Husband demands money for kidney

[kelpdiver 2]

He was happy enough with the marriage to undergo life threatening surgery, and give up an organ that isn't quite what you'd call a 'spare.'

That's why I'm inclined to believe that she's the problem. Because if the marriage was rocky, he'd have left her on the organ waiting list.

[lawrocket 3]

First, receiving any monetary benefit for donating an organ is against federal law. It's a felony. I haven't heard anybody mention this.maybe I'll try to call Howard Stern tomorrow a.m. And have them put Dominic on so I can confront him on advancing a position that is a crime.


While I am not commenting on New York law, I would think that in the event that the kidney has some value, that he transmuted his separate property asset to her separate property.

Barbara did thisfor press. He's an asshole.

My wife is hotter than your wife.

[aprilcat 0]

She is going to get the house until the kids are 18,
plus mega-child support. (Just the person of character
that you want raising your kids.)

Let us behave. What do you mean 'your kids' when he gave her 'his kidney'? That he cared about her and she cared enough to take it doesn't really say anything about 'yours, mine, and ours'. I offered my brother a kidney and he said no..he didn't want to compromise my life. I seriously doubt if I would have done something to break my brother's trust, he'd demand the kidney back or $$$...OR just even go public calling me a Jezabelle.

Just a few of my own thoughts...I doubt that she'd ask a judge to shove his kids back up his shaft...or demand some sort of weird retroactive abortion process, nor a judge willing to sign on taking her life for an alleged affair. Its not a ring..its an organ. She gave organs to give him children and if you want to 'allege' things, she 'allegedly' thought he was loveable. Somewhere things went wrong and two wrongs don't make a right.

I agree with most of the female posters here that he should have maintained a personal and professional dignity and STFU in public. What a CHUMP. What a lesson for their children. I'd let this one go privately, and in that I mean out of the public medium.

I would like to hear a Judge try to enforce his request...Yeah...right. Half the population would have to live without a heart/liver/brain/anus, name, it..its gone and we'd all be tied up in court all the time.

I think the bottom line is, if you're going to be an asshat at the end of the line and want to take back the most precious things, don't make vows..don't make children...and if you make kids are you willing to reclaim them at the end of a broken (???) vow?

Kidneys are forever. You can sell the ring and split the $$$...I'm never going to give back an organ and I dare a Judge to make me do it cause my husband didn't like the way I stayed out (???) a few nights. Bleah~~April

Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo!

[happythoughts 0]

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she 'allegedly' thought he was loveable. Somewhere things went wrong and two wrongs don't make a right.

As you say, "allegedly". You are "alleging" that he
is not loveable now? Somehow, you assume that
she is a candidate for sainthood and couldn't possibly
cheat on a great guy? Assumption.

The most disgusting sexist argument:
If a guy cheats, women immediately say that it is
his fault because he is a pig.
If a woman cheats, it is the mans fault because the
man failed to make her happy and she went elsewhere
to meet her "needs". What crap.

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Somewhere things went wrong.

And at that point, she should have told him,
been honest, and asked for a divorce.

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I agree with most of the female posters here that he should have maintained a personal and professional dignity and STFU in public.

So, where is the righteous indignation from the
women about her actions?

I'd run a DNA check on the kids about now.

[rehmwa 2]

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straw haired pig-whore

that is a classic Scrubs quote

the correct response is

"I'm not straw haired"

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Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants

[diablopilot 2]

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What an arrogant, mean spirited, self centered thing to do! No wonder they're divorcing.

You're talking about her fucking some other guy outside her marriage after he gave her life again, right?

Just looking for how deep your hypocrisies go.

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You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously.

[Coreece 190]

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First, receiving any monetary benefit for donating an organ is against federal law. It's a felony.

She should give him a buck for the kidney and then have him arrested.

I wouldn't put it past her.

Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are...

[shropshire 0]

He's clearly a prick ... she should take his other one too


He gave it to her ... no loaned it - what a tosser.

(.)Y(.)
Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome

[hungarianchick 0]

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she 'allegedly' thought he was loveable. Somewhere things went wrong and two wrongs don't make a right.

As you say, "allegedly". You are "alleging" that he
is not loveable now? Somehow, you assume that
she is a candidate for sainthood and couldn't possibly
cheat on a great guy? Assumption.

The most disgusting sexist argument:
If a guy cheats, women immediately say that it is
his fault because he is a pig.
If a woman cheats, it is the mans fault because the
man failed to make her happy and she went elsewhere
to meet her "needs". What crap.

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Somewhere things went wrong.

And at that point, she should have told him,
been honest, and asked for a divorce.

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I agree with most of the female posters here that he should have maintained a personal and professional dignity and STFU in public.

So, where is the righteous indignation from the
women about her actions?

I'd run a DNA check on the kids about now.

Good lord, calm down! I personally don't think that any of the female posters were condoning the wife's actions here. Kidney or not, she is a cheating, lying whore regardless of the reasons behind the dissolution of the marriage. What they are saying is that yes, a spouse's infidelity is probably one of the most painful things to go through, but at some point your rational thinking should take over your emotional one so you can get your life back in order. That obviously hasn't happened to him yet and he is hell bent on dragging her through the mud, taking the kids along for the ride...

"I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food."

[Andy9o8 2]

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he is hell bent on dragging her through the mud, taking the kids along for the ride...

Sadly, by my experience, that describes easily better than half the divorces-with-children I've seen. Roughly equally prevalent between men & women. And you simply cannot get them to climb down off their hurt and be rational. That's one of the reasons I try not to handle too many domestic cases if I can avoid it.

[Andy9o8 2]

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He's clearly a prick ... she should take his other one too

He gave it to her ... no loaned it - what a tosser.

Alright, that's it. Please turn in your Man Card at the desk.

[shropshire 0]

what man card ... I'm married and had mine surgically removed ages back.

(.)Y(.)
Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome

[hungarianchick 0]

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Sadly, by my experience, that describes easily better than half the divorces-with-children I've seen. Roughly equally prevalent between men & women. And you simply cannot get them to climb down off their hurt and be rational. That's one of the reasons I try not to handle too many domestic cases if I can avoid it.

It is completely beyond me why people would choose to prolong their own hurt, thinking it's 'payback time' to the spouse who somehow wronged them. What's been done is done, what's been said is said, let's all move on.

"I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food."

[shropshire 0]

I couldn't agree more

(.)Y(.)
Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome

[hungarianchick 0]

Unfortunately, I had to witness how nasty people can get when it comes to divorce first hand.
My sister was married to my brother-in-law for over twenty years and, (which I only found out at the end) was cheating on her through the entire time with various women paid and unpaid. When she finally had enough and my niece was grown and graduated college, she filed for divorce. And my BIL jumped off the deep end. All my sister wanted was to sell the house and split the price. He wouldn't budge. He lied and claimed in court that the house was financed by his parents, he and his parents forged documents, (we're talking about Hungary here) and dragged out court proceedings for over two years now. My sister for a while refused to move out of the house but then he started psychological warfare. He would come home at all times of the night turn on TV, radio at full blast, slam doors, you name it.

All this because she dared to divorce him...

Finally she and my niece moved to a rental apartment, but there is still no resolution. He hasn't sold the place, his business partner hasn't seen him in months.
But as they say, karma is a bitch.

"I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food."

[MikeMcLean 0]

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Edit to add: It appears the best thing this guy could have done would have been to let her die. He'd still have two kidneys and all his stuff, and as a bonus, he'd have avoided the emotional trauma of being betrayed by someone he loved.

THIS, 1,000 times

It wouldn't hurt you to think like a fucking serial killer every once in a while - just for the sake of prevention

[aprilcat 0]

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she 'allegedly' thought he was loveable. Somewhere things went wrong and two wrongs don't make a right.

As you say, "allegedly". You are "alleging" that he
is not loveable now? Somehow, you assume that
she is a candidate for sainthood and couldn't possibly
cheat on a great guy? Assumption.

The most disgusting sexist argument:
If a guy cheats, women immediately say that it is
his fault because he is a pig.
If a woman cheats, it is the mans fault because the
man failed to make her happy and she went elsewhere
to meet her "needs". What crap.

I don't see how you come up with 'crap'. I never said it was alright to cheat. I said TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT. She cheated on him...wrong. He wants to take back his kidney...wrong.

...and childish. Whats he going to DO with it?

and when I said she thought he was lovable, that was pretty tongue in cheek. I'd be surprised if my ex demanded a kidney back no matter what I or he did, and I'd question who he (or I) was in the first place to come up with something THAT hurtful and childish.

Now I'm thinking of fights I had with my sister when we were young. Mom told us there were NO take-backs once you gave someone something it was theirs and thats that.

Guess I still have that train of thought. I hope she gives it back to him just so he can have some company and feel all is 'right' with the world.~~April
PS he IS a prick. She's a cheater and he's a prick. The end.

Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo!

[tbrown 26]

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All I can say is I'm extremely glad that guy isn't my doc. I expect a higher level of maturity from the people I trust my life to.

Ha ha, dream on.... Doctors and lawyers are some of the most childish, irresponsible people in the world. they have an inflated opinion of themselves, based on the secular priesthoods to which they belong. Several years back, some doctor was hounding his ex-girlfriend, trying to FORCE her in court to abort the child she was carrying. He felt that as the sperm donor that he had some kind of right to demand she abort the baby, because HIS relationship with her was over. Never did hear how it turned out, only surprised he didn't persist and attempt to have the child euthanized....

Your humble servant.....Professor Gravity !

[aprilcat 0]

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All I can say is I'm extremely glad that guy isn't my doc. I expect a higher level of maturity from the people I trust my life to.

Ha ha, dream on.... Doctors and lawyers are some of the most childish, irresponsible people in the world. they have an inflated opinion of themselves, based on the secular priesthoods to which they belong. Several years back, some doctor was hounding his ex-girlfriend, trying to FORCE her in court to abort the child she was carrying. He felt that as the sperm donor that he had some kind of right to demand she abort the baby, because HIS relationship with her was over. Never did hear how it turned out, only surprised he didn't persist and attempt to have the child euthanized....

...or if that guy was as twisted as the Kidney-Doc, he'd want the aborted fetus where he could see it at all times. Like I said...some people need the company ~~April

Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo!

[hungarianchick 0]

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Several years back, some doctor was hounding his ex-girlfriend, trying to FORCE her in court to abort the child she was carrying. He felt that as the sperm donor that he had some kind of right to demand she abort the baby, because HIS relationship with her was over. Never did hear how it turned out, only surprised he didn't persist and attempt to have the child euthanized....

I'm sure paying child support was not part of his plans...

"I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food."

[kbordson 8]

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All I can say is I'm extremely glad that guy isn't my doc. I expect a higher level of maturity from the people I trust my life to.

Ha ha, dream on.... Doctors and lawyers are some of the most childish, irresponsible people in the world. they have an inflated opinion of themselves, based on the secular priesthoods to which they belong. Several years back, some doctor was hounding his ex-girlfriend, trying to FORCE her in court to abort the child she was carrying. He felt that as the sperm donor that he had some kind of right to demand she abort the baby, because HIS relationship with her was over. Never did hear how it turned out, only surprised he didn't persist and attempt to have the child euthanized....

And based on some of the responses of people in this forum... I would have to assume that skydivers are ignorant and cruel. Some of the most biased and arrogant people that I have ever "met."

But the REALITY is that there are good people and bad people in EVERY walk of life. And in fact, some of the "good people" are "bad" by some definitions and some of the "bad people" are "good."

Life is not black and white. To discriminate against an entire population based on your experience with a handful from that group is foolish.

I believe that this PERSON is wrong. He is hurt and publicly humiliated. He is lashing out. Hopefully the courts will see this as the emotional outburst and drop that portion of the divorce.

He obviously cared VERY deeply about his wife at some point. It's sad when love turns bitter.