Andy9o8 2 #76 February 24, 2010 QuoteI have found that in some cases, it is best to keep my mother blissfully ignorant of things that happen to me (like being mugged, for one). Telling her about my jumping hobby would place her into a constant state of anxiety that cannot be argued away through statistics and safety practices. Thus, there is no point in coming out with it since nothing constructive can come of it. Yep. I've mentioned that my mom's the hysterical type. I should also mention that her mom was also the hysterical type. When my mom's brother was deployed during WWII, my grandmother cried non-stop, 24/7, for 4 straight years - to the point where other moms whose sons were also away at war thought she was nuts. Some moms are just like that. No, you simply don't tell them things. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
emmiwy 0 #77 February 24, 2010 How many times have you heard the phrase "You'll understand how I feel when you become a parent". When I do tell my mom certain things, try to stand up for what I want to do that she doesn't agree with, I can be met with this form of resistance. It's always the most powerful weapon in a parent's arsenal. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KermieCorleone 0 #78 February 24, 2010 Quote With all do respect, Skymama, I must disagree with you, at least for me. I have a very good, “adult” relationship with my Mom. So much so that I don’t see the need to cause her lots of unnecessary stress and anxiety. And talking about the fatality rate??? You jest, no? First hand experience with this topic: in 1991 I was hiking to get to an untracked chute and I fell off a cliff above Alta, Utah. After I got out of the hospital I spent some time recovering at my parents house. They were great, but my Mom ran around saying (please read this quote with a Jewish accent): “It’s a plot to kill the mother! It’s a plot to kill the mother!” To this day, every time I go skiing she gets way, way nervous. Why put her though that every weekend? bwahahahaha, she sounds like my mum, bet yours is an expert in emotional black mail too ... Jewish mums are the same as Indian moms ...- Neil Never make assumptions! That harmless rectangle could be two triangles having sex ... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cjsgrlsx3 0 #79 February 24, 2010 I was 35 when I started skydiving and I told my parents before I started. My dad was pretty worried but wanted to see me do it. He was so excited that he paid for my A license. My mother did two tandems with me. Now my daughter wants to jump! Yes, I am a little worried! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Toasted_Cracker 0 #80 February 27, 2010 My parents know. Hell I even made my mom come watch me do a jump after I finished my AFF last year. I figured it would help ease her mind. I'm 29 BTW. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RickyHobby 0 #81 February 27, 2010 Yes, however my sister started jumping a year earlier so it was no big surprise to them that I got sucked in. Not that it would have mattered to me, but then again I am in my mid thirties... RickyHobby Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ABerry83 1 #82 February 28, 2010 Mine know...they both hate it. Back when I went through AFF I would mention it here or there and they would FLIP OUT. So I stopped talking about it completely with them and don't even tell them when I go or how much I go (they'd REALLY flip out then ). It was the best decision I ever made. Even if they ask, I shrug it off now cause it always ends bad. I don't have to deal with mom talking all negative about it and taking the fun out of it. Kinda sad really that they can't/won't ever share in the excitement, but don't worry about that...you'll find TONS of other jumpers that will be just as excited as you are about it on the weekends. Besides, you are doing it for yourself, right?!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sttucker13 0 #83 March 2, 2010 My parents came out to see me make my first jump and have shown up a few other times since then to watch. My grandpa was a pilot back in the day and when my dad was a kid he used to "kick" skydivers out of it, so he's okay with it. Mom on the other hand... not so much. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #84 March 3, 2010 Yup. Dad was an airborne jumper with the 519th M.I. Batallion at Fort Bragg in the early 90's(think Desert Shield, Desert Storm), then a D licensed jumper at Skydive Dallas late 90's, early 00's. Watching him airborne is the main reason I'm a jumper today. My Mom also knows I jump, and she couldn't care less. What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fcajump 164 #85 March 4, 2010 Quote So, do your parents know you jump? Did you outright tell them, or did they discover it some other way? How did they find out? What was the reaction? If my mother found out, I would be dead before I hit the ground, so I don't plan on coming out of the gear closet any time soon. What about you? Told Mom about jumping, but her rule was that I must tell her when I got back from the DZ, NEVER tell her when I was going TO the DZ... 'course, this was after she found out I had been taking sailplane lessons and we had the talk about "tell me what you're up to..." That was 20 years ago... now she comes out to see me jump. JAlways remember that some clouds are harder than others... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
