DrunkMonkey 0 #26 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuoteoh why, can't I find a guy that is a good mix of both "nice guy" and "bad boy"? Ok--I've lurked for over 6 months, just waiting for a place to chime in... The whole "Bad Boy" thing-It seems that most girls look at the bad boy like guys look at models-fun to catch a ride on during the weekends, fun to show off to their friends, but completely impractical in the long haul--kinda like a Ferrari. What always amuses me is that I know several women who suffer under the delusion that hanging out with/banging the Bad Boy will somehow make them a "Bad Girl" by proxy. Kinda pathetic when you think about it. But in the end, I completely believe in Karma--she dates the a$$hole, she'll get what she deserves, i.e. used up and promptly discarded. To change the Bad Boy into something that he isn't seems to be some estrogen-fueled delusion. Now, I have tried to be the bad boy, it is more transparent than plastic wrap. I am proud to say that I am a "nice guy." If that's "boring" to some women, fine-f**k off. Go catch the clap from Billy Badass, I'll be there later, disease free, to laugh my a$$ off. I'm a nice guy who in only 25 years, has graduated with a BA in 3.5 years, served his country, become both a Scuba diver and Skydiver, traveled all over the world, and watched some really freaky s**t go down. I have little stomach for immaturity. I can be childlike without being childish. I can see the world with the eyes of a child, while at the same time counterbalancing that with the lessons learned over my lifetime so far. I am ready for some woman to get all the dumb shit out of her system, so she can not wonder what she missed. Better yet, someone who doesn't feel the need to get the kind of "life experience' that necessitiates a visit to the VD clinic the next day. Money is not a goal, but merely a means to an end. Real women are welcome to share in my trip thru life. The only guarantee is it will be fun, definately not boring. Blue Skies, DrunkMonkey (Replies Welcome) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #27 October 4, 2002 Quote The only guarantee is it will be fun Not so sure about that. You seem a bit...."Serious" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites TequilaGirl 0 #28 October 4, 2002 How can he be serious when his screen name is DrunkMonkey........ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #29 October 4, 2002 Quote I'm just taking it from personnal experience. If there are women out there who can apprectiate nice guys who treat them with a little respect and still like to have fun, then this is not met for you. I guess a lot of it could be the age group of these women. I date nice guys and nice guys ONLY! I'm atracted to sense of humor before ANYTHING else b/c I love to laugh and I'm a goofy girl. I don't see why some women go for the bad boy who will treat them like shit. At a bar, I don't want some one-liner idiot to come on to me. A simple catch of the eye or smile will do. If you let me be, and I'm interested, chances are, I will come to you. After that, I like the guy to do the chasing. Point is...a girl who thinks you're too nice is either saying so because she's not interested or she has absoultly no self esteem and appreciates men who will treat her like crap. I am a beautiful creature and I enjoy men who treat me like one, and VICE VERSA! It works both ways...boys, don't take crap from idiot girls who are full of themselves either. Truth is, no matter how beautiful, there is no such girl who can truly have "any guy they want." Most guys just want that girl for a good lay and then move on. Don't ever sell yourselves short. Don't worry about being too nice or not nice enough...just be yourslef and appreciate the girl who likes you just the way you are. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites SpeedRacer 1 #30 October 4, 2002 where is that quote....hmmm...oh, here it is: A "Nice Guy" is on a womans shopping list going into the social marketplace, but he's not in the cart going out... Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #31 October 4, 2002 Quote just be yourslef and appreciate the girl who likes you just the way you are. Haaa....the exact reason I don't date much.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #32 October 4, 2002 Hey, I hear you...I never did either. I was always too girlie for some guys, not girlie enough for others, too independant here, not naive enough there. Some guys might have took my not dating hardly the wrong way, but I just figure I know what I like. My friends have always been all guys, but I rarely dated. Then I met my boyfriend, and snatched him right up. He didn't stand a chance. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #33 October 4, 2002 Quote snatched him right up. Yeah....That's what I need. Usually women have to clock me over the head before I realize they like me. I'm soooooo horrible at this mating ritual thing.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites kinney29 0 #34 October 4, 2002 I'm in love with you already PLF Go Big or Go Home Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites kinney29 0 #35 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuotesnatched him right up. Usually women have to clock me over the head before I realize they like me.reply] I know the feeling. I'm thinking that this girl is nice and were friendly with each other and all. And of course as usual I'm nice to her. She takes it the wrong way and thinks I'm atracted to her, then she finds out I'm not. It's never good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #36 October 4, 2002 QuoteOf course after i marry HH i won't be dating anyone anymore. I am jealous7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #37 October 4, 2002 Ha ha ha...well, I would have been your kinda girl then, if I hadn't already clocked my man over the head. Once he made me laugh until my eyes watered and no sound came out, I knew I had to turn on the charm. Once I did that...he didn't stand a chance..ha ha ha. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #38 October 4, 2002 QuoteI'm getting sick of women who tell me that I'm too nice. Then if I act a little selfish sometime they say I'm being an a$$hole. WTF! Mabey some of the ladies out there can tell me how a guy can be too nice. My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. I think girls appreciate that the most. And they can generally tell if you are putting on a front or not.7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #39 October 4, 2002 It's usually the other way around for me. A chick really likes me....but I don't catch on to the "signals" This chick that cuts my hair didn't leave much doubt that she is interested in me the other day. Of course...like an idiot I walked away without asking her out. *Grow Hair!!! Grow like the wind!!!* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JumpNFly 0 #40 October 4, 2002 like I tell all of my guy friends, when you find the right one, you'll just know... girls like nice guys... just have to find her... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildblue 7 #41 October 4, 2002 QuoteI am jealous You really think HH is your type?it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #42 October 4, 2002 Quote My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. But what if you're an ass naturally? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites DrunkMonkey 0 #43 October 4, 2002 Quotegirls like nice guys.... I'm calling BS on that one. Most women I've met like that little punk badass who treats them like sh!t. They say they like one thing and go for/home with another. Nice guys finish DEAD LAST. Ladies/Gents, if you belive that they don't, you're deluding yourself. It looks like this: Nice guys= a Chevy Cavalier--reliable & kinda fun. Bad Boys= a Convertible Ferrari--what women seem to want in their 20s/early 30's. So why should nice guys even want to associate with these women, as they're "settling" with the nice guy, when they lust for the bad boy? As I said earlier, let Karma take care of things: Let them party/bang the bad boy--they'll get what they deserve, i.e. used and discarded/a disease, and then when they are looking for the nice guy, the nice guy can say "no thanks- I'm not going to be what you 'settle' for." (sorry to be so venemous, I've been recently dumped, and I'm looking at $2000 in car repairs) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites WFFC 1 #44 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuotegirls like nice guys.... I'm calling BS on that one. Most women I've met like that little punk badass who treats them like sh!t. They say they like one thing and go for/home with another. Nice guys finish DEAD LAST. Ladies/Gents, if you belive that they don't, you're deluding yourself. It looks like this: Nice guys= a Chevy Cavalier--reliable & kinda fun. Bad Boys= a Convertible Ferrari--what women seem to want in their 20s/early 30's. So why should nice guys even want to associate with these women, as they're "settling" with the nice guy, when they lust for the bad boy? As I said earlier, let Karma take care of things: Let them party/bang the bad boy--they'll get what they deserve, i.e. used and discarded/a disease, and then when they are looking for the nice guy, the nice guy can say "no thanks- I'm not going to be what you 'settle' for." Quote I'll agree with most of what you have here and say that there are some women that I've dated that left me for the badass/dipshit with no direction other than starting fights and treating the ex's ultimately like shit. Ran into an ex a couple years ago when I was home visiting the parents. Ended up having dinner with her and trying to figure out what went wrong. Her final conclusion that she'd had in her head the entire time? She was being dumb and thought that the guy who treated her like dog food, and the 2 others after that, and the one she married who still treated her the same way as the rest could be changed. WRONG! Strike one up for the nice guy that now gets a call from her once a year now asking if I want to get back together with her if she gets divorced!!! Sorry...You should have listened to what was in your heart and not your friends made up head...----- ~~~Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #45 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuoteI am jealous You really think HH is your type? LMAO7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #46 October 4, 2002 Quote Quote My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. But what if you're an ass naturally? Then do it well.7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mouth 0 #47 October 4, 2002 Bad life???? Trust me, you will get over the feelings of hurt and realize not ever female is terrible. It may take awhile but some chick will sweep you off your feet (or snatch you up in Carrie's words) and you will realize there was at least one that was wonderful in your eyes. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites gale 0 #48 October 4, 2002 Wow. Nice dissertation. It sounds like you're someone worth being around. I honestly think very few guys your age have that kind of maturity. I hope you find someone wonderful who appriciates it. It's not about being "nice" or "bad". If some girl gives you a cavelier answer like that she doesn't sounds like much of a person anyway. It's about being yourself - trite and overused, I know. But I am now in a relationship that proves it. It's the most relaxed relationship I've ever had, it's also the best. I'm myself, he's himself. And for the record - he's a "nice guy". If you feel like all your macho friends get these "great women" understand that they're probably not all that great to begin with. The issues that lead them to dating bad boys would probably not make you happy. Be happy with yourself, the rest will come. GaleI'm drowning...so come inside Welcome to my...dirty mind Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #49 October 4, 2002 Quote Then do it well. Oh I do.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #50 October 4, 2002 Ouch! Hmmm...actually girls do like the nice guys, just not when they are searching for the bad ones. If they go out looking for a quickie, then the "committment" gets eliminated and the number of choices increases. A quickie with a hot guy is fun short-term, but the ego gets stomped tomorrow. The nice guy complains about rejection, but he rejects a few "nice" girls because of their looks also. (They don't consider that they do it too.) Ever notice guys who only hug or talk to girls they want to hit on? Solution? There isn't just "bad", "nice". There is nice-boring, nice-fun, bad-jerk, bad-fun. Try being the nice-fun guy. No party to go to? Throw one. Buy a keg, invite all your dz buds (guys and girls). Most towns have a "things to do" paper. Do a new one every week, even if some may seem dull at first. Invite friends to go along. Set it up. Be the "fun" nice guy. The "bad" guy get more short-term action, but he has no friends who are girls and that sucks. He misses a lot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. 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freeflir29 0 #27 October 4, 2002 Quote The only guarantee is it will be fun Not so sure about that. You seem a bit...."Serious" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TequilaGirl 0 #28 October 4, 2002 How can he be serious when his screen name is DrunkMonkey........ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #29 October 4, 2002 Quote I'm just taking it from personnal experience. If there are women out there who can apprectiate nice guys who treat them with a little respect and still like to have fun, then this is not met for you. I guess a lot of it could be the age group of these women. I date nice guys and nice guys ONLY! I'm atracted to sense of humor before ANYTHING else b/c I love to laugh and I'm a goofy girl. I don't see why some women go for the bad boy who will treat them like shit. At a bar, I don't want some one-liner idiot to come on to me. A simple catch of the eye or smile will do. If you let me be, and I'm interested, chances are, I will come to you. After that, I like the guy to do the chasing. Point is...a girl who thinks you're too nice is either saying so because she's not interested or she has absoultly no self esteem and appreciates men who will treat her like crap. I am a beautiful creature and I enjoy men who treat me like one, and VICE VERSA! It works both ways...boys, don't take crap from idiot girls who are full of themselves either. Truth is, no matter how beautiful, there is no such girl who can truly have "any guy they want." Most guys just want that girl for a good lay and then move on. Don't ever sell yourselves short. Don't worry about being too nice or not nice enough...just be yourslef and appreciate the girl who likes you just the way you are. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SpeedRacer 1 #30 October 4, 2002 where is that quote....hmmm...oh, here it is: A "Nice Guy" is on a womans shopping list going into the social marketplace, but he's not in the cart going out... Speed Racer -------------------------------------------------- Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #31 October 4, 2002 Quote just be yourslef and appreciate the girl who likes you just the way you are. Haaa....the exact reason I don't date much.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #32 October 4, 2002 Hey, I hear you...I never did either. I was always too girlie for some guys, not girlie enough for others, too independant here, not naive enough there. Some guys might have took my not dating hardly the wrong way, but I just figure I know what I like. My friends have always been all guys, but I rarely dated. Then I met my boyfriend, and snatched him right up. He didn't stand a chance. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #33 October 4, 2002 Quote snatched him right up. Yeah....That's what I need. Usually women have to clock me over the head before I realize they like me. I'm soooooo horrible at this mating ritual thing.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kinney29 0 #34 October 4, 2002 I'm in love with you already PLF Go Big or Go Home Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kinney29 0 #35 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuotesnatched him right up. Usually women have to clock me over the head before I realize they like me.reply] I know the feeling. I'm thinking that this girl is nice and were friendly with each other and all. And of course as usual I'm nice to her. She takes it the wrong way and thinks I'm atracted to her, then she finds out I'm not. It's never good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #36 October 4, 2002 QuoteOf course after i marry HH i won't be dating anyone anymore. I am jealous7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PLFXpert 0 #37 October 4, 2002 Ha ha ha...well, I would have been your kinda girl then, if I hadn't already clocked my man over the head. Once he made me laugh until my eyes watered and no sound came out, I knew I had to turn on the charm. Once I did that...he didn't stand a chance..ha ha ha. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #38 October 4, 2002 QuoteI'm getting sick of women who tell me that I'm too nice. Then if I act a little selfish sometime they say I'm being an a$$hole. WTF! Mabey some of the ladies out there can tell me how a guy can be too nice. My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. I think girls appreciate that the most. And they can generally tell if you are putting on a front or not.7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #39 October 4, 2002 It's usually the other way around for me. A chick really likes me....but I don't catch on to the "signals" This chick that cuts my hair didn't leave much doubt that she is interested in me the other day. Of course...like an idiot I walked away without asking her out. *Grow Hair!!! Grow like the wind!!!* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites JumpNFly 0 #40 October 4, 2002 like I tell all of my guy friends, when you find the right one, you'll just know... girls like nice guys... just have to find her... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites wildblue 7 #41 October 4, 2002 QuoteI am jealous You really think HH is your type?it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #42 October 4, 2002 Quote My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. But what if you're an ass naturally? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites DrunkMonkey 0 #43 October 4, 2002 Quotegirls like nice guys.... I'm calling BS on that one. Most women I've met like that little punk badass who treats them like sh!t. They say they like one thing and go for/home with another. Nice guys finish DEAD LAST. Ladies/Gents, if you belive that they don't, you're deluding yourself. It looks like this: Nice guys= a Chevy Cavalier--reliable & kinda fun. Bad Boys= a Convertible Ferrari--what women seem to want in their 20s/early 30's. So why should nice guys even want to associate with these women, as they're "settling" with the nice guy, when they lust for the bad boy? As I said earlier, let Karma take care of things: Let them party/bang the bad boy--they'll get what they deserve, i.e. used and discarded/a disease, and then when they are looking for the nice guy, the nice guy can say "no thanks- I'm not going to be what you 'settle' for." (sorry to be so venemous, I've been recently dumped, and I'm looking at $2000 in car repairs) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites WFFC 1 #44 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuotegirls like nice guys.... I'm calling BS on that one. Most women I've met like that little punk badass who treats them like sh!t. They say they like one thing and go for/home with another. Nice guys finish DEAD LAST. Ladies/Gents, if you belive that they don't, you're deluding yourself. It looks like this: Nice guys= a Chevy Cavalier--reliable & kinda fun. Bad Boys= a Convertible Ferrari--what women seem to want in their 20s/early 30's. So why should nice guys even want to associate with these women, as they're "settling" with the nice guy, when they lust for the bad boy? As I said earlier, let Karma take care of things: Let them party/bang the bad boy--they'll get what they deserve, i.e. used and discarded/a disease, and then when they are looking for the nice guy, the nice guy can say "no thanks- I'm not going to be what you 'settle' for." Quote I'll agree with most of what you have here and say that there are some women that I've dated that left me for the badass/dipshit with no direction other than starting fights and treating the ex's ultimately like shit. Ran into an ex a couple years ago when I was home visiting the parents. Ended up having dinner with her and trying to figure out what went wrong. Her final conclusion that she'd had in her head the entire time? She was being dumb and thought that the guy who treated her like dog food, and the 2 others after that, and the one she married who still treated her the same way as the rest could be changed. WRONG! Strike one up for the nice guy that now gets a call from her once a year now asking if I want to get back together with her if she gets divorced!!! Sorry...You should have listened to what was in your heart and not your friends made up head...----- ~~~Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #45 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuoteI am jealous You really think HH is your type? LMAO7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #46 October 4, 2002 Quote Quote My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. But what if you're an ass naturally? Then do it well.7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mouth 0 #47 October 4, 2002 Bad life???? Trust me, you will get over the feelings of hurt and realize not ever female is terrible. It may take awhile but some chick will sweep you off your feet (or snatch you up in Carrie's words) and you will realize there was at least one that was wonderful in your eyes. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites gale 0 #48 October 4, 2002 Wow. Nice dissertation. It sounds like you're someone worth being around. I honestly think very few guys your age have that kind of maturity. I hope you find someone wonderful who appriciates it. It's not about being "nice" or "bad". If some girl gives you a cavelier answer like that she doesn't sounds like much of a person anyway. It's about being yourself - trite and overused, I know. But I am now in a relationship that proves it. It's the most relaxed relationship I've ever had, it's also the best. I'm myself, he's himself. And for the record - he's a "nice guy". If you feel like all your macho friends get these "great women" understand that they're probably not all that great to begin with. The issues that lead them to dating bad boys would probably not make you happy. Be happy with yourself, the rest will come. GaleI'm drowning...so come inside Welcome to my...dirty mind Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #49 October 4, 2002 Quote Then do it well. Oh I do.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #50 October 4, 2002 Ouch! Hmmm...actually girls do like the nice guys, just not when they are searching for the bad ones. If they go out looking for a quickie, then the "committment" gets eliminated and the number of choices increases. A quickie with a hot guy is fun short-term, but the ego gets stomped tomorrow. The nice guy complains about rejection, but he rejects a few "nice" girls because of their looks also. (They don't consider that they do it too.) Ever notice guys who only hug or talk to girls they want to hit on? Solution? There isn't just "bad", "nice". There is nice-boring, nice-fun, bad-jerk, bad-fun. Try being the nice-fun guy. No party to go to? Throw one. Buy a keg, invite all your dz buds (guys and girls). Most towns have a "things to do" paper. Do a new one every week, even if some may seem dull at first. Invite friends to go along. Set it up. Be the "fun" nice guy. The "bad" guy get more short-term action, but he has no friends who are girls and that sucks. He misses a lot. 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pop 0 #36 October 4, 2002 QuoteOf course after i marry HH i won't be dating anyone anymore. I am jealous7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #37 October 4, 2002 Ha ha ha...well, I would have been your kinda girl then, if I hadn't already clocked my man over the head. Once he made me laugh until my eyes watered and no sound came out, I knew I had to turn on the charm. Once I did that...he didn't stand a chance..ha ha ha. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pop 0 #38 October 4, 2002 QuoteI'm getting sick of women who tell me that I'm too nice. Then if I act a little selfish sometime they say I'm being an a$$hole. WTF! Mabey some of the ladies out there can tell me how a guy can be too nice. My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. I think girls appreciate that the most. And they can generally tell if you are putting on a front or not.7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #39 October 4, 2002 It's usually the other way around for me. A chick really likes me....but I don't catch on to the "signals" This chick that cuts my hair didn't leave much doubt that she is interested in me the other day. Of course...like an idiot I walked away without asking her out. *Grow Hair!!! Grow like the wind!!!* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JumpNFly 0 #40 October 4, 2002 like I tell all of my guy friends, when you find the right one, you'll just know... girls like nice guys... just have to find her... The key to walking on water... Is knowing where the rocks are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildblue 7 #41 October 4, 2002 QuoteI am jealous You really think HH is your type?it's like incest - you're substituting convenience for quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #42 October 4, 2002 Quote My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. But what if you're an ass naturally? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DrunkMonkey 0 #43 October 4, 2002 Quotegirls like nice guys.... I'm calling BS on that one. Most women I've met like that little punk badass who treats them like sh!t. They say they like one thing and go for/home with another. Nice guys finish DEAD LAST. Ladies/Gents, if you belive that they don't, you're deluding yourself. It looks like this: Nice guys= a Chevy Cavalier--reliable & kinda fun. Bad Boys= a Convertible Ferrari--what women seem to want in their 20s/early 30's. So why should nice guys even want to associate with these women, as they're "settling" with the nice guy, when they lust for the bad boy? As I said earlier, let Karma take care of things: Let them party/bang the bad boy--they'll get what they deserve, i.e. used and discarded/a disease, and then when they are looking for the nice guy, the nice guy can say "no thanks- I'm not going to be what you 'settle' for." (sorry to be so venemous, I've been recently dumped, and I'm looking at $2000 in car repairs) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WFFC 1 #44 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuotegirls like nice guys.... I'm calling BS on that one. Most women I've met like that little punk badass who treats them like sh!t. They say they like one thing and go for/home with another. Nice guys finish DEAD LAST. Ladies/Gents, if you belive that they don't, you're deluding yourself. It looks like this: Nice guys= a Chevy Cavalier--reliable & kinda fun. Bad Boys= a Convertible Ferrari--what women seem to want in their 20s/early 30's. So why should nice guys even want to associate with these women, as they're "settling" with the nice guy, when they lust for the bad boy? As I said earlier, let Karma take care of things: Let them party/bang the bad boy--they'll get what they deserve, i.e. used and discarded/a disease, and then when they are looking for the nice guy, the nice guy can say "no thanks- I'm not going to be what you 'settle' for." Quote I'll agree with most of what you have here and say that there are some women that I've dated that left me for the badass/dipshit with no direction other than starting fights and treating the ex's ultimately like shit. Ran into an ex a couple years ago when I was home visiting the parents. Ended up having dinner with her and trying to figure out what went wrong. Her final conclusion that she'd had in her head the entire time? She was being dumb and thought that the guy who treated her like dog food, and the 2 others after that, and the one she married who still treated her the same way as the rest could be changed. WRONG! Strike one up for the nice guy that now gets a call from her once a year now asking if I want to get back together with her if she gets divorced!!! Sorry...You should have listened to what was in your heart and not your friends made up head...----- ~~~Michael Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #45 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuoteI am jealous You really think HH is your type? LMAO7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites pop 0 #46 October 4, 2002 Quote Quote My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. But what if you're an ass naturally? Then do it well.7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites mouth 0 #47 October 4, 2002 Bad life???? Trust me, you will get over the feelings of hurt and realize not ever female is terrible. It may take awhile but some chick will sweep you off your feet (or snatch you up in Carrie's words) and you will realize there was at least one that was wonderful in your eyes. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites gale 0 #48 October 4, 2002 Wow. Nice dissertation. It sounds like you're someone worth being around. I honestly think very few guys your age have that kind of maturity. I hope you find someone wonderful who appriciates it. It's not about being "nice" or "bad". If some girl gives you a cavelier answer like that she doesn't sounds like much of a person anyway. It's about being yourself - trite and overused, I know. But I am now in a relationship that proves it. It's the most relaxed relationship I've ever had, it's also the best. I'm myself, he's himself. And for the record - he's a "nice guy". If you feel like all your macho friends get these "great women" understand that they're probably not all that great to begin with. The issues that lead them to dating bad boys would probably not make you happy. Be happy with yourself, the rest will come. GaleI'm drowning...so come inside Welcome to my...dirty mind Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites freeflir29 0 #49 October 4, 2002 Quote Then do it well. Oh I do.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites happythoughts 0 #50 October 4, 2002 Ouch! Hmmm...actually girls do like the nice guys, just not when they are searching for the bad ones. If they go out looking for a quickie, then the "committment" gets eliminated and the number of choices increases. A quickie with a hot guy is fun short-term, but the ego gets stomped tomorrow. The nice guy complains about rejection, but he rejects a few "nice" girls because of their looks also. (They don't consider that they do it too.) Ever notice guys who only hug or talk to girls they want to hit on? Solution? There isn't just "bad", "nice". There is nice-boring, nice-fun, bad-jerk, bad-fun. Try being the nice-fun guy. No party to go to? Throw one. Buy a keg, invite all your dz buds (guys and girls). Most towns have a "things to do" paper. Do a new one every week, even if some may seem dull at first. Invite friends to go along. Set it up. Be the "fun" nice guy. The "bad" guy get more short-term action, but he has no friends who are girls and that sucks. He misses a lot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 Next Page 2 of 3 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. 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pop 0 #45 October 4, 2002 QuoteQuoteI am jealous You really think HH is your type? LMAO7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pop 0 #46 October 4, 2002 Quote Quote My theory is be yourself rather than trying to be nice or an ass. But what if you're an ass naturally? Then do it well.7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mouth 0 #47 October 4, 2002 Bad life???? Trust me, you will get over the feelings of hurt and realize not ever female is terrible. It may take awhile but some chick will sweep you off your feet (or snatch you up in Carrie's words) and you will realize there was at least one that was wonderful in your eyes. -- Hot Mama At least you know where you stand even if it is in a pile of shit. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gale 0 #48 October 4, 2002 Wow. Nice dissertation. It sounds like you're someone worth being around. I honestly think very few guys your age have that kind of maturity. I hope you find someone wonderful who appriciates it. It's not about being "nice" or "bad". If some girl gives you a cavelier answer like that she doesn't sounds like much of a person anyway. It's about being yourself - trite and overused, I know. But I am now in a relationship that proves it. It's the most relaxed relationship I've ever had, it's also the best. I'm myself, he's himself. And for the record - he's a "nice guy". If you feel like all your macho friends get these "great women" understand that they're probably not all that great to begin with. The issues that lead them to dating bad boys would probably not make you happy. Be happy with yourself, the rest will come. GaleI'm drowning...so come inside Welcome to my...dirty mind Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #49 October 4, 2002 Quote Then do it well. Oh I do.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #50 October 4, 2002 Ouch! Hmmm...actually girls do like the nice guys, just not when they are searching for the bad ones. If they go out looking for a quickie, then the "committment" gets eliminated and the number of choices increases. A quickie with a hot guy is fun short-term, but the ego gets stomped tomorrow. The nice guy complains about rejection, but he rejects a few "nice" girls because of their looks also. (They don't consider that they do it too.) Ever notice guys who only hug or talk to girls they want to hit on? Solution? There isn't just "bad", "nice". There is nice-boring, nice-fun, bad-jerk, bad-fun. Try being the nice-fun guy. No party to go to? Throw one. Buy a keg, invite all your dz buds (guys and girls). Most towns have a "things to do" paper. Do a new one every week, even if some may seem dull at first. Invite friends to go along. Set it up. Be the "fun" nice guy. The "bad" guy get more short-term action, but he has no friends who are girls and that sucks. He misses a lot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
