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Well, I DID quote those emoticons in my original reply to him in post #309.

So, in your eyes, do little smiley faces negate what he said?

And what IS your point about pointing out the smiley faces?? Or do you even have one.



You didn't answer my question, but I'll assume you made an innocent error of omission.

Yes, I do have a point: He seems to have been joking.




You're correct, I was joking. Could somebody please sue me for being a confirmed homophobe now?

p.s. The last sentence was sarcasm, as was the sentence from post#66 Shell. It's the lowest form of wit; can't you recognise it, or would you rather just have someone to screech 'homophobe!' at?

'for it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "chuck 'im out, the brute!" But it's "saviour of 'is country" when the guns begin to shoot.'

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My argument is simply being against gay marriage. It never has changed.



You don't understand the words you are using. Your stance is being against gay marriage. Your arguments are the reasons you are using to justify that stance. These have changed completely, and you've already admitted as much!

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Perhaps, if you're so good at proving people to be wrong in their beliefs you should make yourself the official spokesmen for Gay Rights and quickly go about achieving the legitimacy of gay marriage throughout the world.



It doesn't work like that. When people have a deeply held irrational belief they will quite happily change their reasons as and when the old one's are shown to be faulty - if they ever even acknowledge them to be faulty, often they just ignore the counter arguments - and never have to back away from the belief.

You can see it with Rhys and 9/11, Warped and Kenyan Obama and you and this.
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I've been against gay marriage from the start.



And even though you've admitted you've moved away from all the original reasons you were against it, you're still against it. Which really does suggest your opposition has nothing to do with any rational reasons.

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All ready explained. I doubt you'd pay any attention to the context though



I do pay attention, which is why I know that you haven't explained it all. By what mechanism does Gay marriage affect marriage as a whole? How does it happen?

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Then we disagree. And, despite your efforts, my beliefs are only reinforced.



I'm not trying to change your mind, I know that's futile. You wouldn't back away from arguing that the sky is green. However, just like Mr Griffin on Question Time, your arguments can stand as a warning beacon to anyone else who might have been vaguely leaning towards your point of vew.
Do you want to have an ideagasm?

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Is it homophobic to have this belief?



Pretty much ... yup.

You can't lay the blame for the breakdown in marriage to a group of people who can't get married:S:S:S:S:S


I would think more parents who love their children and wish to stay in a comitted relationship to raise them for longer amounts of time would be something you would welcome based on the other part of your stated belief.

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Perhaps an aspect of this discussion worth bringing to the fore is peoples perception of marriage. To me, it's the permanent binding of a male and female to be forever faithful to their partner. Now if they're gay, how can a species survive? So should we tolerate a minority of gay marriages within our society? To what purpose? to appease them? To demonstrate our modern tolerance to gay social members?



Are you worried about our species' survival? What other sort of things should we prevent in order to ensure the human species "survives".

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After all that's been accepted, what's next? There will certainly be a next -



What will be next in your opinion?
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>Where it effects me personally is the social problems we see through
>marriage breakdown.

So if you lived in Massachusetts, you would become a supporter of gay marriage, since divorce rates have declined since gay marriage became legal?



Brilliant argument . . . not.:|

So if you lived in the Netherlands, you would become a supporter of anti-gay marriage, since divorce rates have increased since gay marriage became legal?

'for it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "chuck 'im out, the brute!" But it's "saviour of 'is country" when the guns begin to shoot.'

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It has apsolutly nothing to do with the constitution. For centuries societies throughout the world have viewed Marriage.
As a union between Men and woman! Now a small percentage of the population wants to redefine the MEANING OF THE WORD!!!!
I could care less if someone's gay and think they should be treated equal.
And i'm all for civil unions. But not special rights! And that's exactly what it is if words are redefined for the benefit of a certain group of people.

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>So if you lived in the Netherlands, you would become a supporter of
>anti-gay marriage, since divorce rates have increased since gay marriage
>became legal?

No, because I think people should retain their rights even if rates of crime/divorce/poverty etc increase as a result. Human rights are more important than temporary safety.

However, you have stated that one of your biggest issues is "social problems we see through marriage breakdown." If that's the case, then surely if gay marriage were shown to help prevent marriage breakdown, you'd support it.

However, I suspect that's not your biggest (or even one of the bigger) issues.

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> For centuries societies throughout the world have viewed Marriage
>As a union between Men and woman!

Yep. And for centuries it was considered only legally valid between two people of the same race. We changed that, too.

>And i'm all for civil unions. But not special rights!

Agreed 100%. No special rights for gays OR heterosexuals. If your point is to abolish marriage completely and have civil unions for all, then I'd go with that (although simply allowing everyone to marry would be a lot easier.)

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> For centuries societies throughout the world have viewed Marriage
>As a union between Men and woman!

Yep. And for centuries it was considered only legally valid between two people of the same race. We changed that, too.



Equalizing rights is not the same as redefining the meaning of words. We didn't redefine "black" and "white" to mean "colorless" when the Civil Rights Act was passed.
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> For centuries societies throughout the world have viewed Marriage
>As a union between Men and woman!

Yep. And for centuries it was considered only legally valid between two people of the same race. We changed that, too.



Equalizing rights is not the same as redefining the meaning of words. We didn't redefine "black" and "white" to mean "colorless" when the Civil Rights Act was passed.



Dint ya git da memo... its ability to TAN now.

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I've been against gay marriage from the start.



And even though you've admitted you've moved away from all the original reasons you were against it, you're still against it. Which really does suggest your opposition has nothing to do with any rational reasons.



That doesn't matter; it's always been wrong in my agrument, because it is wrong. It's the supporters of gay marriage who are being irrational.

You shouldn't take discussions so personally and become emotional; that's neither here nor there. If somebodies method of arguing upsets you so much, perhaps you'd be better off doing something else.

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All ready explained. I doubt you'd pay any attention to the context though



I do pay attention, which is why I know that you haven't explained it all. By what mechanism does Gay marriage affect marriage as a whole? How does it happen?

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Then we disagree. And, despite your efforts, my beliefs are only reinforced.



I'm not trying to change your mind, I know that's futile. You wouldn't back away from arguing that the sky is green. However, just like Mr Griffin on Question Time, your arguments can stand as a warning beacon to anyone else who might have been vaguely leaning towards your point of vew.



Hahahaha! A warning beacon!!! Psml

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Perhaps an aspect of this discussion worth bringing to the fore is peoples perception of marriage. To me, it's the permanent binding of a male and female to be forever faithful to their partner. Now if they're gay, how can a species survive? So should we tolerate a minority of gay marriages within our society? To what purpose? to appease them? To demonstrate our modern tolerance to gay social members?



Are you worried about our species' survival? What other sort of things should we prevent in order to ensure the human species "survives".



The reference to survival is more to reinforce my point that gay marriage is wrong and abnormal.

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After all that's been accepted, what's next? There will certainly be a next -



What will be next in your opinion?



Incestual marriage. Polygamous marriage. Further undermining of an institution with negative social consequences.

'for it's Tommy this, an' Tommy that, an' "chuck 'im out, the brute!" But it's "saviour of 'is country" when the guns begin to shoot.'

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>So if you lived in the Netherlands, you would become a supporter of
>anti-gay marriage, since divorce rates have increased since gay marriage
>became legal?

No, because I think people should retain their rights even if rates of crime/divorce/poverty etc increase as a result. Human rights are more important than temporary safety.

However, you have stated that one of your biggest issues is "social problems we see through marriage breakdown." If that's the case, then surely if gay marriage were shown to help prevent marriage breakdown, you'd support it.



However, I suspect that's not your biggest (or even one of the bigger) issues.

Of course, because your unstated suspicion is that I'm a homophobe, yet I don't hate homosexuals nor fear them.:)

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The reference to survival is more to reinforce my point that gay marriage is wrong and abnormal.



I am wondering, however, if you believe our species_would_survive even if we allow gay marriage. If you believe we would survive, than I am not sure how survival reinforces your point that "gay marriage is wrong and abnormal".
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>Of course, because your unstated suspicion is that I'm a homophobe

No, because you've contradicted yourself on the gay-marriage-as-social-evil angle.



So that's my biggest issue? That I've contradicted myself? My biggest issue is that I'm against gay marriage.

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The reference to survival is more to reinforce my point that gay marriage is wrong and abnormal.



I am wondering, however, if you believe our species_would_survive even if we allow gay marriage. If you believe we would survive, than I am not sure how survival reinforces your point that "gay marriage is wrong and abnormal".



It's reinforcement is through the abnormality of homosexuality. It effects a minority people. Which is good. I also wish it to remain so.

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It's reinforcement is through the abnormality of homosexuality.



We can or cannot survive (or would it be more or less difficult?) if gay marriage is allowed?

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It effects a minority people.



Perhaps you have said before (too lengthy of a thread filled with irrelevance for me to read in its entirety), your statement sounds as if you submit one is born gay. Yes?
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That doesn't matter; it's always been wrong in my agrument, because it is wrong. It's the supporters of gay marriage who are being irrational.



Are you really that stupid?

You admit that you're opposition to gay marriage has absolutely nothing to do with any actual reasons that you can explain, it's simply down top your prejudice against it (it feels wrong) and yet you think it's other people who are being irrational? That's mental.

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If somebodies method of arguing upsets you so much, perhaps you'd be better off doing something else.



Your method of argument doesn't upset me. I fucking love it, it makes it so damn easy to prove you wrong at every turn. (It's also painfully obvious to everyone that you only trot out the 'emotional' card when you can't think of any other way to defend yourself. It's false, it's old and it stands up to no real scrutiny, just like all of your other arguments.

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Psml



You couldn't even get that right. Says it all, really.
Do you want to have an ideagasm?

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>My biggest issue is that I'm against gay marriage.

Right. And from what you've said so far, it's because you think it's just plain wrong. Not because society will be harmed by it, because you've said that you still wouldn't support it if it was shown to help straight marriages survive.

And the "it's just plain wrong" angle is the same angle used by the people who opposed interracial marriages, and kept them illegal in many parts of the US until 1967. Today, you think interracial marriages are OK, and that people who refuse to perform them are racists. Yet they are using the same logic; they just feel interracial marriages are wrong.

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It's reinforcement is through the abnormality of homosexuality. It effects a minority people. Which is good. I also wish it to remain so.



What do you mean by that? Do you think homosexuality would spread if gay marriage were allowed? Yu know it's not infectious, right?
Do you want to have an ideagasm?

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