elsewhere. I think women should be treated with respect and honesty. But I also think that the tone of respect and honesty changes over time, i.e. don't let your emotional guard down until the person it is for is even worth it. I am more happily married than I would have ever thought was possible. But I will tell you that we played our share of games six years ago. I tried being the nice guy early on when we first dated, and all I got was the "you'd make a good friend" ploy, and "being a friend" sucks! So, at least for a little while, I stopped being "nice". Sorry about the rambling. Rent "Office Space", the movie; trust me. Park in your bosses parking space, keep your damned stapler, and get the girl. F$#k, as long as we have rigs on our backs and planes to jump out of, things are looking up. My 2 cents,BJ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #31 October 14, 2002 Really good points...I appreciate the input. -S_____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #32 October 14, 2002 Quote sold like a cucumber at the market............you gonna use me like one too. Absolutely. I am gonna eat you up! Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
outofit 0 #33 October 14, 2002 what r u a drug rep or a psychologist? It is better to be dead and cool than alive and uncool! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #34 October 14, 2002 well i hope you like your cucumber long and thick I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dove 0 #35 October 14, 2002 It's all about THICK! I have a very green thumb too - great at making veggies grow!Your garden or mine, sweetie? Fall in dove. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #36 October 14, 2002 Quote It's all about THICK! well aren't you the lucky gardnerI swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #37 October 14, 2002 Sounds like someone has been to a Tony Robbins seminar. ---------------- Um, if anyone ever sees me at, going to, or coming from a Tony Robbins seminar...please take my life and use this post as evidence in any court proceedings which may follow. :) -S_____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #38 October 14, 2002 QuoteNice guys finish last... Hmmm... well first of all, you have to decide whether or not your really are a nice guy. If you are hanging out with a chick mostly because you're hoping to get laid, then that doesn't really make you a nice guy, IMHO, and if you end up not getting any - well tough luck - join the millions of other horny dudes who are not getting any at this moment... If you're actually looking for someone to spend your life with, then you should just be yourself, nice or not, and the right person will eventually come along and will recognize you for who you are. I personally tend to date the more assholish types when I'm looking to stay single for a while, but only those who are openly assholish ;-) So that I don't have to worry about too many "feelings" getting involved. But if I find someone who I actually want to have a relationship with, it is someone who is honest with me and who treats me like I expect to be treated - someone who I would consider to be a "nice guy". So if your definition of finishing last is "not getting laid as much as the next dude" then yes, nice guys probably do finish last. But if that is your definition, then you're not really a nice guy anyway so don't worry about it ;-) Anyhow, sorry you had a bad day dude... Hope it's all better now :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Luminous 0 #39 October 14, 2002 "The cornholings will continue until moral improves!" 'In an insane society a sane person seems insane.' Mr. Spock Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
meatmissile 0 #40 October 14, 2002 What is a cornholing? -- ZZZzzzz.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #41 October 14, 2002 Hmmm... well first of all, you have to decide whether or not your really are a nice guy. ============ Well, not saying that I am the greatest, nicest guy that has ever lived, but in relationship terms, I seem to be what you would call the stereotypical nice guy. ========================== If you are hanging out with a chick mostly because you're hoping to get laid, then that doesn't really make you a nice guy, IMHO ======================= I agree...this was definitely not the case. -S PS - I hate you. _____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shark 0 #42 October 14, 2002 Dude, Weren't you at the Chicks Rock boogie??? There was a lot of talent there and I was abused...and loved it.Shark Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #43 October 14, 2002 Oh I'm sorry... since I only ever see you at work, I was not aware of this "nice guy" side of you ;-) Besides, nice guys don't hate people ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #44 October 14, 2002 Besides, nice guys don't hate people ;-) ------------- You may have a point...you're just such a bitch, though. :-p -S PS - *waiting for her to walk over to my desk and kick my ass* :)_____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sebazz1 2 #45 October 14, 2002 Just for the record everyone... I happen to know for a fact that SBS is a total dick!! He's not a "nice guy" at all Steve you dickhead!! Hahahahaha... He hates people and treats other nice people really really REALLY bad... I bet the Bytch thinks he's a dick too!! I am sorry Steve I thought a little reverse niceness would cheer you up... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nws01 0 #46 October 14, 2002 Yeah, well, Sebazz you SUCK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #47 October 14, 2002 Thank you for the effort. -S _____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mccordia 74 #48 October 14, 2002 Would just like to second the first statement. Nice guys always finish last (when it comes to relations) But for some reasons most nice girls I know have total a**holes as friends, who treat them like shit, and they know it, complain about it, but for some reason, put up with all the crap.. So nice guys end up alone, and nice girls end up with a**holes...what kind of a sick world do we live in?? p.s. All-round, friendly, good looking, multi talented (modest?) nice guy open for serious offers from nice girls..anyone...anyone........ (and after the echo's die down, there is only a long...long silence as an anwer:)JC FlyLikeBrick I'm an Athlete? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
