FallRate 0 #26 June 8, 2002 QuoteI have to for now............I can always divorce I know we live in a time when judgment or criticism of any sort is considered to be an act of pure evil, but...this is a terrible mindset to have when entering a marriage. To be fair, a LOT of people have this attitude stuck in the back of their minds. But wouldn't it be best to start off with the idea that this is a real commitment, not just a temporary lifestyle change.FallRate Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skycat 0 #27 June 8, 2002 How do you know it will be an easy divorce. What if he doesn't want to let you go and fights it, turns it into a long drawn out battle. If you 2 are worried about money, well then just live together, actually it's cheaper to live together than be married as long as the marriage tax is still in effect. (aka. filing income taxes as married vs. as single) Really think about this, cause there is no need to put yourself through that trauma and that is exactly how a divorce is to your psyche. Oh and don't forget that once you are married his debt becomes your debt and if he shouldn't make it due to his health problems you are the one stuck with paying all his medical bills.Actually from your last few posts about him buying you a rig and then later a ring, it almost sounds like he is trying to buy you, is that what you really want your relationship based on, monetary and emotional debts?I’m 27 and also have be divorced and for me unless I have his love free and clear and 100% there is no way I’ll get married again. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
