Emergency Relationship Help!

[Blinky 0]

Never forget, skydiving's better than sex so unlike the rest of the world you've got something else to make you happy while you get over it and find someone who does really care!
Blue skies!

[freeflir29 0]

CUT AWAY!!!! She is trying to play you!!! Trust me I know.....and wasn't smart enough to see it at the time. Also, be ready. After you dump her like yesterdays newspaper she will come groveling. Then it's a great time to get break up sex. The cool part about that is....you can just leave and don't even have to call her....
"Here I come to save the BOOBIES!"

[skydiventom 0]

I have the feeling I'm going through the same thing. I've been dating Susan since January. She's been very "distant" for the last couple weeks. I've tried to talk with her but she's been "busy". I'll just take things how they come I suppose. I think most of the people here are right when they say. "don't beg". If someone truly wants you in their life. They will make time for you and enjoy your company. Just my thoughts anyways.
Honest, it wasn't me.....

[freeflir29 0]

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If someone truly wants you in their life. They will make time for you and enjoy your company

Yep......
"Here I come to save the BOOBIES!"

[Divadiver 0]

It sure seems that a lot of us are paddling the same boat. Let me see if I can maybe shed a little light from the other side of the story.
When someone you are dating is not around because of their job, family, whatever . . .
There is an emptiness. So you fill the void with your friends, you go out and have fun. The first question out of everyone’s mouth is always, “where’s _____?” (You would think after months of the same question and the same answer they’d know the routine as well as you.)
Now more than likely, half the friends that you end up going out with are single and not currently dating anyone. So, while they’re meeting and hanging out with these incredible cute guys, you’re left trying to stay your distance and remind yourself that you’re already in a relationship. (I personally don’t have a hard time with this because when I’m in a relationship, I’m in it with that one person only.)
Then there’s the other half of your friends who are in relationships. And you get a glimpse into their lives and what they’ve been doing together. Going out, hanging out, vacationing, spending time together, yeap, pretty much all those things that you’ve been missing out on when you and your S/O are not able to be together.
And when the two of you are together, you start asking yourself, where exactly do you fit into this persons life. Where in his life do you come in? Are you a phone call at the end of the day (and I do mean end of the day - like it’s a last minute thought), how about dinner or you can come over and we’ll hang out? So, you start to ask yourself where’s this going, is this relationship going anywhere? Is this the way it’s going to always be? Is this what you want? Are you happy doing this? Do you deserve more?
And sooner or later you come to the conclusion that this is not what you want, you do deserve more. You are responsible for your own happiness, no one else is going to serve that up to you. You can’t change people, you can’t make them feel something they don’t, and you can’t make them happy (ultimately they - like yourself are responsible for their own happiness).
So, maybe it is truly her and not so much you. If it’s too much work, then it’s not right, move on and find someone else who you can share your happiness with.
But, don’t listen to a thing that I have to say . . . what the hell do I know! (Hand on cutaway, bikini packed and ready for the beach.)
Diva

[freeflir29 0]

Diva....I hate to tell you but if I have to be beside someone 24/7 for it to be a "relationship" I would call that person insecure and needy. You sound like my ex-wife. If I wasn't babysitting her EVERY DAY I didn't care or other things were more important. I say grow up!!! If you want to be in High School relationships for the rest of your life I guess thats up to you.
Whew....sorry...you hit a sore spot....
"Here I come to save the BOOBIES!"

[Divadiver 0]

Geez, Clay where did you get that I needed someone 24/7? I'll re-read what I typed, but I think you read something that wasn't there!
Besides, sheep need a lot of attention, don't they?!
If you're looking for a fight, buddy . . . I'll whip your ass!! < oh wait, you'd like that>
Diva

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[freeflir29 0]

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Now more than likely, half the friends that you end up going out with are single and not currently dating anyone. So, while they’re meeting and hanging out with these incredible cute guys, you’re left trying to stay your distance and remind yourself that you’re already in a relationship

Hmmm...sounded like it to me......if you have to remind yourself you aren't in a real relationship.

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I'll whip your ass!!

Only if you buy me a couple drinks first and wear lots of leather....and talk dirty to me.....
"Here I come to save the BOOBIES!"

[drenaline 0]

Dude I got my heart broken once cause after hearing that, I didn't cutaway. She started dating the other guy while dating me (of course she was so stupid that I always knew but sex was great so...) and when I got tired she broke up with me first (damn she beat me to it, it hurts more, don't ask me why) and you don't get break up sex. What pissed me off was when she said "I never cheated on you", what a big load of crap, Her stories never matched and I saw her a couple of times, and now she still tells me "I never blah blah blah...".
mm... I think am a lil of subject. Dump her, thats a mal.
"Life is full of danger, so why be afraid?"
drenaline

[FallRate 0]

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Whew....sorry...you hit a sore spot....

Penicillin might help with that.
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