PhillyKev 0 #26 June 19, 2002 QuoteIf you were with her for a year? Maybe she is a nice person? Maybe she is worth your future? Spending life with someone that cares for you is a wonderfull thing.. Don't be scared of it.. Be happy..Dude....don't you have an ex-wife?cielos azules y cerveza fría-Kevin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ShortBus 0 #27 June 19, 2002 Thanks for Re-workin my resume Nac your the man! and thanks for not chewin me a new ass Tequila. All is well in 100acre woods =)"would you rather have beer or total happiness in your life?" "hmmm what kind of beer?" Homer j..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rhino 0 #28 June 19, 2002 I have 2 ex-wifes Women are a wonderfull thing. Especially when they are really into you.. Blue Skies ..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rhonda66 0 #29 June 19, 2002 Do you love the girl? You know, I don't get these people that just say they are outright against marriage and commitment - don't knock it till you try it. I can see not wanting to rush into anything, which is wise, but why break it off completely? If you tell her that you really care and maybe would consider something more serious someday, I'm sure she would be more than happy to compromise.I love my husband so much - he's my best friend - we jump together, we fly together, we do just about everything together and I could never imagine living without him at this point. Even if the relationship were to deteriote one day and we had to divorce, I wouldn't regret our marriage. However, he sounded exactly like you when we first met when he was 23 - he never wanted to get married, never wanted kids - my, how things can change in a matter of years and when you really find that right person for you...We all know that guys typically do not communicate with their significant others very well so just tell her how you feel - If she really loves you and you go about talking to her the right away, she will definitely understand. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #30 June 19, 2002 Quotedon't knock it till you try it.Cool...I guess I am qualified to "knock it" now....."Here I come to save the BOOBIES!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rhonda66 0 #31 June 19, 2002 lmao - you know what I mean... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindsey 0 #32 June 19, 2002 Woo HOO! Clay! I'm totally with ya'! DON'T DO IT!!!!!Peas~LindseyYa' know Smack-water Jack he bought a shotgun'cause he was in the mood for a little con-fron-ta-tion Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jfields 0 #33 June 19, 2002 QuoteCool...I guess I am qualified to "knock it" now.....Clay, if you found the right shee...err... woman, would you do it again? Justin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
freeflir29 0 #34 June 19, 2002 Quotewould you do it again?Maybe....I think I would be much better at defining the "RIGHT" one now. Last time I was 23 and it was [Homer Simpson]"MMMMMMM...Look at those boobies....MMMMMM" [/Homer Simpson] I have more items on the checklist now....."Here I come to save the BOOBIES!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #35 June 20, 2002 wow! I think I got a sense of the "skydiver"mentality of marriage.I wouldnt say I am totally against it but I wouldnt "jump"into itshortbus--make up your mind and be happy with your decision. if you are feeling sad maybe you should reconsider the way you dumped her. if you can move on then she was not the right one!Have fun, Live free, SKYDIVE!!http://community.webshots.com/user/jtval100 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jfields 0 #36 June 20, 2002 Quote[Homer Simpson]"MMMMMMM...Look at those boobies....MMMMMM" [/Homer Simpson] I have more items on the checklist now.....So you mean....[Homer Simpson]"MMMMMMM... Look at those boobies.... MMMMMM ... She's a veterinarian .. OOOOOOOHHH" [/Homer Simpson] Justin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #37 June 21, 2002 QuoteSpeaking of skydiving terminology and relationships...Are you still waiting for a girl to give you your first gear check?QuoteI wonder if he's had a Hop n Pop yet?QuoteWho knows. He's young enough that he probably wouldn't have difficulty getting to altitude. But I bet he's been dirt-diving that for awhileQuoteYou guys are trying way too hard. "Solo's" and his "first 2 way" fit the desired meaning much easier.... yes if you must know i am still a virgin, i will not tell you what base i have been to. And yes i have been.......practicing. I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jasmin 0 #38 June 21, 2002 How is that possible? Is it intentional? How old are you?!!!My last fling had never had her gear checked by a guy and she intended to keep it that way for awhile (invited my bf out for a drink with us and he declined!?!??) but she had an unintentional mal on that one...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #39 June 21, 2002 i am 22 on july 5. Its very sad really if i ever have kids i will not let them get this far without atleast having a couple girl/boy friends. I missed so much important stuff b/c as a kid i got picked on alot so i just put up a wall and never learned the basic skilled needed to talk to girls. That almighty fear of rejection has kept me from trying. I can be friends with the best looking girls but thats usually all that happens. I end up being that harmless friend that is never considered to be someone to go out with. now i am all depressed. I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jasmin 0 #40 June 21, 2002 Sweety you just ain't trying the right way! The only help I can say is, if you like a girl, go for it. "Everything is sweetened by risk...." if you don't go after something 'coz you're too scared you'll miss out. I've seen the ugliest, meanest guys get the girl because they chased her, they wooed her, and so they GOT her. If that don't work, hit on a girl you at least don't mind....Failing that, buy a ticket to Oz, they're some "nice" girls your age at the DZ's round here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #41 June 21, 2002 I wish it was that simple for me. I can actually count the dates i have been on with half of one of my hands and still have space left over. I feel like an idiot hitting on girls, and i was brought up not to be an asshole to women so playing that asswhole that allways for some reason gets the coolest girl, won't work.I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jessica 0 #42 June 21, 2002 Quote I feel like an idiot hitting on girls, and i was brought up not to be an asshole to women so playing that asswhole that allways for some reason gets the coolest girl, won't work.Aw, cheer up. Y'don't "hit on" women, you befriend them. I promise, it works. Guys complain about the "friend zone," but it doesn't exist. Women are just as speculative and sex-crazed as guys. They're just more analytical about it.Sorry, that didn't make any sense. I'm still flustered by Quade's criticism of my serial commas.It's the Vicodin™ talking. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gale 0 #43 June 21, 2002 Oh hunny, it's OK. Beleive it or not you have a lot of time to get things right and haven't missed out on much. Some of my friends were still virgins at your age - they just hadn't met anyone worth being with. No, it doesn't have to be the love of the century but being with someone special is always better.If you're as sweet as you sound you shouldn't have any troubles at all. You may have to check out places other then the dz though as we all know there aren't a lot of girls there.Keep trying. I know it seems trite but if someone can't see you for the good person you are they're not worth having around.GaleIsn't life the strangest thing you've ever seen? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jfields 0 #44 June 21, 2002 QuoteAw, cheer up. Y'don't "hit on" women, you befriend them. I promise, it works. Guys complain about the "friend zone," but it doesn't exist. I'll both agree and disagree with Jessica. The befriending thing is right. It sounds like your personality is dictating that you be friends before going further. That is fine. But the "friend zone" is real. I got pegged as "the good guy I cry my heart out to when losers mistreat me" for awhile, which was both complimentary and shitty at the same time. You need to persevere, Viking. When things do go right, you'll have the best of both worlds. For people like you (and me), patience is the key.Justin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sinkster 0 #45 June 21, 2002 y0 Viking, don't sweat it dude. There's a season for everything and just as the seasons change so do our lives. As for worrying about being 22 and a virgin in my opinion that's actually a good thing. Everyone has their own views on this but I personally hold sex to be something too sacred and personal to just share with anyone other than the person I am going to be with for the rest of my life.Heck, I am almost 23 and I am also a virgin by choice with the certainty that waiting will be worth it b/c when my marriage is consumated it will be forever. Would it be nice to be "getting some" right now? Heck yes of course I'm sure it feels good just like snorting cocaine might. But it would be devastating in the long run for my heart and soul so I won't.Now if you really do want to lose what u can only have once and just are not able to then I guess it's a different matter. But I just wanted to add something for you to consider because you're actually very lucky and I personally would not waste it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scottbre 0 #46 June 21, 2002 This brings up an interesting question in my mind for the ladies:All other things being equal (which they never are), which do you find more attractive? 1. The guy is a virgin 2. The guy is not a virgin 3. I prefer girls. Wanna see the pictures?The 4th paperclip didn't say much, but I could tell that it was still the smartass of the bunch... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coconutmonkey 0 #47 June 21, 2002 True, but the eternal celabacy in the intrim really sucks!"Beware when meddling in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jfields 0 #48 June 21, 2002 QuoteTrue, but the eternal celabacy in the intrim really sucks!Man, no arguement on that one! Thank god I've exited that stage of "looking for someone special" celibacy. Unfortunately, I've been in "pregnant wife" and "baby daughter" phases recently, which aren't much better. Justin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rdutch 0 #49 June 21, 2002 You never know what you got until its gone. Also it might not be too late you have to grow up sometime cant live the skydiving lifestyle forever. Well live the lifestyle and have a relationship its not that hardHook low Flare late Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coconutmonkey 0 #50 June 21, 2002 Well, think of it this way, there is always a good beer. Just don't get the bottle mixed up in those late night feedings! On the lighter side, a few more years and you can teach her to pack for ya!"Beware when meddling in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
