My heart goes out to you... It is always difficult to know what to say to people in these situations and not sound cheesy, cliche or a whole host of other things that I don't want to sound like so here goes: Be safe, be true to yourself and when the pain subsides maybe get up and try again. We are not all bad, and some of us even are aware that we have shortcomings and are willing to work on them.. Oh.. and in my experience relationships with whuffos are instantly stressed as they can't understand why you need to be at the DZ every weekend (If you like to be there that much), and that is a recipe for trouble. Not to say that it can't be done. Age S.E.X. party #2
..It is far worse to live with fear, than to die confronting it.