Yeah that's what I was looking for. I've been trying to have a realistic understanding of what happened from an experienced persons point of view, but since I have no past experience with this I really have no frame of reference for any of this.
I only have 1 jump, and so I know almost nothing about skydiving in general. I want to thank everyone for their responses because it helped me put this experience in perspective. It being my first jump the whole thing would have been exciting and terrifying, regardless of what happened. Seeing how experienced jumpers feel about the situation is interesting and something I can't relate to, but it helps me see the situation for what it really was.
I'm just getting started with this and so I don't really know much. Getting the perspective of someone who has done this more than once has been really informative. From what I've understood it's an unfortunate first experience that would terrify almost any first time jumper, but it probably isn't as serious as I'm making it out to be in my head, and that my instructor knew what he was doing and handled the situation very well, and while I may not have known what was going on, he had the situation under control. It might be a while before I go again, but I guarantee it won't be my last and I hope to one day be able to do a solo jump. Everyone here has helped me move on from my somewhat eventful first experience and for that again I want to say thank you.
(on a side note: my first ever jump was just outside Santiago, Chile, and it was an amazing view. I could see the Pacific Ocean in the west and on the east I could see Argentina. It was amazing and I hope to do it again sometime soon. I may not be able to see across an entire country on my next jump, but I'm still looking forward to it just as much.)