A friend of mine needs advice. She and a fellow have been broken up for a while now. She was out Saturday night and wanted to see him. She had a friend take her to the dz where he was and she stopped before she went in. She couldn't go in. What she needs to know is how to stop obsesing over this man. Ladies? any advice for this love sick girl? I'm a man and I can only say "forget him" but she can't. What is the best way to get over someone?