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amy 0
Is sacrifice only considered sacrifice after a person has endured a particular degree of harm or misfortune?
Our servicemembers sacrifice enormous amounts every day, whether they are injured or not.
Missing 6 months (or more) of your young child's life to be overseas, missing out on opportunites to watch your relationship with your spouse (or other loved ones) grow, missing the chance to teach your teenager to drive, see them go to the prom, or go out on their first date. . .
All of the little pleasures in life that you and I take for granted when we are home with the people we love. That's a huge sacrifice.
Amy
He was babbling on about something about what is sacrifice. He was basically saying that my sacrifice was not my leg, but my freedom when I enlisted
you want to read my post again
you enlisted willingly to do something you wanted to do, not much of a sacrifice if you ask me. If you'd have not wanted to join the army and still joined JUST to serve your country and help others, that would have been a sacrifce in joining the army
yeah, you might have missed out on alot of freedom being in the army, but your freedom was secondry to what you wanted to do in life, and that was to be a soldier. If you wanted to be able to do the things civillians can do in life more than you wanted to be a soldier, i'm sure you'd have not enlisted yeah?
how many of your soldier friends are soldiers and didn't want to be soldiers?
a by product of you following your chosen career is that you don't have the freedom to do what civillians can do, but you knew that when you joined, and you joined to do exactly what you wanted to do.
let me ask you this.... before you went to Iraq, did you enjoy being a soldier? if you answer yes, how much of a sacrifice is somebody making by doing something they love doing?
Missing 6 months (or more) of your young child's life to be overseas, missing out on opportunites to watch your relationship with your spouse (or other loved ones) grow, missing the chance to teach your teenager to drive, see them go to the prom, or go out on their first date. . .
all while indulging yourself by doing what you want to do in life
If your family mean that much to you, you'd not do something that keeps you away from them. Doing a trade that keeps you away from them is your choice, nobody makes you do that... you choose to do something in life that you want to do, knowing full well that you'll miss out on all the things you've said, but those things are secondry to your desire to do what you want to do, if they were more important than being in the military, you'd not be in the military and you'd do something that enables you to be with your family
i don't have much sympathy for anybody who indulges themself in life by following their chosen career path and then moans that they are missing out on things by following their choses career path
its like hitting yourself on the head and then complaining that your getting hurt... stop hitting yourself on the head then !!!
Lindsey 0
I think you're assuming a lot about people in the military. How about the person who goes into military service because he/she feels an obligation toward his/her country? Being fulfilled in this obligation by no means negates the sacrifice that one makes.
I think that any person who willingly puts himself into harm's way for our sake deserves a lot more respect than those of us whose right to grumble he protects.
linz
I think that any person who willingly puts himself into harm's way for our sake deserves a lot more respect than those of us whose right to grumble he protects.
linz
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I think you're assuming a lot about people in the military. How about the person who goes into military service because he/she feels an obligation toward his/her country? Being fulfilled in this obligation by no means negates the sacrifice that one makes.
I think that any person who willingly puts himself into harm's way for our sake deserves a lot more respect than those of us whose right to grumble he protects.
linz
and what percentage of people in the military didn't join because they wanted to, but joined just to fulfil an obligation? not many i'd say !!!!
how many butchers open up a meat shop because they feel obligated to give their community good pieces of meat, while all the time they wantd to be lorry drivers?
jkm2500 0
The dictionary.com meaning of the word sacrifice is(using the definition appropriate):Forfeiture of something highly valued for the sake of one considered to have a greater value or claim. http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=sacrifice
Now, just because someone voluntarily joins the military doesnt mean that they aren't making a sacrifice. According to the dictionary, they are indeed doing just that. Giving up their freedom, safety, life and limb for the sake of the "greater value", the greater good (for the people of the USA).
Now, that maybe idealistic, but that doesnt mean that it isnt true. In my opinion sacrifice is idealistic. We all make sacrifices to ourselves in our daily lives. Most do it in the context of "I'm not going to have that donut, I am trying to watch my weight". Few are willing to make a larger sacrifice of "I am going to run 5 miles a day to get in shape". Fewer still are willing to sacrifice 2-30 years of their lives in order that others can live in peace and harmony. So, volunteering does not relieve soldiers of their sacrifice, it endows them with it.
Now, just because someone voluntarily joins the military doesnt mean that they aren't making a sacrifice. According to the dictionary, they are indeed doing just that. Giving up their freedom, safety, life and limb for the sake of the "greater value", the greater good (for the people of the USA).
Now, that maybe idealistic, but that doesnt mean that it isnt true. In my opinion sacrifice is idealistic. We all make sacrifices to ourselves in our daily lives. Most do it in the context of "I'm not going to have that donut, I am trying to watch my weight". Few are willing to make a larger sacrifice of "I am going to run 5 miles a day to get in shape". Fewer still are willing to sacrifice 2-30 years of their lives in order that others can live in peace and harmony. So, volunteering does not relieve soldiers of their sacrifice, it endows them with it.
The primary purpose of the Armed Forces is to prepare for and to prevail in combat should the need arise.
Icon134 0
How is sacrifice by choice any less of a sacrifice... in fact I think it necessarily requires a choice.
A fireman that goes into a building on the off chance that he might save a life... but ends up giving his own... he's chosen that profession... he probably enjoys that profession but does that make his sacrifice less important to the people he does save or is trying to save?![[:/]](/uploads/emoticons/dry.png "[:/]")
A fireman that goes into a building on the off chance that he might save a life... but ends up giving his own... he's chosen that profession... he probably enjoys that profession but does that make his sacrifice less important to the people he does save or is trying to save?
Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife...
billvon 3,053
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>If your family mean that much to you, you'd not do something that
>keeps you away from them.
If something else meant more to you than being with your family all the time, you might.
We all make value judgements about what's good to do and what's bad to do. One guy might decide to spend his days drinking beer and watching TV, or living on welfare while hanging out on a street corner. Another guy might decide to have a family and raise his children as best he can. Another might decide to serve his country in politics, or in the military, or in a civilian branch of the government like the CIA. All of them make their choices freely - but I admire the latter a lot more than I admire the former two. They have sacrificed a much easier life for something they believe in.
>its like hitting yourself on the head and then complaining that your
>getting hurt... stop hitting yourself on the head then !!!
Using your terminology, I am very glad that there are people willing to "hit themselves on the head" so that no one hits _you_ on the head. I suspect you are too - at least when it's not an argument on an internet board you're trying to win.
>keeps you away from them.
If something else meant more to you than being with your family all the time, you might.
We all make value judgements about what's good to do and what's bad to do. One guy might decide to spend his days drinking beer and watching TV, or living on welfare while hanging out on a street corner. Another guy might decide to have a family and raise his children as best he can. Another might decide to serve his country in politics, or in the military, or in a civilian branch of the government like the CIA. All of them make their choices freely - but I admire the latter a lot more than I admire the former two. They have sacrificed a much easier life for something they believe in.
>its like hitting yourself on the head and then complaining that your
>getting hurt... stop hitting yourself on the head then !!!
Using your terminology, I am very glad that there are people willing to "hit themselves on the head" so that no one hits _you_ on the head. I suspect you are too - at least when it's not an argument on an internet board you're trying to win.
Michele 1
all while indulging yourself by doing what you want to do in life
In this and several other posts, Jimmy, I'm left with the thought that you believe that a sacrifice must be something that there can be no by-product of pride or joy or sense of security in. Which means that firefighters, police, and others in community service, who take pride and find joy in, do.
In my world, you can both choose to do something which will create a sacrifice, be proud of what you do, and even enjoy it...and it's still a sacrifice.
I know who Gawain is. Personally. I've jumped with him, hung out with him, and knew his choices and reasoning behind joining the military. At no point did he do it unaware of the sacrifice he - and those around him - would make. He did it because of an overriding sense of living his beliefs; that people should be free, that this was a cause which is appropriate, and worth his efforts, hard work, and yes, sacrifice.
He put his money where his mouth was...and for that, I thank him with all my heart. Your questioning is made possible because of people like him, the world over. And he would be the first to defend your right to say it, even though your paltry attempts to negate his sacrifice must be positively awful for him to read (I assume.)
Ciels-
Michele
~Do Angels keep the dreams we seek
While our hearts lie bleeding?~
Each day I am faced with some challenge of sorts that can (and usually does) require a sacrifice by me.
Service men and women who serve their respective nation, sacrifice their personnal safety and risk their personnal well being EVERY day they serve or did serve. I do not think it should matter if they volunteered or where drafted, they sacrifice the same to me.
They do so knowing that a possabilty exists to make "the ultimate sacrifice".
The men and women who joined the service in the US after Sept. 11th in somes opinion may have risk more since they new they would join in a fight over seas.
I say that there are plenty who sacrifice ever day, even not in uniform, when they could choose an easier path.
Those who serve their country, community and church, with out aspirations of riches or fame are ones who sacrifice to me.
There are plenty of people who even serve there country out of uniform who deserve respect too. I do not think we should limit this to a "the military only sacrifices" issue.
When a Nation goes to war, it is the WHOLE Nation that goes, either in person or in spirit. Some body knows some one, either married, son, daughter, father, mother, aunt, uncle, grandfather or grandmother, who is in the war.
Do not ever think you did not truly sacrifice for others Max. You are a clear example of what most here would call "one who has sacrificed". The timing of your joining the Army, the service you given so far, the injury you sustained and the stress your family has endured is impossible to fully repay.
I am proud to be a member of the same Division your in becuase of you and your fellow Soldiers.
Yes, I do beleive you have sacrificed and need not worry what others think, including me. You protect the right to let me speak and the right to ignore me.
Thank You, to both you and your Wife! I know she has sacrificed too!
So, start being safe, first!!!
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