smiles 0 #26 September 26, 2004 ---i never got married but have been in a relationship for 26 years. Raised 2 sons and never felt trapped, lost my soul...or thought of it all as a fucking lie. People do change..we separated for 7 yrs. in those 26 and ended up back together. Also he works out of town in logging camps- falling, so our relationship has always been 20-30 days apart- 10 days together and winter time usually 2 months together. We never became "enmeshed" or entangled- stayed as 2 separate people. Still might get married which would be: I get a nice ring, passed to me in freefall. My 20 yr old son was just listening to "Puddle of Mud"..... in a trapp trip I can't grip never thought I'd be the one who'd slip then I started to realize I was living one big lie She fucking hates me trust she fucking hates me la la la love I tried to hard and she tore my feelings like I had none and ripped them away............ SMiles p.s. how old are you? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mary1979 0 #27 September 26, 2004 If it's right , you'll know it's right...and it will be a beautiful thing. If it's wrong, don't force it......may turn out to be a lie. But don't down play marriage. Applied correctly.....it is one of the most beautiful commitments. -Now get out there and love someone Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
christoofar 0 #28 September 27, 2004 Sounds like that Jefferson Airplane song (Want Somebody to Love) ____________________________________________________________ I'm RICK JAMES! Fo shizzle. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slug 1 #29 September 27, 2004 Hi RMH I have to agree with quade I talked with a guy a long time ago who had been married 15 yr's kids and all that stuff and then got divorced. I was young and dunb and asked him wtf? He explained that when they got married he was a bull rideing cowboy and she was a cowgirl. Over the year he became a dope smoking skydiver and the wife was still a cowgirl. So they just grew apart until it was untolerable and they got divorced. Of course there always the situation where in some marriage one of there are hidden agenda's ego's excess baggage, etc. In 3 month's the boss and i will be married for 30 yr's. If she lets me I just do as I'm told. But what the hell I'm happy Sorry gotta go, do the dish's, runher bath water, clean, iron, etc. R.i.P. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
